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09-17-2011, 02:12 AM
I was at a small house party tonight. I was spitting game at a solid blonde who was giving me all the right IOI's. A buddy of mine who is good looking and has decent game was there. He wasn't intentionally hitting on my girl, he was just being himself and all the girls at the party were giving him interest. My girl basically threw herself at him, as well as the rest of the girls there. I was talking to another friend at the party and he said that this happens every time he is around.
I was doing everything right but this guy is way above my level. He is one of those guys where girls throw themselves at him when he isn't even trying. Is there any way to out game him without looking like you are trying to out game him?
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09-17-2011, 02:20 AM
Find out early which girl he wants and go for a different one. He can't hook up with all of them.
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09-17-2011, 02:45 AM
I used to have a friend like that back in college. Not the greatest game, but good alpha characteristics - he was tall, had a loud voice, and the right I-don't-give-a-fuck attitude. And he'd always steal all the girls. The solution I found was to stop hanging out with him.
It was crazy the shit he pulled... once we were at a house party and there were only a few people left in the end. So I start making out with this one girl in the kitchen, and he is in the bedroom with another girl. Then he decides he does not like his girl, goes out in his boxers and starts talking to my girl... guess what - she ate it and 5 minutes later went to the bedroom with him, and they kicked out the first girl. She did not dig me so I had to stay high and dry when we could have both banged a girl each if he did not want to switch. Guess what - this did not win him many friends. It's not all about the bitches in the end.
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09-17-2011, 01:18 PM
Part from your wingman and isolate your respective girl as soon as possible. That means taking her into a separate room, but that's not always viable at a house party. Have him talk one on one to his girl, and no one else. He should hardly be noticeable to anyone but his girl. But if he's one of these 'life of the party' types, he may cockblock you with his sizable presence. In general, your wingman should hardly be talking to your girl at all, you always want to get in two parallel one on one convos ASAP.
Just curious, would you describe your friend's attractive qualities in more detail?
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09-17-2011, 01:40 PM
I second the "dont game with him" solution, but only if you dont want to learn anything - at least when you want pussy for yourself. Realize you can also learn a great deal by adopting his mannerisms, eccentricities, etc. Pay attention to his body-language, the way he talks, what he talks about - I learnt a lot about how to have a dumb conversation from some of my friends.
Rule of thumb: you never want to outshine your buddy, nor do you want to be out-shined. This is why going dolo is nice. No matter how big a heart you got, if you have your heart set on a girl and your buddy gets her just because he has higher sexual market value, it breeds resentment at the most primal level.
but keep your buddy around when you want to make a good impression on other dudes' girlfriends. He'll be great for networking. Also consider just being friends with him because you two get along great. That's usually a good reason.
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09-17-2011, 04:43 PM
Honestly I used to think I you shouldn't hang out with a guy like that, my cousin is a model and super charismatic guy and he'd always get with the hottest chicks while I struggle. But it helps so much to learn about game from hanging out with him that I feel like you'd do yourself a disservice not going out to game with him. He can only get 1 or 2 girls and if you go to venues with lots there will still be plenty of cute ones for you. Keep working on your look and game to shorten the difference and you two can do terrible damage out there. There will be times that he'll go out with a hot chick and you will have access to her friends and might even pull a girl slightly cuter than the hot chick so its not like you'll always get second best either.
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09-17-2011, 05:52 PM
His alphaness is above yours, and short of him becoming a beta chump anytime soon or you gaining some amazing new skill or cash flow, you won't surpass him.
Either avoid him or communicate with him more. 25% through a party, ask him, "Which girl are you going to bang tonight?" He'll probably pick out 2-3 girls, so just either avoid those girls or ask him if you can have one of them. Don't be too weesh to ask if you can have a girl, I'm sure he has plenty of pussy and doesn't need the girl you want.
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09-17-2011, 06:14 PM
Thanks for all the help guys, I really appreciate it. I'm sure some of my friends feel this way about me, but this is the first time I've experienced it first-hand. I'm going to do what I can to use it to my advantage.
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09-17-2011, 07:11 PM
I've always tried to get in good with guys like this, not avoid them. Once your in with guys like that all they have to say is "this is my dude right here" and you've now been proofed simply by being with him. As others said make sure you aren't going for the same girls because he WILL outclass you, but if the ratio of alpha guys to girls is right then you can both easily make out like bandits.
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09-18-2011, 09:09 AM
Survival of the fittest. Fact of life. One of my best friends used to be a male model. He had very good cocky style game but to be honest he's a bit of prick. Do girls care.. no. They will naturally be attracted to the superior male. Over time they may become aware of his flaws but guess what.. they are still going to want to sleep with him. In my opinion if you dont want to be out gamed avoid hanging out with the guy when you are on the pull. Do your upmost to be the the best in room. Nobody wants second best. Harsh but true.
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