Quote: (02-10-2017 08:00 PM)Spaniard88 Wrote:
Quote: (02-09-2017 06:42 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:
Real life isn't like porn.
This keeps coming up all over the place.
Unless you're watching weird fetish porn, real life is EXACTLY like porn.
Physically speaking, anyhow.
There's only so many poles and holes, folks.
Yeah, I've never understood this "real life isn't like porn" thing. If that's what guys actually believe it sounds like they've been having very boring lays with boring and/or disinterested girls.
I know there are probably some relationships where the dude just gets on top of her, she lays there like a fish, he thrusts and grunts for exactly 7 minutes, she moans precisely once, and then blows his load.
This is not "normal" sex and porn the "abnormal" sex. Sex is supposed to be fun! With the main girl I've been dating sometimes I strip her down and have her suck my cock in the kitchen, I hold her against the shower wall and fuck her hard under the water, or bounce to her bedroom and fuck her in four different positions including doggystyle with her hands cuffed behind her back. She moans loud enough to wake the neighbors and loves it.
I'm pretty certain she's had fewer partners in her life than the average chick in her early 30s. She's not an "abnormal" girl, and this is not "abnormal" sex - "wife sex" is the abnormal sex.
I think dudes try to rationalize that some of the sex in porn is "abnormal" because they can't stand the thought that other dudes have done the same nasty shit to their precious angel at some point before, and might be doing it behind their backs if at some point she cheats on them. But if all real life sex is sweet, awkward, and boring then it doesn't feel so bad.
Well, tough shit, that's what humans do and that's life. If you won't give it to her, someone will. It's why by this point I've wound up sitting across from at least three chicks in a bar I met online who I realized after the fact were most likely already in a relationship and she's texting me "So what do you know about collars?" later. Hey, I didn't ask for this.
If you're having friction problems use more lube, that's what it's there for. And while most girls like it hard and rough, you can't go at it continually like that or she's going to complain. Ramp it up and down in response to her. Intersperse hard with tender and gentle. Like have some dynamics, soft-loud, not just loud all the time.