Quote: (11-13-2011 10:07 PM)soup Wrote:
Does anyone have advice on this or some basics? I'm starting to get a few things going simultaneously, and I want to avoid hurting anybody's feelings if possible. I'd like to have all of them and am also addicted to the hunt.
Should I let them know upfront or at all? I think I saw something about this online but can't remember where, so please post any pertinent links.
There's this concept in my head...what is it...OH, that's right:
Don't tell them.
If one asks you about others, respond like, "Baby you wear me out, how could I have the energy for someone else?"
"What kind of man do you think I am?"
"I can't believe you ask me that -- how could I make love to you the way I do if there were someone else?" (This assumes, of course, you are fucking her like a porn star and you make her cum multiple times).
Notice how the responses never SAY you're with someone else.
In other words, express outrage (in a sarcastic teasy way) to trigger their hamster to think you're exclusive. Get their imaginations rolling. Don't ever EVER admit to having another woman -- or two, or three. Ever.