[TrifeLife]

Has anyone pulled a stripper while in their 20s and/or without bankroll?

Sometimes strippers can get salty when they sense they ain't getting any of your cake. It's usually the hardened vets that get like this. If I want to be a dick I always tell them "sorry, you are too old for me. I'm only into younger girls"

[Kona]

(03-31-2016 04:46 PM)TrifeLife Wrote:  

Has anyone pulled a stripper while in their 20s and/or without bankroll?

Yes, and without. Those girls were also young and broke.

I've been through tons of strippers. Here in Hawaii the hostess/strip bar scene is vibrant. Its a cash-is-king type of pickup environment. All of the girls in it are either direct or soft prostitutes. I've pulled in and out of strip clubs in lots of other cities, but Honolulu is where I've done the best. East St. Louis is second.

The six most important tips I have are:

1. The best way to pick up a stripper in a specific club, is to already have fucked one, and fucked her real good. These girls all talk, and more so, they all back stab. Amber Rain stole your wet wipes, fuck her boyfriend. Felicity fucked your boyfriend, you and Sage have a three-way with one of hers. Its a drama and revenge cycle you gotta play into.

2. You need to understand that you are not the only guy she's fucking. You are one of many, in and out of the club.

3. Do not believe A SINGLE WORD that these girls say. Maybe there was one stripper once (and I'm sure everyone here has met her) that stripped her way through medical school. The bulk of these girls have rent on a shitty apartment, kids, math habit, and deadbeat boyfriend or flat out pimp that takes all their money. If they show up with a 5k Chanel purse one night, do not believe that they saved theirxones .come old man bought it.

4. Don't be a sucker. Do not go anywhere other than bars, restaurants and then wherever you fuck, with a stripper. A stripper does not want your company at the grocery store. She wants you to buy her groceries. Nothing will kill the fucking faster than you refusing to buy the groceries, so don't get into that situation.

5. Don't get upset about ANYTHING when dealing with a stripper. They are master manipulators. You want the cops on you over some domestic shit, get into a argument with one. I've seen a stripper smack her own nose on a bathroom wall and spread the blood around to show the law. Cops and strippers have a special relationship, trust me. Don't sweat it when you know they are lying to you. Just let it go. Don't get mad at a snake for having fangs.

6. If you pull one right out of a club, make sure they take a thorough shower before you fuck them.

Aloha!

[General Stalin]

(03-31-2016 04:46 PM)TrifeLife Wrote:  

Has anyone pulled a stripper while in their 20s and/or without bankroll?

Sometimes strippers can get salty when they sense they ain't getting any of your cake. It's usually the hardened vets that get like this. If I want to be a dick I always tell them "sorry, you are too old for me. I'm only into younger girls"

They don't care about your money. Their customers give them money. They want a guy that is attractive and they like to be around.

The stripper I dated I didn't even meet at the club. I met her through friends of friends and our first date was going to an arcade. Part of the time we were dating I ran into financial hard times and she was putting gas in my car.

You don't need to be a baller or most interesting man in the world to date a 20 year old drug addict with daddy issues.

Unless you are talking about trying to hook a "career" stripper who's in her 30's or something. Who wants to do that?

[HankMoody]

(03-31-2016 03:57 PM)Red_Pillage Wrote:  

Hank I like the the open-endedness of your approach here. I've actually never been to a strip club for the reasons you mentioned above, I just assumed I'd be there to be rinsed like the rest of the chumps. Realistically, what's the amount you'd spend on a typical night running this type of stripper game?

It's changed. I make a lot more money now, so I have no problem spending a few dollars. I don't spend money for them - I spend money for me.

On average, expect to spend about $100 - $200. Drinks are more expensive at a strip club. You have to tip some of the dancers or you look like a cheap douche. Even if they do a lame dance and they're fat.

Again, this isn't really a cost efficient way of getting lays. It is a good spot to practice game, become comfortable around hot girls, and gradually increase your social circle to include really hot damaged chicks.

[AWright]

I pulled a stripper from the strip club. I got her number at the club and met a few days later and banged. She was hot but crazy. She just came up to me and started chatting me up, she said she wished we met some place else. She thought I was handsome, she was 21 I was 23 at the time. The chick sold molly on the side along with stripping. When I banged her a giant blade came flying out of her boot.

