One of the false presumptions is that the OP has nothing to lose by trying to "flip the narrative" and score with this chick.
Even if you disregard time and energy spent, anyone who's been in this situation before knows that if you fail you don't simply shrug your shoulders and walk away. It cuts, often deep, and it tends to be the kind of wound that makes you weak on your future approaches.
The longer you try to ply the girl, the deeper the cut when you fail, and the OP has made it quite apparent that there's some real puppy dog love going on here, whether he's willing to admit it or not.
Cutting your losses is the smart move. Digging yourself deeper with little prospect of success is like betting your knees with the bookie.
This is of course all academic now. I think the OP has moved on, if they weren't simply messing with us in the first place.
Even if you disregard time and energy spent, anyone who's been in this situation before knows that if you fail you don't simply shrug your shoulders and walk away. It cuts, often deep, and it tends to be the kind of wound that makes you weak on your future approaches.
The longer you try to ply the girl, the deeper the cut when you fail, and the OP has made it quite apparent that there's some real puppy dog love going on here, whether he's willing to admit it or not.
Cutting your losses is the smart move. Digging yourself deeper with little prospect of success is like betting your knees with the bookie.
This is of course all academic now. I think the OP has moved on, if they weren't simply messing with us in the first place.
The public will judge a man by what he lifts, but those close to him will judge him by what he carries.