"Warming Up" a Girl Over Text
09-24-2011, 02:51 PM
Here are the exchanges for the last 2 girls that I banged. I will start with the verbal exchange that I used in the initial approach and then give you a slightly abbreviated version of the text exchange that followed.
Girl #1: Walking thru a college campus, I saw a girl wearing some tight pants with little openings along the outer thigh, very sexy, young latina..
Approach Dialogue..
me: nice pants, those are hot
girl: oh, thanks
me: those make me wanna have a drink and go dancing or something
girl: haha
me: you must not be from around here?
girl: I'm from LA
me: I could tell, girls around here don't know how to dress
her: I noticed that
me: how long you been up here?
her: blah,blah, blah
me: U smoke? (weed)
her: sometimes
me: blah, blah, blah
We walked and talked for about 2 blocks. She kept giggling, which I like. I
asked for her number and she gave it to me.
Text Exchange:
2 days after I met her. I waited 2 days because it just felt right. We had a fun and lively conversation when we met. I didn't want to let that momentum die down..
me: Hey little mama, I just got out of class, wanna smoke?
20 minutes later..
her: I'm not on campus, I have a job interview
me: k, handle your biz
her: thx
3 days after that..
me: this weather is fucking up my wardrobe!
her: lol I didn't know it was this bad
me: we get our summer in sept/oct
her: oh
me: u gotta have some cold weather fashion
her: I am realizing that
me: whats your schedule like later this week? lets kick it
her: not sure, ill let u know
me: k, keep it saucey
her: i will
At this point I decided that I will not contact her anymore. I told her that I wanted to kick it, so the ball was in her court.
2 Days later..(friday night around 7pm)
her: whats up?
me: chillin, u?
her: bored
me: wanna hang?
her: ok
Blah, blah, blah
I picked her up, we went to the store to get food and also so I could build some comfort before suggesting that we go to my house to smoke. After about 20 minutes in the store, I said.."wanna go kick it my house and smoke a j".
2 hours a later she was on my couch, with her shirt off, and sitting on top of me.
Banged the next date.
Girl #2:
Approach Dialogue..
Me: Cool bag, is that from Peru?
Her: Hah, it looks like that doesn't it? But I got it in Alabama
Me: What? Alabama?! I was thinking more like South America or something
Her: I know, my aunt got it for me. Hey what language were you just speaking?
Me: Oh thats Portuguese. From Brazil.
Her: I was wondering were that was from. It sounds cool
Me: Do you speak any other languages?
Her: No, just English, but I'm practicing my Italian.
Me: Portuguese is the cousin of Italian.
Her: Are you Brazilian?
Me: Ya (not true), how bout you?
Her: German and Italian
Blah Blah Blah. I knew she was feeling me because she was giving me good eye contact, smiling, laughing, and asking me personal questions.
Her: It was so nice chatting with you
Me: Ya, you too, why don't you give me your number and we can get a drink or something sometime.
Her: Ya, I'd be down for that.
Handed her my phone.
3 days later...
me: hey nina
her: hi gio
me: what time is your break tmw? wanna hang out?
her: sure my break is 11-2
me: ok, lets meet at 1
her: ok where?
me: the same spot we met
her: k
Next Day. We met and walked around campus for a while. Since she is a freshman, I showed her some cool, secret spots around campus. No makeout but some light touching.
2 days later..
me: another campus tour tmw?
her: sounds good, what time?
me: I get up there around 1
her: ok I have class at 2
me: ok, trxt you when I get up there.
Next day..
her: im really sorry, i can't hang out today, how bout tmw?
me: no prob. what time tmw?
her: my break is 12 to 4
me: ok, around 130
her: k
Next day..
We meet at school and I suggest leaving campus to go somewhere sunnier. I say lets go to my neighborhood and I'll show you my new apartment.
2 hours later she has my cock in her hand.
Banged the next date.
As you can see, I didn't do much attraction and comfort building by text. Most of that stuff was done in person. Texting was just for continuing momentum and setting dates.
Of course, I do think its possible to "warm things up" by text, I just think its easier to do in person. But thats just me, I'm sure there are guys out there who can really get shit going over text.