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Over the years there is always one ex that rips out my heart. If I bump into a normal ex, I usually be nice and have a chat and walk away. Half the time it leads into a bang which is a bad move. Exs are exs for a reason and people always feel like shit afterwards if they get back due to guilt.
Some years ago I ran into my ex at a club that totally ripped my guts out in the past. She ran up to me grabbing my arm jumping up and down and I just ignore her and went cold as ice. When I looked at her I looked through her and her friend. I even had the nerve to stand their for a couple minutes and ignore her where she become so angry so me and my mate just left. I didn't mean to act this way but when people diss me, I cut them out of my life and they don't exist anymore. This way it saves me from getting pissed off at someone.
Before you guys say it's childish and not the mature thing to do. I'll give you an example. If I was nice to her and talked, it would open the Pandora box and we would be fucking which leads back to a very deep hole in the ground. I'm talking about women you had deep feelings for where it was like running a marathon to move on from.
Second option if you act like a king and don't knowledge a peasant where women have rejection issues, it would piss them off royally. I bumped into a old best mate of mine (huge fight many years ago) and he did this to me and it's been a year and still pisses me off if I have to think about him.
The reason why is cause I'm heading back to a town and my ex (another one) that was a bitch to me has major approval issues with men and I know it will hurt her good. If I do the 'nice' approach I know it's going to lead to a bang cause I have a soft spot for her and I have to stay in this town for at least a couple months... This town doesn't have allot of options
Over the years there is always one ex that rips out my heart. If I bump into a normal ex, I usually be nice and have a chat and walk away. Half the time it leads into a bang which is a bad move. Exs are exs for a reason and people always feel like shit afterwards if they get back due to guilt.
Some years ago I ran into my ex at a club that totally ripped my guts out in the past. She ran up to me grabbing my arm jumping up and down and I just ignore her and went cold as ice. When I looked at her I looked through her and her friend. I even had the nerve to stand their for a couple minutes and ignore her where she become so angry so me and my mate just left. I didn't mean to act this way but when people diss me, I cut them out of my life and they don't exist anymore. This way it saves me from getting pissed off at someone.
Before you guys say it's childish and not the mature thing to do. I'll give you an example. If I was nice to her and talked, it would open the Pandora box and we would be fucking which leads back to a very deep hole in the ground. I'm talking about women you had deep feelings for where it was like running a marathon to move on from.
Second option if you act like a king and don't knowledge a peasant where women have rejection issues, it would piss them off royally. I bumped into a old best mate of mine (huge fight many years ago) and he did this to me and it's been a year and still pisses me off if I have to think about him.
The reason why is cause I'm heading back to a town and my ex (another one) that was a bitch to me has major approval issues with men and I know it will hurt her good. If I do the 'nice' approach I know it's going to lead to a bang cause I have a soft spot for her and I have to stay in this town for at least a couple months... This town doesn't have allot of options