Quote: (01-20-2012 01:23 PM)Samseau Wrote:
By far and away, THE BEST routine ever posted on Roissy (I'm not sure I should share this):
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/06/0...a-routine/
Funny thing is, a GIRL used this on me some years back lol
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Funny thing is, a GIRL used this on me some years back lol
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Anyone know where this routine comes from? This sounds like it's based on some kind of formal psychoanalytic evaluation.
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I believe I read that it was, in fact, developed by research psychologists.
It is an awesome routine-image rich and emotionally evocative-some of the best chick crack there is.
I only fear it will become widely known and therefore useless to me.
So let us never speak of it again
Anyone know where this routine comes from? This sounds like it's based on some kind of formal psychoanalytic evaluation.
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I believe I read that it was, in fact, developed by research psychologists.
It is an awesome routine-image rich and emotionally evocative-some of the best chick crack there is.
I only fear it will become widely known and therefore useless to me.
So let us never speak of it again
"If anything's gonna happen, it's gonna happen out there!- Captain Ron
I know he wrote a few comments on the beta-provider approach...which is my specialty :-)
Another good one from the archives: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/04/18/inner-game/
Inner Game
April 18, 2008 by Heartiste
I have a friend who is very self-critical. When we go out to meet girls he will handicap his game by being too hard on himself. When he isn’t weaseling out of approaching girls with every excuse in the book he is projecting an overly attentive vibe when he does manage to enter a set. In the field, I’d often hear him say:
“I wonder if she got my jokes?”
“I hope I didn’t come off as too needy.”
“She’s probably looking for a different type of guy.”
Poor inner game — what is known by other jargon as your state of mind or your self confidence — is inwardly directed. Good inner game is outwardly directed. It’s the difference between berating yourself for not winning over others and berating others for not winning over you. The men who are naturally good with women live outside their minds — they are externally focused. The downside is that they are usually not very introspective, but who cares about that shit when you’re getting pussy? Introspection is for dainty young women in sundresses picking buttercups in meadows.
If my friend had good inner game what he would have said is:
“She loses points for not having a good sense of humor.”
“She’s the kind of girl who hides her insecurity behind aloofness.”
“I’ll chat with her to see if she’s the type of girl I want in my life.”
I hear a lot of talk about how Game routines are going stale, and chicks see right through them. In fact, the problem isn’t typically with the routines, it’s with the confidence and congruence in which they are delivered. If your inner game isn’t solid then what you present to the outside world won’t match what you are feeling inside. Your inner game is reflected through your body language and voice tone, so however clever your routines they will strike a false note if you don’t internalize the confidence you are trying to portray. You will betray yourself with negative thinking.
Fake it till you make it means faking that internal confidence as well as the external behavior. This is not as hard as it sounds. Every time you feel self-doubt and talk yourself into inaction, yell “Stop!” out loud, and your brain will reboot. You then consciously reframe your thought processes to put the burden of approval seeking on those around you. With good inner game you can say just about any ridiculous routine and the girl will be intrigued.
The most important change in thinking you can make:
You are not there to win over women, they are there to win over you.
Keep saying this over and over until you begin to believe it. You are re-wiring yourself. Don’t worry about the truth or falsity of it. That’s irrelevant.
The beauty of this system is that it turns the seduction template on its head. Co-opting a woman’s natural choosiness and making yourself the chooser instead of the chosen is extremely attractive to women. Because it hardly ever happens this way, women will happily strive to win the approval of a man who is clear in his words and his actions that he is judging them for worthiness of his attention, and not the other way around.
Inner Game
April 18, 2008 by Heartiste
I have a friend who is very self-critical. When we go out to meet girls he will handicap his game by being too hard on himself. When he isn’t weaseling out of approaching girls with every excuse in the book he is projecting an overly attentive vibe when he does manage to enter a set. In the field, I’d often hear him say:
“I wonder if she got my jokes?”
“I hope I didn’t come off as too needy.”
“She’s probably looking for a different type of guy.”
Poor inner game — what is known by other jargon as your state of mind or your self confidence — is inwardly directed. Good inner game is outwardly directed. It’s the difference between berating yourself for not winning over others and berating others for not winning over you. The men who are naturally good with women live outside their minds — they are externally focused. The downside is that they are usually not very introspective, but who cares about that shit when you’re getting pussy? Introspection is for dainty young women in sundresses picking buttercups in meadows.
If my friend had good inner game what he would have said is:
“She loses points for not having a good sense of humor.”
“She’s the kind of girl who hides her insecurity behind aloofness.”
“I’ll chat with her to see if she’s the type of girl I want in my life.”