[C-Note]

Without searching around the forum, I thought that I saw G-Manifesto saying that his way of pulling from a strip club was to go in, suited down of course, and sit at the bar. He would shoot the shit with the bar staff and the waitresses and ignore the strippers. He would subtly steer the conversation so he could drop bait about his high-flying lifestyle (trips to Nassua, Hollywood parties, etc) because he knew the staff would tell the strippers about him. After awhile, the curious strippers would start approaching the him at the bar and he would play the "international, aloof, playboy" game with them which appears to be similar to what you all are talking about.

[Rhyme or Reason]

(03-31-2016 10:07 PM)HankMoody Wrote:  

(03-31-2016 03:57 PM)Red_Pillage Wrote:  

Hank I like the the open-endedness of your approach here. I've actually never been to a strip club for the reasons you mentioned above, I just assumed I'd be there to be rinsed like the rest of the chumps. Realistically, what's the amount you'd spend on a typical night running this type of stripper game?

It's changed. I make a lot more money now, so I have no problem spending a few dollars. I don't spend money for them - I spend money for me.

On average, expect to spend about $100 - $200. Drinks are more expensive at a strip club. You have to tip some of the dancers or you look like a cheap douche. Even if they do a lame dance and they're fat.

Again, this isn't really a cost efficient way of getting lays. It is a good spot to practice game, become comfortable around hot girls, and gradually increase your social circle to include really hot damaged chicks.

I guess it wouldn't be a good idea to do this on a budget then. However I think I may have discovered a way to game strippers on the cheap:

[Rhyme or Reason]

Bump.

I did bang an off duty stripper one time, (half persian chick, huge fake rack and perfect round ass) I want to try these strategies but being on a budget will limit my options. As far as I understand, strip clubs in the US don't let you "touch" the girls? Is this correct? If so, how do you escalate as posters here have suggested?

[DonnyGately]

Many strip clubs let you touch.

I've pulled multiple 18-24y strippers out of clubs. It helps to be well known there.

[chicane]

It varies across the country and I've only been to strip clubs in a few states. I've had quite a few strippers sit in my lap to talk. Typically they are "dressed" although scantily. Don't expect to be able to fondle them or anything close, but still there is a lot of contact.

Also, remember to tip the bartenders, particularly if they are male. Making friends with them is a good investment. So is having a bit of small talk with the bouncers.

[The Alpha Virgin]

Got the number of a stripper in a strip club last night and I know that 3 years ago I thought that was impossible. So I was by myself after having spent the night out and thought I should visit the strip club before I went home. But I guess I played this well...

The strippers came up to me one a the time as I was sitting in the least crowded place in the club. The first 3 that came up to me were snarky as fuck and was pissed I didn't get anything. I was just in a happy state trying to crack jokes and the 3rd one actually tried to offend me by calling short (meanwhile all of them had like 10-15cm heels).

THEN I went to the smoking area and as one cute stripper walked past I said something along the lines like "oh my god, this is heartbreaking, darling. I can't believe I see you in a place like this" and she seemed like a genuinly glad person because she laughed at my compliment/joke and we started some small talk of where she was from (Brazil) and what I was doing here and shit like that.

After like a minute or so (when we were on a high note) I said before she had pulled the standard "lets drink some champagne"-line that she should go and leave me alone because I wasn't gonna order any stuff either way (in a light hearted way though) and she started to look around and lowered her voice and told me how they [the strippers] weren't aloud to talk with guys who didn't order stuff but that I was charming.
Maybe she even pulled off a headset of herself here, I can't remember exactly but I got like a slight memory of she talking off something and putting it in the handbag. I've seen strippers in that club who got like a headset the staff use to communicate to each other.

Anyway - we kept talking but she did go for the champagne-line anyway and then I said something along the lines of "are you kidding me? I would have loved to share a bottle of Dom Pérignon with you but it would have to be in nice lounge in a skybar but certainly not in this fucking place. You deserve better than this, don't you darling?". She laughed and I then told her to give me her number but since the strip club was the last place I went to all night my phone was dead and she went to the bar, took a pen and wrote it on a napkin and then turned the napkin into a ball and secretly handed it over to me and we just said goodbye.

I guess the other strippers might have suspected something because she actually said "see you next week" to me as I went to the door but that felt good because the other strippers in that club were cunts.

And anyway, that stripper I got it from had apparently worked there a few weeks. But that was it. Now I'm gonna write to her and try and set up a date, but even if that doesn't work out it's still a success because I've never had much luck with strippers.

[456]

"See the other side of the transaction"

You think you got past her "he's a mark" threshold?

