Hey so I've never really written one of these before but I've been enjoying my participation in this forum thus far and have found people have some interesting things to say so I might as well participate more.
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So a couple weeks ago I banged my 10th girl, which is honestly pretty cool because (YES I am fully aware that number is nothing to brag about, but like its decent enough I don't feel insecure admitting it truthfully even with guys who fuck way more, if that makes sense) after being a pretty late starter with the girls (didn't kiss a girl till spring my senior year of high school (!) and didn't fuck till I blacked out smashed a fatty spring my freshman year of college) I'm starting to feel okay about how sexually experienced I am.
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This lay was also kind of special because: (1) I have yet to have a "real" (ie actually dating and exclusive for more than a month) relationship with a girl, something I'm actually really insecure about at age 22, but I really liked girl/notch #8 and we were hooking up a decent amount until she ghosted me and presumably fucked another guy. Point being notch #9 came when I was hammered drunk a couple weeks after that happened and could barely get erect, and so this was like the first time I've had actual actual sex since then, and I think the second lay is really helping me forget about previous girl. (2) I got a blowjob from a prostitute in Pattaya once, but I didn't have sex with her and I paid so that time didn't really count. So that means this girl (FOB from the PRC) is my yellow card.
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As to how it went down, I originally met her off tinder, but she goes to the same university as I do so it's kind of a different dynamic. 3-4 (don't wanna think hard enough to remember exactly) of the girls I slept with came through tinder, but I think all of them either went to my high school or college, so it was kind've a different thing, you're not really strangers. Sidenote on Tinder, I think a lot of "natural" game type guys or dudes who are sufficiently alpha to not need game do tend to kind of look down on it and if u have friends like this they might give you a little shit over it, but like I think it's almost inevitable you're gonna get some shit as to how you pick up chicks so roll with it. Also I kinda like it because: (1) honestly the average attractiveness of tinder girls I've slept with is higher than the average attractiveness of normal girls, fwiw or what that says about me (2) I don't really like (though of course sometimes you must do it) pounding the pavement at the bars and just doing approach after approach, I think partially because my father abandoned me and therefore I could not develop a full suite of the alpha male traits, but instead had to choose and cultivate a select few I could learn on my own, and therefore the crazy bullshitting performative alpha bar stunt you're supposed to run on girls just doesn't come to me naturally, and also my game is definitely much more suited to like being able to actually sit down and hold a conversation with a chick because I can do that, unlike most people
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W/r/t logistics, after we matched I immediately remembered the advice of the venerable Gavin Macinnes as written in The Vice Guide to Getting Laid (well before that publication was sent deep into the cuck shed), where he recommends treating Asian-American girls as being like super stereotypically american basic and stereotype them based on where they're from ("You're from Indianapolis? Oh my god that makes so much sense, you're such a midwestern girl.") I saw that this Asian Chick has a conventional American first name and listed some favorite rap song or something. So I go full-in on this approach, opening by quoting some retarded rap lyric (skrrrrt or something like that) and we hit it off. I start pushing to meet-up, but she acts super flaky and then the first night we schedule something concrete, she flakes out. She's still like super consistently texting me at this point however, so I know that I might still have a chance. A couple nights later I hit her up and, after some requisite flakiness, I pick her up. That's when I hit the first snag - I register her accent is thick as fuck, but don't remember to change up my initial question - "so where are you from?" When asking that to an Asian-American confident in their Americanization, its a inviting inquiry, but when inquired of foreign chick probably dl sick of yellow fever weirdos, it doesn't go over well. I immediately realize I've said the wrong thing, but not before she confirms by saying in her grammatically strong but accent-challenged English "you tell me first."
