Particularities of gaming in France
05-08-2018, 06:14 AM
First off, I just want to thank all the previous posters in this thread for sharing their wealth of knowledge on this place. Lots of great information here for those like myself who have only recently started to become interesed in getting to know this country, culture, and her people better in order to possibly build upon some of my previous positive experiences.
Despite my rather small sample size and rather modest experience with French women (compared to most of the posters here, that is), I must admit that i’ve experienced a pretty unique pattern with them where i’ve felt like I could always just let loose and unapologetically be myself around them, and often feel so comfortable, I never catch myself overanalysing my words or foolishly overthinking things like i’ve been guilty of doing at various times back in my younger and more vulnerable years.
Unlike most women I’ve met and conversed with from around the world, the French women seem to be very well in touch with that 6th sense for that “feeling” of energy one can emit. Most women typically already possess this, yet many are either unaware of it, or their instinctive reflex for it just lies dormant, like some frustrated, ancient volcano which is well overdue to finally blow those inner magmatic juices all over the freshly cleaned bed sheets. What i’m referring to, of course, is with regards to how they feel in a man’s ‘presence’, and just that general vibe of comfort and that’s inferred without even having to ever say much, if anything, at all.
I found this attribute very similar to the Russian women I got a chance to know the past year, and it’s a shame that it’s not so easy to find elsewhere, and not quite as universally exhibited/revered as it deserves. A real shame, given how simple and obviously beneficial it is to practice such measures as having good posture, exhibiting strong body language, and being a man who takes what’s rightfully his, but does so in a way that still, by all rites, is forever clever and dignified (i.e. absolutely NO hover-handing, or having a weak touch that makes her feel as if a spider is crawling on her. At least I haven’t ever heard of that ingratiating a man to the woman he adores beyond the remote parking lot area of her figurative Friendzone Used Car Lot.
Really feels as if the magnetically charged spiritual energy from within is what does (and probably should) do most of the talking for you, anyway, as it seems having that powerful, gravitational pull of charisma really can go a long way in providing the comfort and security that most women are biologically inclined to seek. I defiinitely sense more appreciation for this from them than back in the States.
Now while the Russian girls I had the privilege of being with last year were very similar in this respect as well, there still seems to be at least one notable difference that has made the French woman ever so slightly more noticeable and intriguing to me, which seems to simply be more in-line with my own personal style and taste for using the power of prose to be creative in maintaining that ever delicate interest of theirs, as they are definitely flakey as all hell. I dn’t take it personally or anything, though, because it’s pretty obvious to me that it’s not done in a mean spirited way (or they’re just pros at hiding it lol), and just akin to their particular flavour. It takes some getting used to, but I think it’s still worth it, imo.
Of course, allow me to once again remind that my experience here is obviously not nearly as robust as some of the other posters here, most especially those who can actually speak French and doesn’t have to always rely on being aloof, mysterious, or have a location independent occupation to help break the ice and garner interest. I’m pretty pathetic at language learning like a typical English speaker (shamefully, but it is what it is, and usually isn’t the part I screw up, anyway), but if they’re willing to be a little patient and give me the time needed to build trust in them, i’m willing to give it an honest effort, for whatever that might be worth.