[Repo]

"are you kidding me? I would have loved to share a bottle of Dom Pérignon with you but it would have to be in nice lounge in a skybar but certainly not in this fucking place. You deserve better than this, don't you darling?"

If this line works, I will start buying girls three sets of appetizers.

[HankMoody]

(12-16-2017 02:21 PM)The Alpha Virgin Wrote:  

Got the number of a stripper in a strip club last night and I know that 3 years ago I thought that was impossible. So I was by myself after having spent the night out and thought I should visit the strip club before I went home. But I guess I played this well...

The strippers came up to me one a the time as I was sitting in the least crowded place in the club. The first 3 that came up to me were snarky as fuck and was pissed I didn't get anything. I was just in a happy state trying to crack jokes and the 3rd one actually tried to offend me by calling short (meanwhile all of them had like 10-15cm heels).

THEN I went to the smoking area and as one cute stripper walked past I said something along the lines like "oh my god, this is heartbreaking, darling. I can't believe I see you in a place like this" and she seemed like a genuinly glad person because she laughed at my compliment/joke and we started some small talk of where she was from (Brazil) and what I was doing here and shit like that.

After like a minute or so (when we were on a high note) I said before she had pulled the standard "lets drink some champagne"-line that she should go and leave me alone because I wasn't gonna order any stuff either way (in a light hearted way though) and she started to look around and lowered her voice and told me how they [the strippers] weren't aloud to talk with guys who didn't order stuff but that I was charming.
Maybe she even pulled off a headset of herself here, I can't remember exactly but I got like a slight memory of she talking off something and putting it in the handbag. I've seen strippers in that club who got like a headset the staff use to communicate to each other.

Anyway - we kept talking but she did go for the champagne-line anyway and then I said something along the lines of "are you kidding me? I would have loved to share a bottle of Dom Pérignon with you but it would have to be in nice lounge in a skybar but certainly not in this fucking place. You deserve better than this, don't you darling?". She laughed and I then told her to give me her number but since the strip club was the last place I went to all night my phone was dead and she went to the bar, took a pen and wrote it on a napkin and then turned the napkin into a ball and secretly handed it over to me and we just said goodbye.

I guess the other strippers might have suspected something because she actually said "see you next week" to me as I went to the door but that felt good because the other strippers in that club were cunts.

And anyway, that stripper I got it from had apparently worked there a few weeks. But that was it. Now I'm gonna write to her and try and set up a date, but even if that doesn't work out it's still a success because I've never had much luck with strippers.

Nice!

Just make sure she isn't trying to make you a "regular."

If you start getting texts like "hey, come to the club", that's not good.

You have to meet up with her outside the club.

I think the best of my week was having dinner with my stripper friend and her mom.

Mom was actually very pleasant, and complimented my manners.

[treypound]

(03-30-2016 07:41 PM)Dantes Wrote:  

I was dating a stripper that I met a few months ago at a strip club.

A few points on how I picked her up:

She is late 20's, Brazilian 8

I didn't buy a dance.

I didn't buy her a drink.

I told her I was only in for a drink and needed to meet a friend in 20 minutes. I made it clear I wasn't there for lap dances or anything other than a drink.

I didn't compliment her or make any mention of her looks.

I framed our conversation around what we had in common: traveling and Brazilian culture.

After 15 minutes of talking, I said I needed to go. She asked if I would come back to the club to which I replied no. I told her we could met for a drink at this cool Brazilian place I know.

Drinks and makeup first date

Closed the second date and dated her for a few months.

She told me later on that she forgot she was working and never saw me as a customer. I think this is due to that I didn't treat her like she was a stripper or we were at a strip club.

I am no expert on strip club game, but it seems very doable with the right vibe and game.

On my 30th birthday I met a beautiful stripper in Miami. She was so accustomed to the guys coming in flaunting how much they had, or how much they can buy her, that a 10 minute non-sexual conversation at her job was a turn on. I remember she gave me her number before I could ask. We caught up the next day for lunch, and before she went to work that night I closed. One of the best South Fl trips I have had to date.

As many have said, never let them see you as a customer, and never treat them as a stripper. Go into the club dressed as you would if you were going out anywhere, although my preference is the "just got off work look" of slacks/dress shirt and nice dress shoes. So many strippers have complimented me on my shoes when they have seen me in the club.

Let the young dumb guys come in and make it rain, you will make it rain on her ass and face (hopefully) later.

[HankMoody]

Strippers are not that hard to pull. They're regular girls who are generally surrounded by betas trying to throw cash around.

