Background (Wife Search Abroad): thread-50002.html
Side note (Tips on picking up Hapa women): thread-11612.html
As discussed in the thread above, many Western men are searching outside of the USA, Canada and Europe for a more traditional and stable woman to be their wife, plus the future mother of their children. Asian women of different countries are often discussed. (Chinese, Vietnamese, Vietnamese, etc.)
I've been in relationships with Chinese and Filipinas before, and can confirm the more traditional ones can make excellent wives. Vietnamese women seem very balance in terms of hard working attitudes but also balanced outlook, with respect of husband and family being key cultural traits.
Assuming I, or any other white man, falls in love with some Asian girl, gets married and has kids, obviously they are going to be half-white and half-Asian, or hapa. It is my concern that seeing the East and West are obviously two very different sets of cultures, that children from these marriages could suffer an identity crisis.
Here's some food for thought:
This hapa guy has a whole channel dedicated to complaining about how Asian women like dating white men. He has a tremendous self-loathing. In some of his videos he goes to suggest that half-white, half-Asian men are prone to becoming Elliot Rodgers types. His videos are cringe-worthy, but I watched a few to get into his mindset:
Two foreign nationals talk about being a foreigner in China, and marrying in China, and not being considered "Chinese" because they are not ethnically Chinese. Many mainland Chinese are extremely racist towards non-Asians, having a half-Chinese, half-white baby in China (assuming you stay there) seems like a real chance of making your child a social outcast.
Here's the wife of one of the two guys in the video above, talking about their baby and Chinese citizenship issues:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_3p_TBMgaKg
Here's a married couple where a Korean woman married a black man who is originally from Kenya:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LCZQsA7yyQ0
She discusses some of the challenges of biracial kids, living in South Korea.
Here was a video produced by ABC of a white woman who fell in love with an Asian guy, only to have her white parents disapprove. While this is certainly a less common paring by huge margin (white women, Asian man), I thought I'd bring it up in case any Asian guys are considering marrying a white woman:
Here's a half-black, half Korean NFL player's story:
(Taken with a grain of salt, given that ESPN is a SJW company?)
Here's a hapa girl talking about do Asian guys get shot down by hapa girls?
Okay, enough videos.
Here's some of my general impressions, and some questions for the community here regarding half-Asians:
Side note (Tips on picking up Hapa women): thread-11612.html
As discussed in the thread above, many Western men are searching outside of the USA, Canada and Europe for a more traditional and stable woman to be their wife, plus the future mother of their children. Asian women of different countries are often discussed. (Chinese, Vietnamese, Vietnamese, etc.)
I've been in relationships with Chinese and Filipinas before, and can confirm the more traditional ones can make excellent wives. Vietnamese women seem very balance in terms of hard working attitudes but also balanced outlook, with respect of husband and family being key cultural traits.
Assuming I, or any other white man, falls in love with some Asian girl, gets married and has kids, obviously they are going to be half-white and half-Asian, or hapa. It is my concern that seeing the East and West are obviously two very different sets of cultures, that children from these marriages could suffer an identity crisis.
Here's some food for thought:
This hapa guy has a whole channel dedicated to complaining about how Asian women like dating white men. He has a tremendous self-loathing. In some of his videos he goes to suggest that half-white, half-Asian men are prone to becoming Elliot Rodgers types. His videos are cringe-worthy, but I watched a few to get into his mindset:
Two foreign nationals talk about being a foreigner in China, and marrying in China, and not being considered "Chinese" because they are not ethnically Chinese. Many mainland Chinese are extremely racist towards non-Asians, having a half-Chinese, half-white baby in China (assuming you stay there) seems like a real chance of making your child a social outcast.
Here's the wife of one of the two guys in the video above, talking about their baby and Chinese citizenship issues:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_3p_TBMgaKg
Here's a married couple where a Korean woman married a black man who is originally from Kenya:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LCZQsA7yyQ0
She discusses some of the challenges of biracial kids, living in South Korea.
Here was a video produced by ABC of a white woman who fell in love with an Asian guy, only to have her white parents disapprove. While this is certainly a less common paring by huge margin (white women, Asian man), I thought I'd bring it up in case any Asian guys are considering marrying a white woman:
Here's a half-black, half Korean NFL player's story:
(Taken with a grain of salt, given that ESPN is a SJW company?)
Here's a hapa girl talking about do Asian guys get shot down by hapa girls?
Okay, enough videos.
Here's some of my general impressions, and some questions for the community here regarding half-Asians:
- If you get married and have a half-white/half-asian girl, she stands a very good chance of being attractive.
- If you have a half-white, half Asian son I think he'll have a harder time fitting in despite his exotic looks. It seems based upon some general research that there are who half-Asian guys are resentful of one or both parents
- Half-asian boys don't see many Asian man, white woman couples, and with many Asian women dating/marrying white men, they see it through a lens of rejection of their own Asian-ness?
- Asian women in general seem to appreciate more beta personality traits in men than many white women. Because of that, more nerdy white men often date Asian women. These aren't necessarily your traditional loving alpha male. They are more the geeky white beta male that doesn't have a strong identity. That seems to be the case of the hapa boy that is linked in the first video in this thread. He seems very resentful that his father isn't masculine. Perhaps maybe half-Asian sons aren't upset about being half-Asian, but rather some of the more dopey white guys that marry their mothers?
- Men in general (of any race) need tribal or group identity, I'd argue more so than girls. A woman's true identity is in the home and family. But for a half-Asian boy, his identity is split. How does a well-meaning father of a half-Asian son give him self-respect and confidence given that there seems to be a lot of negative stereotypes about Asian men or half-Asian men?
- Are there any half-Asian guys here, or men that have spent considerable time with half-Asians (men or women)? If so, I'd really appreciate to hear your stories about growing up with biracial parents. Do you feel your parents really loved and respected each other, or did they marry for other reasons? Do you feel they treated you with respect? How about identity? Do you feel split between two cultures, not really attached to one or the other, or do you feel it is a net positive because you might know multiple languages, have a more exotic look, etc? Do you feel being half-Asian is a net positive, negative or neutral?
- What are some ideas that you would have for a man who marries into a different culture and has kids? What's the best way to raise them with a respect for both cultures and not lose their identity, or become driftless SJW types?
- I'm attracted to Asian women, but also other types (Latina, White). Is the identity or other parenting issues more specific to half-Asian children, or do you feel they apply to any bi-racial kid?
- Does it really matter which country/ethnicity of the woman or woman's host country? Is Korea more harsh on bi-racial kids than say Japan, or China? Or some other combo?
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