Quote: (01-15-2012 11:39 AM)pitt Wrote:
I am wondering if anybody on here has been to Dusseldorf?
I am flying there in 2-3 months for business but i want to have some fun while im there. Anybody to breakdown about what goes on there, where to stay, easeness of girls, places to day game, hip hop clubs, how the local woman respond to ''brothers'', etc
I would appreciate if anybody could throw a datasheet on this.
Thanks
Hi Pitt. I'm a black American who has lived all over Germany for the past 7 years. I've written so many posts about Germany, I recommend you just look up my previous ones as I'll try to keep this short.
What people say about Bavaria is correct. It's the most conservative part of Germany, and one of the most racist (with Saxony and Thuringen being the most racist). Stay clear of Leipzig, Dresden and all the little towns around that area. I've been there a few times as, with everywhere, there's always a little contingent of German cuties that are into brothers everywhere you go. But there's much more girls and much easier spots where you are, in NRW.
No offense but most of the guys who are giving you advice on this thread sound like they've never been to Deutschland at all. German girls LOVE to fuck and German guys are NOT chumps in the sense that they'll just let you take the chick that they want. Yes they are afraid to approach from my experience, but if you let one in or near your set when the girl is feeling good it could be game over as they have the language advantage. They're more like set stealers lol. Bavarian guys are the most alpha I've seen. And the most good looking. Lethal combo.
I've fucked so many girls in Germany, particularly because I was black lol. German girls in your area LOVE black guys. Yes there is a hint of feminism there but not nearly as bad as in the US. Man if you go out to the AltStadt (or Mitte or whatever it's called in DDorf) and talk to chicks that are shopping you're guaranteed to get a number or an insta-date. Girls in NRW fucking love to party and love black guys. Now, you will have to make an effort and dress nice, work out, and at least spit a little bit of Deutsch. But it's so worth it in the long run.
Learning German absolutely 100% WILL increase your chances of getting laid, and wil increase your quality too. Like everywhere, the hottest looking chicks are always the ones that only speak the local language. They've always had it easy in their home country so have never had any desire to leave its borders. So why learn English!!?? You'll quickly notice that the club monsters that speak English and have been to America and England are a lot more ran thru than completely 100% German girls. German guys don't approach girls so a lot of the real hot ones never get hit up. All the virgins I've banged in Germany all spoke ZERO English. All the 9's and above I've banged in German knew ZERO English.
Brother... listen, here's what you need to do.
1) get yourself an online account on friendscout24.de, ilove.de, studivz.net, lokalisten.de, or one of those dating sites.
2) go shopping and ask the hottest girl that works at the store to dress you. I know it sounds crazy but trust me, it's good for two reasons. One, it's better to let a hot girl recommend something to you than some fucking dude, and two you may get a number out of it. Or at least some deets on where the other young hotties hang out.
3) german girls are stand-offish to strangers, but that DOES NOT MEAN THEY DON'T LIKE YOU!!!! it's a culture thing, deal with it. plow through it. make her laugh. german chicks are not feminazi's waiting to shoot a guy down. i've fucked so many girls that gave me the stone face when I first approached them. german guys never have the balls to do this, so you'll come off as super-auslander. if they try that I have a boyfriend shit just be like that's cool I just wanna get a coffee with you and practice my German or find out more about your city from you, or whatever. get that insta-date.
4) hit up the clubs regularly. the hottest chicks in the club ususally won't talk to a guy unless they've seen you there at least twice. if you wanna be a really player, talk to chicks there w/o the intention of getting the number. just talk to them and introduce yourself. talk to everyone. fuck guys, talk to girls. be nice and friendly, tell em you like germany, you're from the states, and move on to the next group. the next weekend you go there girls will be approaching you.
5) get a hobby. something to do that gets you outside often. when it starts to get warm, you'll need something to do and some friends to do it with. it puts you in a good mood. I recommend "fachhochschule" to learn German and to link up with fellow auslanders, barbershops to link up with Africans in the area to get more deets on black clubs (but don't make it a habit to hang out with hungry aggressive African dudes), and whatever else you're into to link up with single German guys (pickupartist.de??).
6) work all three resources: clubs, streets, online. this should keep you busy and your stable full. virtualnights.de has all the hottest clubs in NRW, and the people that take pictures at clubs usually have cards with links to their websites with MORE club intel. black clubs are low hanging fruit and it's good if you need to fill the stable, but I personally like the lilly white german chicks who have never fucked with black guys before. Hit up the Mondial (???) in Maastricht on Sundays. Hit up Antwerp and Brussels. Hip Hop Kemp in a few months. Man there's so much pussy where you are, there's no reason you should not be hitting some beautifully shaved Euro pussy every week.
Damn this ended up being long lol. Can't help it when I talk about Germany.