I hear a lot of talk about how Game routines are going stale, and chicks see right through them. In fact, the problem isn’t typically with the routines, it’s with the confidence and congruence in which they are delivered. If your inner game isn’t solid then what you present to the outside world won’t match what you are feeling inside. Your inner game is reflected through your body language and voice tone, so however clever your routines they will strike a false note if you don’t internalize the confidence you are trying to portray. You will betray yourself with negative thinking.
Fake it till you make it means faking that internal confidence as well as the external behavior. This is not as hard as it sounds. Every time you feel self-doubt and talk yourself into inaction, yell “Stop!” out loud, and your brain will reboot. You then consciously reframe your thought processes to put the burden of approval seeking on those around you. With good inner game you can say just about any ridiculous routine and the girl will be intrigued.
The most important change in thinking you can make:
You are not there to win over women, they are there to win over you.
Keep saying this over and over until you begin to believe it. You are re-wiring yourself. Don’t worry about the truth or falsity of it. That’s irrelevant.
The beauty of this system is that it turns the seduction template on its head. Co-opting a woman’s natural choosiness and making yourself the chooser instead of the chosen is extremely attractive to women. Because it hardly ever happens this way, women will happily strive to win the approval of a man who is clear in his words and his actions that he is judging them for worthiness of his attention, and not the other way around.
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/11/2...ecurities/
and his theories on the tingle-generating defensive crouch. combine the two and make sure to bring an umbrella.
and his theories on the tingle-generating defensive crouch. combine the two and make sure to bring an umbrella.
Quote: (01-21-2012 11:55 AM)the_conductor Wrote:
Quote: (01-20-2012 01:23 PM)Samseau Wrote:
By far and away, THE BEST routine ever posted on Roissy (I'm not sure I should share this):
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/06/0...a-routine/
So I'm talking to a girl we're having a good time. I bring this up naturally (I bet your a girl that reads cosomo...) and than run this routine. Maybe I'm missing it but what does this routine accomplish? How does this lead to getting the bang?
Funny thing is, a GIRL used this on me some years back lol
Rob
Here are some of my fav's from Roissy...the lord and king ![[Image: banana.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/new/banana.gif)
State of Nature
Defining the Alpha Male
Through the Valley of the Shadow of Human Nature
Dating Market Value
Anti Game
Stumbling Blocks of Seduction
State of Mind
Body Language
Universal Truths Day
My Life Philosophy
The Self Made Beta
All the Inner Game You'll Ever Need
It Builds Character to Reject Women
What does it mean to be off the market?
Dating Market Value for Women
Thursdays Rule
The Limits of Game
State of Nature
Defining the Alpha Male
Through the Valley of the Shadow of Human Nature
Dating Market Value
Anti Game
Stumbling Blocks of Seduction
State of Mind
Body Language
Universal Truths Day
My Life Philosophy
The Self Made Beta
All the Inner Game You'll Ever Need
It Builds Character to Reject Women
What does it mean to be off the market?
Dating Market Value for Women
Thursdays Rule
The Limits of Game
Here's a good one: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/09/0...ot-likely/
He brings up an issue that I believe deals what a next stage of what my game focus might be. Namely, damage control, or how to keep things clean. He talks about how game doesn't leave girls better than you found them, but I'd be interested to know if anyone has thoughts on how to not make a mess with relationships (inner, personal, social-circle, etc).
He brings up an issue that I believe deals what a next stage of what my game focus might be. Namely, damage control, or how to keep things clean. He talks about how game doesn't leave girls better than you found them, but I'd be interested to know if anyone has thoughts on how to not make a mess with relationships (inner, personal, social-circle, etc).
Thanks all. I should print this shit out and leave it by my toilet lol.
Be a Skittles man! I can't believe this hasn't been mentioned yet.
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/05/1...ttles-man/
Here's another good one:
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/09/1...lf-esteem/
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/05/1...ttles-man/
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Two men, two vastly different experiences with women. One man gets all the pussy he wants for the bargain basement price of a bag of Skittles, while the other man marries a woman in a wedding ceremony featuring flowers that cost $15,000.
How much you want to bet the first guy’s rotation of girlfriends is hotter than the second guy’s $15,000 flower wife? How much you want to bet the first guy gets all the anal sex and blowjobs he desires while the second guy will be begging for his once-a-month sex as soon as the vows are exchanged? If one of these guys is a herb, who is it more likely to be?
FACT: Odds are good you will enjoy a bounty of pussy and love if you act like Skittles guy. FACT: Odds are good you will spend the rest of your life begging for tepid sex from the same old boring pussy if you act like $15,000 wedding flower guy.
Be a Skittles man. Don’t be a $15,000 wedding flower man.
Here's another good one:
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/09/1...lf-esteem/
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