Just lying awake unable to sleep, staring into the abyss for the millionth time and felt compelled to throw this out there, hoping someone has conquered a similar problem and feels like sharing their experience.
My shyness has both led me to and followed me through a handful of cities, alcoholism, cocaine abuse, benzo abuse, and eventually when the self-medicating stopped working, self-imposed isolation and schizoid-like withdrawal from life.
In the past I successfully channeled it into obsession with business and self-improvement but if anything, the resulting massively increased value and attractiveness only magnified the problem because of the increased attention and expectations that came along with it.
I don't really have any other insight except for the fact that this all seemed to begin a few years ago when I started smoking weed alone every night and discovered the manosphere. I was maybe a bit on the neurotic side before then but perfectly normal with a normal social life, friendships, and relationships. I stopped smoking years ago but the change in my internal thought processes have persisted ever since.
I can't stress enough how ready I am to take action and beat this, I could just really use some guidance and maybe a nudge in the right direction. I haven't been able to do it alone so far.
My shyness has both led me to and followed me through a handful of cities, alcoholism, cocaine abuse, benzo abuse, and eventually when the self-medicating stopped working, self-imposed isolation and schizoid-like withdrawal from life.
In the past I successfully channeled it into obsession with business and self-improvement but if anything, the resulting massively increased value and attractiveness only magnified the problem because of the increased attention and expectations that came along with it.
I don't really have any other insight except for the fact that this all seemed to begin a few years ago when I started smoking weed alone every night and discovered the manosphere. I was maybe a bit on the neurotic side before then but perfectly normal with a normal social life, friendships, and relationships. I stopped smoking years ago but the change in my internal thought processes have persisted ever since.
I can't stress enough how ready I am to take action and beat this, I could just really use some guidance and maybe a nudge in the right direction. I haven't been able to do it alone so far.