I suppose I didn't even answer my own request when I later replied to this thread, but I remember I posted this thread at a time when I was drawing blank after being in a weird mindset. I completely forgot everything, and had become a complete toad. How did everything come back all of a sudden? Well, from practice really. Not the type of practice you probably imagine though. My problem wasn't with the approach, so going out and approaching 10 girls wasn't going to do it for me, because my mindset wasn't right... so here's what happened.
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Before the Approach: The most important thing to approach is mindset. It's hard for me to explain it, because it is like this fluid feeling I have in my brain when I have that "feeling" and when I don't, I have to pump myself up. I used to do this before by listening to a lot of positive/hi-energy music. It helps when you're around really positive people. One thing that quickly helped me, I remember, was surrounding myself with "positiveness." This sounds super-new-agey, but bear with me. What I would do is listen to good music, watch good movies, read good books, basically get my mind back in order. I had been seeking a path before, by asking questions etc, but that wasn't what I needed, I figured out. What I needed was to reconnect with myself. To find out about myself again. Connect with things that I liked.
In summary: Since I had control over certain parts of my surroundings, I did my best to do what I wanted within those parameters. Progressing. The most important thing I need in my life is knowing that things are moving forward. I don't like the stinking cesspool of mediocrity.
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Approach: I am already pretty comfortable with the approach, because of all of the positive feedback I've gotten over the years. Of course, there has been the occasional negative feedback, but typically, if you feel good with yourself as a person, only the shittiest type of individual will give you negative feedback in an approach.
Things to remember in this section:
Body Language (which comes from feeling good about yourself, and realizing your worth) -- there's tons of info elsewhere so I won't go over this much. There is an exception to this though... I have had poor posture before, and it didn't really affect my game because what mattered was that even though I had poor posture (long hours behind a computer) my attitude was still positive and that helped.
Mojo -- What is mojo? It is knowing you can get some. It is the feeling you have when you know you're the shit. You might not be THE ABSOLUTE SHIT, which I don't believe in, because I believe in constant progress, but in your moment You Are The Shit. Say it to yourself. I'm the shit. I'm that really good shit. The shit that everyone loves. My momma loves me. My ex girlfriends loved me. I jizzed on their faces, and they still loved me. The girls I banged before loved me, but I don't care about all that because I LOVE ME. Where does this mojo come from, you might be wondering? No, it's not from having sex with a lot of women, although I'm sure it doesn't hurt... No, it comes from feeling good about yourself and realizing who you are again (remember me getting back to reading and progressing?). That's right. Feel good, baby! You deserve it!
What you say: This, to me, isn't nearly as important as the two above. If you feel good, and have a mojo glow, you can say some dumb shit and as long as you have some mojo and can get a girl to laugh, you're in. I remember once, I went up to a Brazilian girl dancing with her friend. I just went in and said I want to dance with you
And took her in. She loved it. I said something about wanting to grind her booty, and she said she wasn't drunk enough for that. Again, you probably wouldn't want to say you want to grind a girl's booty normally, but I say that kind of shit all the time, and girls like it. Why? Because of Mojo. I deserve it baby!
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After the Approach:
One thing about Mojo is assuming comfort with everybody. This is mumbo jumbo talk for just feeling good with yourself and those around you. Seek positive, and you will get positive. Feel good and people will respond to you good. With this in mind, if you got this far, it can go in many different ways depending on how the situation is escalating. I am very touchy-feely early on, and I tend to smell amazing, so in chick-logic, that means I am a guy a lot of girls wouldn't mind getting with. So from here, well, it's auto-pilot. I escalate fast, and am very direct. I don't care what other people think, because I zone in on the girl. Whenever I'm in my own world the world revolves around me. I don't believe in "The Secret" or whatever, so no, I don't think you can WANT your way into a new career, but you CAN "WANT" your way into a girl's pants. Trust me.