Quote: (01-15-2011 08:35 AM)playa_with_a_passport Wrote:
I don't know about the other guys on this forum and this might sound cliche but I don't travel because of pussy. However, I am not knocking the ones who do and more power to them. Any ass that I get while abroad is a bonus. In fact, the country that have I enjoyed the most was the one that I got laid a grand total of 0 times(Bolivia).
As far as the pros/cons of P4P this has been discussed here Ad nauseam and I have nothing else to add.
I didn't mean to discuss the pros/cons of paying for sex. But reading your particular situation prompted me to register here and post a reply. You spent the whole day in the DR looking at beautiful women, but at the end of the night, when the "group of hot hos" demanded a little money for their time, you balked. Given the reality of the situation in the DR, I would have spent the relatively insignificant amount of money required to get one of them up to my room.
But that's just me. I have no qualms about paying for it directly, and I consider my time much more valuable than my money.
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I am wondering how many times you done this and to which islands you have brought sand to the beach? If you are paying for the whole trip and all she's bringing to the trip is her pussy then you are tricking and just made it harder for the next playa who dates her down the line.
I've done it 5 times, and I don't consider it "bringing sand to the beach". Apart from going on vacation with long-term girlfriends, I've done this on 5 separate occasions, but they were always with girls who were golddigger types anyway.
There are a couple of topless bars here in LA that I hang out at with my drinking buddy. Imagine a combination strip club/bar where alcohol is served, lapdances are provided, but the girls only take off their tops and must wear at least a bikini bottom.
I go to these places a few times a month with my drinking buddy, and we have a strict no lapdance rule. We're there to hang out, drink, enjoy the vibe, but without becoming punters. The girls know this and pretty much leave us alone when it comes to their lapdance hustle. But I have become friends with some of them and dated some of them. On 3 separate occasions I flat out invited a girl to spend the weekend with me i in Vegas. I made it clear that we would be sleeping together, and they agreed, as long as I paid for everything. 2 of these weekend trips worked out great, and I invited each girl on a separate week-long trip with me. One to Oahu, and the other to Cancun. Again, I paid for everything, but in exchange I had a sexy young stripper as my constant companion.
The 3rd Vegas trip didn't work out so well. We started having sex on the first night, and she suddenly changed her mind and ran to the bathroom. I ended up buying her a cheap flight back to LA the next morning.
But keep in mind, I'm just a hedonist/pervert with my eyes on the pussy prize. The game doesn't so much matter to me, except that it gets me where I need to go.
I have a high-paying career in corporate America, and my vacation time is often precious and brief. I cannot take 6 months to go to South America like some guys on this board, and when I travel I prefer to spend my time doing tourist activities and generally "seeing the world". I can't be bothered spending that valuable time chasing girls. That's a luxury I save for when I'm at home.