I once started a long, controversial thread here asking about hostility. But I just had an epiphany. Cupcake described an Online Date Disaster and concluded I will not tolerate deception and allow myself to be forced into a shit date ever again.
Roosh echoed that he empathized with these "nice guy" tendencies. Yet Roosh posts essays such as "How I Planted The Seed Of A Revenge Cockblock" or "Do You Have To Stand Right Next To Me?".
Here is the f*cking problem. Too many men act decently and get treated badly. We need to foster a cynical attitude as a counterweight to our own chivalrous tendencies. I once worried this would engender a bitter, mysogynistic, and unattractive attitude. But now I think it is the opposite. A balanced attitude is healthy because it limits your frustration and steers your energy toward cheerful, positive interactions. You can train yourself to avoid black holes and time sinks of negativity and instead spend your time more productively with positive, rewarding women. Ultimately this will keep you warm, cheerful, and more effective with receptive targets. Let me know if I'm on the right track here, guys.
Roosh echoed that he empathized with these "nice guy" tendencies. Yet Roosh posts essays such as "How I Planted The Seed Of A Revenge Cockblock" or "Do You Have To Stand Right Next To Me?".
Here is the f*cking problem. Too many men act decently and get treated badly. We need to foster a cynical attitude as a counterweight to our own chivalrous tendencies. I once worried this would engender a bitter, mysogynistic, and unattractive attitude. But now I think it is the opposite. A balanced attitude is healthy because it limits your frustration and steers your energy toward cheerful, positive interactions. You can train yourself to avoid black holes and time sinks of negativity and instead spend your time more productively with positive, rewarding women. Ultimately this will keep you warm, cheerful, and more effective with receptive targets. Let me know if I'm on the right track here, guys.