Strip clubs are a good place to pull hot tail; just don't start throwing all your cash around.

Good post by @treypound.

[puckerman]

There are some other good things I can say about strippers. Most of them didn't have easy lives growing up. They aren't being bankrolled by mommy and/or daddy. They are supporting themselves and trying to pay their own way. They found a way to do it.

As a result, they often tend to be more mature. They understand that life can suck. They aren't spoiled brats or Jewish American Princesses. They learned to build up confidence in themselves. They aren't going to the mall every weekend.

They aren't prudes and aren't easily offended. You can use swear words. You don't have to worry about offending them.

I am curious to know if any man has ever tried to turn the "sexual harassment" table on a stripper. For example, strippers always touch men without asking. Some will even grab a man's balls. Has any guy ever said to a stripper: "Please don't touch me without asking first." Or: "I don't let any woman touch me there unless she is my girl friend. Do you want to be my girl friend?" What do you think would happen if you tried this?

[Rhyme or Reason]

Alright so last night I busted my strip club cherry. My buddy and I hit up some normal bars and afterwards, on our way home, he redirected our ride to a strip joint. I was kinda 'meh' about the idea since I had a few decent leads going at the regular bar, which he was kicked out of.

It was a pretty legit time, over all. The place was a full nude club so they do not have a bar nor serve alcohol (California law).

I made a rookie mistake, though and bought a dance from the first THOT that approached me. I was so fucking hammered I could barely stand, I almost passed out in the booth. She wasn't even all that hot from what I remember, and she treated it like work.

A few minutes after that I got a dance from a hot 20 year old and it was a much different experience, I was sucking tits, grabbing her ass, she pretty much let me do whatever I wanted. I had assumed that touching wasn't allowed but I guess it's up to their discretion. All in all, I had fun, didn't even spend much money, unlike my friend who walked out 500 dollars poorer. I can see how one can throw away a lot of money at these places if not careful.

I was laughing a bit at his expense since he was kind of buying into the BS stripper story nonsense. You know, the story about how she's doing this to get through lawschool or some such crap.

It's sleazy, but that's part of the fun.

[Mikestar]

I also popped my strip club cherry recently in Mexico. My friend who I went with used to be the no.1 most frequent customer and he knew all the dancers, staff and boss, he also dated strippers and banged them.

We went to a table and got a bottle of whiskey, I was feeling like a kid in a candy store. Strippers were fully naked, reggaeton was playing, sleazy men were making gestures to the girls. The girls had the best bodies I've seen in real life.

So our table ended up getting the most attention in the whole club, dancers sat next to me and wanted me to buy them drinks. When I told them I am 19 and from Eastern Europe they literally couldn't stop talking to me, they were grabbing my cock through my jeans. One of the strippers was in a Mexican sky sports commercial too, I will attach a video below (she is the one in the red).

I get my first dance from a Colombiana and it was full contact, touching is allowed anywhere you like. It was great. After it finished I spoke to this Mexican stripper and she wanted to bang me, she took her heels off and compared height to me and said "you're so tall and handsome", if I wasn't drunk off my head I could have banged her after her shift ended, she had a bubble butt. She was talking to me for so long that security told her to move to the next customer.

Craziest thing is I learnt so much Spanish in the strip club, no one spoke English and I had to really try hard to flirt with the strippers but it worked. Overall the strip club is a great form of entertainment but it drains your wallet, next time I go back I will try and bang a stripper, that's on my bucket list and in Mexico it can be done.

[lavidaloca]

(07-28-2018 05:52 PM)Mikestar Wrote:  

I get my first dance from a Colombiana and it was full contact, touching is allowed anywhere you like. It was great. After it finished I spoke to this Mexican stripper and she wanted to bang me, she took her heels off and compared height to me and said "you're so tall and handsome", if I wasn't drunk off my head I could have banged her after her shift ended, she had a bubble butt. She was talking to me for so long that security told her to move to the next customer.

Stripping establishments are often p4p in a lot of countries. Given you could touch them anywhere and by the sounds of it do whatever you wanted I would hazard a guess this place was like that.

[Roswell87]

Bump this thread. Last night I went solo for my first time and hit up this small bar. As I walk in I saw a sexy stripper/ dancer eye fucking me ,open her immediately. After 10 minutes we were sitting in chairs side by side. Saw the opportunity to start touching her inner thighs, shoulders and abs. She was very receptive but unfortunately I had to leave the venue without getting the number