I am kinda post modern in regards to truths, morality, and ideologies. Though I know of some fundamental lines I draw on the sand that won't be crossed, but otherwise things are blurry and vague. In this sense what is correct or not correct in regards to the different moralities in game is murky to me. Game for me is a way to see the fears and the walls I build around myself that keep me from what I want and punch through them. It's a way to see the matrix of relationships and to align my desires with my actions and respect that I deserve good outcomes. I also believe game at its core could be positive and allow you to connect with people on a level deeper than the BS facade we all put up and beyond just sex. For this reason I believe in win-win game. Every girl I fuck I want to give a good chance of coming away from the experience thinking that it was positive. That it somehow enriched her life. When that doesn't happen I am deeply disturbed. At the same time I know monogamy is not for me. I also do not put girls on a pedestal and know a huge number of them are deceitful, have a double standard, shallow, status chasing, and running their own agenda.
I am not a good looking guy, but not ugly. 5'5'', skinny, and asian. I come across very non-threatening. Game is about finding the right balance for yourself, for the situation, and for the girl as you advance logistical, sexual, and emotional escalation. Being non-threatening my game is very aggressive. I give zero fucks on a good day and my game gets tighter the hotter the girl (until they reached a 9 when I drop off). I try to bring the fun and improving. Because of my job and aspects outside of game I have status and DHV. Over the past year I have closed 8 girls (my work keeps me very busy and I only have short stretches where I can game). 6 of those 8 girls were SNLs. They all ranged from 6-8 (i am very picky, so real numbers), across all ethnicities, and all happened in the USA. I still see a lot of room for improvement in myself and in my game.
Got bored and had some time off and decided to go vietnam. Conversational in the language. I pipelined on VN cupid over 10 days. Have 50 + contacts that respond when I message or actively messages me. All in 6-8 range w/ 2 9s. 2 dates per day arranged.
The first day I brought a 7.5 girl to my room and got to second base. We are meeting later.
The second day I made out with a different 7 girl, groped the crap out of her, and stood a good chance of closing if she didn't have to fly out in 4 hours.
The third day I got a 7 girl to agree to go home w/ me for sex on the first date despite me telling her I am not ready for anything serious. On the way home she asked me if she will ever see me again, and I told her the truth, which is no. This eliminated the close, but she is still texting me. We will fuck if I tell her to come over.
I have two dates planned a day for the next 7 days. But this process is making me feel horrible. The dynamic is so unbalanced towards me in terms of money, status, and future that I feel like I am shooting fish in a barrel. I know the girls have their own agenda for some perceived form of personal gain, but I can't shake the feeling that I am pulling a Trump if I am not completely honest. I am not the paragon of virtue and ethics. One of my fbuddy this year had a boyfriend I knew about, that she was leeching off of, and I actively fucked her every which way. I found out a girl I was gaming was married w/ 3 kids, and tried to fuck her anyway and got very close. The difference is none of the girls I have had sex with or tried to this year were under any illusions. They knew what they were getting. One have described that I am "brutally honest".
So my question to you guys is what is your perspective on banging girls from third world countries where the dynamic is so much in your favor when they are under so many different delusions and being honest while trying doing it. I have a friend w/ strong game and he brings so much fun that girls will still fuck him while he is almost 100 percent honest. I can't bring that much fun.
I am not a good looking guy, but not ugly. 5'5'', skinny, and asian. I come across very non-threatening. Game is about finding the right balance for yourself, for the situation, and for the girl as you advance logistical, sexual, and emotional escalation. Being non-threatening my game is very aggressive. I give zero fucks on a good day and my game gets tighter the hotter the girl (until they reached a 9 when I drop off). I try to bring the fun and improving. Because of my job and aspects outside of game I have status and DHV. Over the past year I have closed 8 girls (my work keeps me very busy and I only have short stretches where I can game). 6 of those 8 girls were SNLs. They all ranged from 6-8 (i am very picky, so real numbers), across all ethnicities, and all happened in the USA. I still see a lot of room for improvement in myself and in my game.
Got bored and had some time off and decided to go vietnam. Conversational in the language. I pipelined on VN cupid over 10 days. Have 50 + contacts that respond when I message or actively messages me. All in 6-8 range w/ 2 9s. 2 dates per day arranged.
The first day I brought a 7.5 girl to my room and got to second base. We are meeting later.
The second day I made out with a different 7 girl, groped the crap out of her, and stood a good chance of closing if she didn't have to fly out in 4 hours.
The third day I got a 7 girl to agree to go home w/ me for sex on the first date despite me telling her I am not ready for anything serious. On the way home she asked me if she will ever see me again, and I told her the truth, which is no. This eliminated the close, but she is still texting me. We will fuck if I tell her to come over.
I have two dates planned a day for the next 7 days. But this process is making me feel horrible. The dynamic is so unbalanced towards me in terms of money, status, and future that I feel like I am shooting fish in a barrel. I know the girls have their own agenda for some perceived form of personal gain, but I can't shake the feeling that I am pulling a Trump if I am not completely honest. I am not the paragon of virtue and ethics. One of my fbuddy this year had a boyfriend I knew about, that she was leeching off of, and I actively fucked her every which way. I found out a girl I was gaming was married w/ 3 kids, and tried to fuck her anyway and got very close. The difference is none of the girls I have had sex with or tried to this year were under any illusions. They knew what they were getting. One have described that I am "brutally honest".
So my question to you guys is what is your perspective on banging girls from third world countries where the dynamic is so much in your favor when they are under so many different delusions and being honest while trying doing it. I have a friend w/ strong game and he brings so much fun that girls will still fuck him while he is almost 100 percent honest. I can't bring that much fun.