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06-15-2017, 02:42 AM
I'm personally not a fan of playing games like this. Whenever I have been in the fog of war, it's been very unclear to me at the time on what the correct move is. I think you're in the fog of war yourself and want to do something so she comes running back. But I think based on your circumstances, if I were you I would just stop paying attention to her so she knows you're actually doing what your "text" says you are doing, but it does it in a way that is more effective: Communicating indirectly vs directly.
I know you were looking for a response for dread texts and I'm sure you will get some, just thought I would share my 2 cents.
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06-15-2017, 02:55 AM
No, you're response is exactly the opposite of my post however the same advice of my dad. I'm 35, he still knows shit.
His opinion is to ghost her, I'll likely get the same reaction eventually. Won't be forced, and by the time it happens I probably would had completely moved on and these silly games won't even be a consideration.
I guess the problem is feeling played, even unintentionally. Since I'm recently detached I have some control and even if I keep her around as a fling the dread might make her realize her options and treat me differently. Then again if you want someone to treat you better, they likely aren't a person to include in any aspect in your life.
Perhaps I'm still seeking some validation before moving on completely. And yes, after re-reading my comment (above) I realize I need to just move on.
Either way I'd love some examples of dread working positively.
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06-15-2017, 05:57 AM
Appreciate the hard honesty. You're correct and that's the exact same advice I'd give a friend.
Sometimes you become clouded or jaded or dare I say desperate. You're correct at the best it's wasted energy, at the worst It's digging a hole.
If I already have the only thing of concern, pussy, I'm already getting it and It's obvious that stringing her along for a reaction is just to feed my ego before I bail because I know she won't change.
Her response to my wants could easily fall flat and because I'm already moving on sounds like I just want validation before cutting ties.
It's amazing how you can be in the game for 15+ years and one girl over 2-3 years can make you rust.
I appreciate you both taking the time to give me the exact advice I'd give a friend but I couldn't swallow myself.
Kuddos!
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06-15-2017, 06:57 AM
Dude this looks just pathetic.
Get another girl. She'll feel that you're dating multiple chicks.
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06-15-2017, 07:22 AM
Get some self respect. You were in a serious relationship that she downgraded to open status. Next her and find some new tail. Once you start banging new girls you're going to wonder why you didn't do it sooner.
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06-15-2017, 11:39 AM
You can't trick a girl into becoming attracted to you.
Sounds like she has moved on and you need to as well.
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06-15-2017, 05:39 PM
Yeah Sorry man, I agree with the guys above, don't try that cheap trick.
You need to adjust your frame so you don't care about her, before she will care about you. She can smell your investment and its turnoff for her.
Radio silent, knock back a few of her booty calls and then send her on to try and regain frame, but you know the real answer is OTHER GIRLS.
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06-15-2017, 06:38 PM
I won't be hard on you either. But don't try that text. It's just too obvious. And if you had really sent it, you wouldn't just text oops to her. It just looks really fake.
You need to ghost and you need to move on. We have all been there. The only cure is a new girl.
Good luck.
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06-15-2017, 10:53 PM
No need for this.
Tried it in my amateur stages of game.
But at my level, I simply go FIND another girl. The current girl will be able to sense from my attitude and demeanor I truly DGAF if she starts playing games with me.
THAT'S how I do dread game.
Surgically precise game is best game.
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06-15-2017, 11:01 PM
Best thing you can do to rid your mind of this girl is stop communication, unfollow on social media, and find new girls.
No magic "text tricks". We've all been here.