[ElJefe]

I'm never a fan of burning bridges, but obviously you've miscommunicated your intentions DH.

Now the air is bad, and there is a lack of trust between you both - from now on, everything both of you do will be interpreted as having negative intentions, and that shit's just counterproductive.

So, cut the girl lose feelings-wise, but be a cool host and let her stay, let her pay for shit as indicated before, if possible - but you're the host, you gave the invitation, it's YOUR JOB as a host to be generous.

From now on she's just a buddy for whom you have no feelings. I don't think you can fuck her anymore. You'll want to act like the rejection from the other day is no big deal. Let her know the house rules, and get her to help do do the chores:

Cleaning up, wiping down the bathroom, doing dishes, laundry (+100 if you have sweaty clothes from the gym) including she can't bring other dudes back because you're not interested in hearing her fucking. You can't stop her from making out with other guys though. Be fair, and DON'T be afraid to ask for help with chores. Starting farting in her presence. When she bitches about something, tell her to take a hike to cool off and come back later. If she tries to start an argument, tell her she can leave.

Do not get angry. Do not raise your voice. Ever. You've have a quota for how much emotion you can show at certain stages, and I think you've used yours.

I'd get a hold of that other girl you got and fuck her, though ASAP. Use viagra.

[darkhorse]

@XXL
LOL, yes BJ first night and fucked her 3 times after that. She's shit in bed though. I mean, the first time I thought she was shy but the next 2 times proved that she only knows how to lay there like a dead fish.

@dongthrust
Excellent point - she has done nothing to make her worthy of my time apart from spreading her legs. And that's old now.

@jariel
Yeah, you're right. Oh well, live and learn.

@eljefe
Yup, that's the way I'm handling it. Just treating her as a couchsurfer now and as a polite host she can stay (it's only 2 more days). But I have zero emotion towards her presence. Haven't suggested hanging out at all & haven't spent a cent since all that drama - went out with my buddies the last two nights and just said "I'm going out, have a good night!"

Today, I asked her how her day was in a polite but disinterested way. She said how "a few friendly guys" had chatted her up that day and one even bought her a drink. I laughed saying that was awesome and that she was lucky that I hadn't been with her because they may have not have been interested in her then.

She then asked me if we could go out to dinner and hang out. I said I had dinner plans but maybe after. This girl sure loves her mind-games. And although I have no interest in her company, I'm curious to practice my game on her for educational purposes.

I said "sure" but I'm still not going to spend a cent and may try to bang her again, just to see if I can. Then I'll leave her to go hang out with my buddies. It's all a game anyway, so I might as well have my fun.

Thanks for the advice and post-drama analysis guys - obviously I have much to learn!!

[darkhorse]

report: success

[XXL]

well in that situation practice some jedi mind tricks on her you know mindfucking her. it seems she makes a perfect training bag

[darkhorse]

Just wanted to drop a note to say she left for her flight today. THANK GOD.

Thanks for the advice and constructive criticism folks. Made lots of dumb mistakes and definitely learned a few things. I think I'm going to lay low for the next few days and go back to basics - finish Day Bang and re-read some of my other PUA books.

[Caligula]

Charge it to the game.

Nothing wrong with mistakes as long as you're learning.