Quote: (04-11-2018 10:40 PM)Hazaer Wrote:
But in a club situation, how do you then escalate if you are not making out.. you meet her in the dance floor. So you dance and bring her out for a chat before suggesting you leave? In most cases, it is just too loud to talk and doing so often spoils the vibe.
Dont do clubs for bangs unless:
A. You live upstairs cause logistics are everything. Would you light a stick of dynamite then call an Uber to take you where you want it to explode? Of course not.
The makeout should be the fuse ignition that leads straight to the bang (pun intended)
B. Your game is ultra tight. Its hard to keep a chick revved up at the same level during the transition. Can it be done and does it happen? Of course but the conversion rates are way way lower for most guys*. (Some guys do really well at club pulls)
C. You can be "VIP / celeb" status. You dont have to necessarily be either but you have to "elevate" up above the pack. You can be the DJ, work there, or super good dancer or something that makes you stand out...else youre a generic clown level chode that girls will use for entertainment.
And make no mistake. A makeout means absolutely nothing for a club chick who's been making out with "boys" for nearly a decade by the time she's 22-23
D. You can bang in the club. If you can get away with getting a handy or smoky in some dark corner or outside in the car the try for that rather than try to transition her home (or see A)
Now if you
like going to clubs for the music, and scene and whatnot and
can get makeouts then Id try this: If you know a chick is wanting to makeout then instead of kissing just give her a quick brush of the lips and pull back. Dont kiss. Now this takes master level self control but it pays off for two big reasons
1. You just ramped up the sexual tension in her a bunch.
Anticipation is a vital part of a chicks attraction to arousal sequence.
2. You maintain plausible deniability. When you now say "Lets get out of here" she's thinking "Oh we're just going to his place to makeout" But in reality youre just waiting to "light that fuse" until you want it to go "bang"
* A much better conversion rate can be attained by having a go to, local bar where you talk to a girl and roll right into
Tuth's recipe for 1st date bangs.
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