[Bain]

The word Game now seems to bring up a lot of negative emotions especially in women and also in guys.

Many seem to understand it as a competition. You are competing with a woman to get more from her than she gets from you. That is what I find some see it as.

Although the word Game might be the accurate word to describe the gender relation dynamic, it now seems to be a dead word which brings out the worst in both men and women.

For me personally I have replaced the word game with the word Dance. I find it keeps me more in a positive and even more happy state when dealing with women.

I am mentally dancing with her - trying to bring out the best in her and myself and seeing if we do a good dance together.

I have done salsa and other dances for a while now. Some get together and do a beautiful dance together while others dance together terrible.

Should we get rid of teh word Game now and perhaps replace it th Dance?

[xxx]

Game for me means character, personality, technique, and balls.

It honestly has nothing to do with women.

[Bain]

This is more about how the word Game is being perceived - rather than your interpretation of it.

[RatInTheWoods]

Game is a many meaning word we use as slang amongst ourselves.

It doesn't matter what others think of the word, because you would never use that word outside of game aware men, right?

[pancakemouse]

(01-07-2018 08:20 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

Game is a many meaning word we use as slang amongst ourselves.

It doesn't matter what others think of the word, because you would never use that word outside of game aware men, right?

Tons of people use the word Game outside of the community. I hear it all the time. Always in a positive light, too.

Girls have told me "you've got game" and asked "how's your game?"

[BossOfBosses]

Why does the word game mean different things to different people? Can we all agree on a dictionary definition please?

[Mercenary]

(01-07-2018 02:50 PM)Bain Wrote:  

Should we get rid of teh word Game now and perhaps replace it th Dance?

[heavy]

It's called Game is because to women, it's all a game. We see it as solving a problem, a convergent thought process on how to get laid.

The more you can see it as women do, as a game to simply have fun, the better you'll do. Enjoy the process. That's why women love foreplay. They don't care as much about the end, winning or losing. They're just playing to have fun.

It's Candyland, not a war.