Men give love to get sex; women give sex to get love.
Denial. Most men are in denial. Political correctness is killing America. Whenever someone points out the true nature of women, the PC-installed bot inside the man's head immediately turns on and says,"Not all women are like that; you're stereotyping. You have to look at the individual. etc." This is one of the main reasons guys have trouble accepting Game. Growing up, we are all taught that we are special little snowflakes, that it's mighty terrbile to generalize and stereotype. To do so would mean that you're evil, anti-American, politically incorrect, etc. You are swimming up against a giant wave in the opposite direction.
Learning Game is revolutionary. It is as if you are given the stone tablets on how to seduce women from God Himself.
I believe that it takes a certain amount of intelligence, curiosity, and frustration for one to accept Game. Personally, I wouldn't offer advice to a beta unless he was showing signs that he was willing to change. People have reputations to maintain at work, school, and family. Give a person the wrong impression, and it could potentially backfire. For instance, I discovered Game via Roissy through a link on another blog. At first, I didn't know what the blog was about or anything. But after a reading a few posts I was horrified at the idea that men were treating women so badly and leaving them after having sex and treating them as sex toys. I thought,"Women don't want to be treated that way." But then I saw how successful guys were. Beta of the month also helped me see the light.
Humans are emotional creatures. It takes a lot to set aside your current beliefs and analyze them and compare to the real world. People don't like to admit that they're wrong. How many times have you seen two people arguing, and then one person makes a sequence of logical steps that shows that his idea is superior to the other's, and then the other person says,"Wow, you made such a great rational, convincing, logical argument. You win." Never. I've never seen something like that.
Most guys never question the system until they have a bad experience with women. It is not until they notice a glitch in the matrix that they finally start to sense that something is wrong, that things aren't supposed to be this way.
This is a good post about how guys go through accepting Game, which I thought exactly mirrored my own experience:
http://dangerandplay.wordpress.com/2011/...ciousness/
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Denial is where 90% of American men are. These are the beta males who deny the truth of women. When they are rejected and abused by American women, the beta makes excuses. “She only behaved that way because of …” An alpha male never makes excuses for his girls’ misbehavior, as denial is a trait of betas.
Anger is where 90% of game bloggers are. CAN YOU BELIEVE HOW FAT AND OUT OF TOUCH THESE AMERICAN WOMEN ARE?! Once guys leave the denial phase, they are outraged at the abuse women expect these men to take. The talk about unfairness and double standards. Instead of coolly exploiting the system, they vent and rage.
Bargaining is a level of consciousness few men reach, and yet it’s not a high level of spirituality. The “bargaining man” agrees that women are problematic, but claims they will change if he only runs strong relationship game. “My game is tight, so my girl won’t pull the stunts she pulls on other guys.” He is always making deals with women rather than showing them the door.
Depression hits when a man realizes that everything he learned about women was a lie. Once you understand women, it becomes harder to deal with them. Parents avoid petulant children, and a high-level man starts avoiding the women-children that comprise American females. The “depressed man” asks: Why bother?
Acceptance is where a man accepts women as they are, but on his own terms. The “accepting man” knows American women are incorrigible, while also realizing he himself enjoys sex and occasional female companionship. He runs game to get what he wants out of women, but does not believe he will change any given woman. He lives a life of freedom.
Food and sex.
This was one of my biology professor's favorite sayings. If you want to understand and study an organism, you learn how it takes in food and how it reproduces. The primary goal in life is to reproduce and have as many multiple offspring as possible. You eat food to give you the energy to have sex and reproduce. Simple as that.
For the most part, our food supply concerns are mostly taken care of in the U.S. along with other basic necessities. Once a man finally masters the mechanics of human reproduction, he is left wondering,"Is this all there is?" He sinks into depression, a stage which I'm currently trying to get out of. With his life's biological needs taken care of, he ponders the meaning of life, life's purpose, etc. He is enlightened, but sad at the same time. Sort of like how the boy in the
The Giver finally sees reality as it is.
I wholeheartedly believe that virtually all men who undertake the study of Game will eventually hit depression. How long they stay in depression, or even if they get out of it, is another matter. If I'm not mistaken, Neil Strauss had to convince Mystery from killing himself.
You have to ask if a man is ready to take the red pill. Is he ready to face the consequences of knowing just how deep the rabbit hole goes?
The Truth About Women:
http://www.bristollair.com/2008/inner-ga...out-women/