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However, I manage to swiftly recover from that, and manage to get her interest back. It's like 11:00 at night right now, so even if I had the money/desire to take this girl out I kinda couldn't. I thus affect a schemey schemey date plan. The 25 miles north of my house are like the most sad and desolate stretch of highway I've ever been on, and I honestly do drive on them when I'm in a certain mood to clear my head. Spit some bullshit about this to the right girl and its a free date that, once you turn around, leads back directly past my house. So I follow this plan with the girl and the conversation's going good and so as we're coming up on my house I ask "do you want to come over and hang out for a bit?" To my modest surprise she says yes, and seeing its around midnight, I assume I'm getting lucky. We settle into my room when I set up a movie on my laptop and lay down on the bed while she sits in the chair (beta move maybe). We're watching the movie and it's going well and I'm slowly escalating despite it being an awkward position and eventually, at around an forty five minutes or so into the movie I just say whatever and go for the kiss and get shut down soooooooo hard. She initially goes to say something about or maybe be weird, but (something I've learned from previous experiences, haha) I just completely pull back act like nothing's happened and keep gaming her, though much less so, like before. She settles down and we keep watching the movie.
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I could've kept her around later, but I had a final the next day, so I offered to drive her back thirty minutes after that. As we're leaving my room she goes for a real awkward hug, and I think maybe she's regretting not kissing me and wants me to right now, but I'm way too tired and don't care to go for it. Have the same thing happen when I was dropping her off, definitely felt like she wanted me to kiss her but I wasn't about it. I knew I was going to sleep with her when she texts me something along the lines of "I had a great time with you tonight I really want to see you again soon" or somesuch LITERALLY FIVE MINUTES after I drop her off.
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A couple nights later, I don't remember who texted first but I'm picking her up and driving her over to my house. I knew I have at least a third-base hookup in the bag if I don't screw this up, but I went into it (helpfully this girl is actually a pretty interesting person so I can talk to her without trying to screw her immediately) not even caring about rushing it that much, and intending on finishing the movie before making a move. We get into my room, I set the movie up (this time we're both watching on my bed![[Image: smile.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/smile.gif)
) and literally within five minutes our clothes are off and we're having sex. Honestly it happened so fast I don't even really remember how it went down. Sex was decent, as tight as expected.
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So that's my first ever field-report, definitely too long but whatever, I'm not editing it. Might sleep with this girl next semester, might not, I'd prefer to but it's not really a big deal. On to further study of intermediate game and trolling through enough girls that I can find someone right. Funny endnote: after the sex this girl suggested we talk a shower, which none of my other sexual partners has ever done. However, in my only other asian experience, while she blew me that thai whore insisted on taking a shower. AWALT.
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So a couple weeks ago I banged my 10th girl, which is honestly pretty cool because (YES I am fully aware that number is nothing to brag about, but like its decent enough I don't feel insecure admitting it truthfully even with guys who fuck way more, if that makes sense) after being a pretty late starter with the girls (didn't kiss a girl till spring my senior year of high school (!) and didn't fuck till I blacked out smashed a fatty spring my freshman year of college) I'm starting to feel okay about how sexually experienced I am.
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This lay was also kind of special because: (1) I have yet to have a "real" (ie actually dating and exclusive for more than a month) relationship with a girl, something I'm actually really insecure about at age 22, but I really liked girl/notch #8 and we were hooking up a decent amount until she ghosted me and presumably fucked another guy. Point being notch #9 came when I was hammered drunk a couple weeks after that happened and could barely get erect, and so this was like the first time I've had actual actual sex since then, and I think the second lay is really helping me forget about previous girl. (2) I got a blowjob from a prostitute in Pattaya once, but I didn't have sex with her and I paid so that time didn't really count. So that means this girl (FOB from the PRC) is my yellow card.
