[Palo_alto]

Gents,

For quite a while I have been setting dates with multiple girls at the same time. With the premise that I have a 50% flaking rate in the country I am at the moment (Chile).

Example:

I tell 2 different girls to come to my place for drinks Thursday 8pm. One flake, the other comes, perfect situation.

Now a have another issue, I guess is a good one. Sometimes, maybe 2 out of 10 I get 2 girls or even 3 girls to agree on my plans and then I need to choose one (The better looking one) and flake with a lame excuse to the others (Work, travel, whatever...)

Issue is that whoever I flake on is pretty much done deal. I rarely get responses again from girls I flake on. Specially on the first get together. Smetimes the girls I am flaking are pretty fly, not 10's but a nice 7 that I would not mind spending time with later on.

My question to the OG's:

What would be a good flake excuse so you can actually reconnect with the girl in the future? How soon is a good time to flake on a lizard?

I have 2 fly girls coming over tomorrow to my pad. One I have not met (Tinder) other one is a regular.

Win some loose some?

PS: Most of my flakes come from night game. Funny enough I get great response on Tinder here.

Danke!

[jselysianeagle]

Promise them anal.

[kaotic]

Are you reframing and rescheduling with the girls you flake on ? or do you follow up with them later and they don't respond.

I find that flaking on a girl and rescheduling with her in the same text brings a more positive response then just flaking.

You have to run some comfort game with girls you flake on.

You probably have a higher chance of rescheduling with a girl you've met already, versus a girl you matched online.

What exactly are you saying to these girls before you meet them ? How many hours/days do you flake on a Plan B girl ?

[Satoshi]

I don't know but I hate flaking and unreliable people. If I flake on a girl I accept that I might blow my chance away and if girls flake on my I don't give them another chance easily. I've also done something like this before and I wasn't really crazy about any of the girls that I played this way. If a girl is special I would not flake on her but perhaps have a back-up if she flakes on me. But I'm also not delivering my best game when I'm making plans with too many girls at the same time. In your case I'd go for the tinder girl because to me new pussy is always more exciting. But she might not be that nice too, so if you're into relationships and that girl in particular then perhaps you should priorities that regular girl. Of course this is something that you have to decide for yourself.

[The_e_man]

Maybe I need to spend less time dealing with young club sluts but I find that going silent and completely flaking out on a girl will make her want me even MORE.
She'll usually spam my phone with texts when I flake out on a girl. Then next time I talk to her it's usually like nothing even happened. Except I now have a tiny bit more power in the dynamic of things. Flaking is also getting more and more common and casual these days.

[torridon747]

For real. If you ignore or flake on a bitch 3/5 times she's more down.

Ive made a habit of leaving girls on seen for a couple days if my game isn't up to par or I'm not feeling it. They reply with enthusiasm almost every time a couple days later.

Outright flaking though just think like a bitch. Use an excuse a girl has given you (they use excuses to leave the door open and shift responsibility) and hit her up in a week.

[Bacchus]

You don't even need an excuse. Don't give too many details either.

"Can't make it tonight"

or

"Lets reschedule"

Or if you want an excuse, chicks are a fan of the 'I'm sick' variety, but the real money is in 'Too tired'

[slothpiece]

Not tonight. Heading to the mountains this weekend. (in the middle of summer)

[PapayaTapper]

(05-10-2017 02:15 PM)Palo_alto Wrote:  

I have 2 fly girls coming over tomorrow to my pad. One I have not met (Tinder) other one is a regular.

Why would you flake on potential new vagina in favor of old?

Good lord... priorities man!

[Suits]

There's only one man who can answer this question.

But he doesn't post any more.

[This Is Trouble]

(05-10-2017 10:31 PM)Bacchus Wrote:  

You don't even need an excuse. Don't give too many details either.

"Can't make it tonight"

or

"Lets reschedule"

Or if you want an excuse, chicks are a fan of the 'I'm sick' variety, but the real money is in 'Too tired'

"I have a headache"

[General Stalin]

Simply tell her something came up and you'd like to reschedule. Offer her another night.

[kaotic]

(05-11-2017 12:20 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(05-10-2017 02:15 PM)Palo_alto Wrote:  

I have 2 fly girls coming over tomorrow to my pad. One I have not met (Tinder) other one is a regular.

Why would you flake on potential new vagina in favor of old?

Good lord... priorities man!

This, life is all about flavor, I always turn down plates for new pussy.

[Oz.]

"You wouldn't believe what happened to me last night..." followed by an original story about who you were walking past a club on your way home and 30 white knights decided to pick a fight against you.

Or whatever other story you can come up with.

[Steelex]

"Hey my mom's best friends dog died I gotta go be there can we reschedule".

You know it's bullshit. She knows it's bullshit. She just can't believe that you'd pull some bitch shit on her. She thought the power of the pussy made her immune to this.

It's a powerful weapon.

[thebassist]

"Sorry I just remembered, I gotta return some video tapes."

[Ringo]

I hate flaking on others and I hate being flaked on, so I try to keep it at a minimum.

An easy strategy is: schedule a date with a new prospect and an old plate for the same time and place. Tell the plate you might have to work late or go out with your cousin or whatever, and that you'll confirm by the afternoon that day.

At noon or so, text your new prospect and tell them to confirm by 3pm. If she does - it's on.

If she doesn't confirm by 4pm, she's cancelled. Don't even bother texting her.

Then you call or text the old plate and let her know the meeting or whatever was cancelled and you're free to go out.

Simple and you don't lose points with anyone.

[Suits]

(05-11-2017 01:20 PM)Oz. Wrote:  

"You wouldn't believe what happened to me last night..." followed by an original story about who you were walking past a club on your way home and 30 white knights decided to pick a fight against you.

The nice thing about this one is that its so believable.