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As to how it went down, I originally met her off tinder, but she goes to the same university as I do so it's kind of a different dynamic. 3-4 (don't wanna think hard enough to remember exactly) of the girls I slept with came through tinder, but I think all of them either went to my high school or college, so it was kind've a different thing, you're not really strangers. Sidenote on Tinder, I think a lot of "natural" game type guys or dudes who are sufficiently alpha to not need game do tend to kind of look down on it and if u have friends like this they might give you a little shit over it, but like I think it's almost inevitable you're gonna get some shit as to how you pick up chicks so roll with it. Also I kinda like it because: (1) honestly the average attractiveness of tinder girls I've slept with is higher than the average attractiveness of normal girls, fwiw or what that says about me (2) I don't really like (though of course sometimes you must do it) pounding the pavement at the bars and just doing approach after approach, I think partially because my father abandoned me and therefore I could not develop a full suite of the alpha male traits, but instead had to choose and cultivate a select few I could learn on my own, and therefore the crazy bullshitting performative alpha bar stunt you're supposed to run on girls just doesn't come to me naturally, and also my game is definitely much more suited to like being able to actually sit down and hold a conversation with a chick because I can do that, unlike most people
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W/r/t logistics, after we matched I immediately remembered the advice of the venerable Gavin Macinnes as written in The Vice Guide to Getting Laid (well before that publication was sent deep into the cuck shed), where he recommends treating Asian-American girls as being like super stereotypically american basic and stereotype them based on where they're from ("You're from Indianapolis? Oh my god that makes so much sense, you're such a midwestern girl.") I saw that this Asian Chick has a conventional American first name and listed some favorite rap song or something. So I go full-in on this approach, opening by quoting some retarded rap lyric (skrrrrt or something like that) and we hit it off. I start pushing to meet-up, but she acts super flaky and then the first night we schedule something concrete, she flakes out. She's still like super consistently texting me at this point however, so I know that I might still have a chance. A couple nights later I hit her up and, after some requisite flakiness, I pick her up. That's when I hit the first snag - I register her accent is thick as fuck, but don't remember to change up my initial question - "so where are you from?" When asking that to an Asian-American confident in their Americanization, its a inviting inquiry, but when inquired of foreign chick probably dl sick of yellow fever weirdos, it doesn't go over well. I immediately realize I've said the wrong thing, but not before she confirms by saying in her grammatically strong but accent-challenged English "you tell me first."
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However, I manage to swiftly recover from that, and manage to get her interest back. It's like 11:00 at night right now, so even if I had the money/desire to take this girl out I kinda couldn't. I thus affect a schemey schemey date plan. The 25 miles north of my house are like the most sad and desolate stretch of highway I've ever been on, and I honestly do drive on them when I'm in a certain mood to clear my head. Spit some bullshit about this to the right girl and its a free date that, once you turn around, leads back directly past my house. So I follow this plan with the girl and the conversation's going good and so as we're coming up on my house I ask "do you want to come over and hang out for a bit?" To my modest surprise she says yes, and seeing its around midnight, I assume I'm getting lucky. We settle into my room when I set up a movie on my laptop and lay down on the bed while she sits in the chair (beta move maybe). We're watching the movie and it's going well and I'm slowly escalating despite it being an awkward position and eventually, at around an forty five minutes or so into the movie I just say whatever and go for the kiss and get shut down soooooooo hard. She initially goes to say something about or maybe be weird, but (something I've learned from previous experiences, haha) I just completely pull back act like nothing's happened and keep gaming her, though much less so, like before. She settles down and we keep watching the movie.
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I could've kept her around later, but I had a final the next day, so I offered to drive her back thirty minutes after that. As we're leaving my room she goes for a real awkward hug, and I think maybe she's regretting not kissing me and wants me to right now, but I'm way too tired and don't care to go for it. Have the same thing happen when I was dropping her off, definitely felt like she wanted me to kiss her but I wasn't about it. I knew I was going to sleep with her when she texts me something along the lines of "I had a great time with you tonight I really want to see you again soon" or somesuch LITERALLY FIVE MINUTES after I drop her off.
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A couple nights later, I don't remember who texted first but I'm picking her up and driving her over to my house. I knew I have at least a third-base hookup in the bag if I don't screw this up, but I went into it (helpfully this girl is actually a pretty interesting person so I can talk to her without trying to screw her immediately) not even caring about rushing it that much, and intending on finishing the movie before making a move. We get into my room, I set the movie up (this time we're both watching on my bed
) and literally within five minutes our clothes are off and we're having sex. Honestly it happened so fast I don't even really remember how it went down. Sex was decent, as tight as expected. ----
So that's my first ever field-report, definitely too long but whatever, I'm not editing it. Might sleep with this girl next semester, might not, I'd prefer to but it's not really a big deal. On to further study of intermediate game and trolling through enough girls that I can find someone right. Funny endnote: after the sex this girl suggested we talk a shower, which none of my other sexual partners has ever done. However, in my only other asian experience, while she blew me that thai whore insisted on taking a shower. AWALT.
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