If I bang a girl the 1st night , she's not LTR material
I don't mind casually dating girls I banged on the first date, but I never really take them too seriously.
Much harder to find these days, especially if you're in Australia.
Quote: (07-09-2017 10:06 AM)Australia Sucks Wrote:
I think a girl that fucks you on the first day/night can in some cases still be mini relationship material but is unworthy of marriage. If I ever decide to get married it will be with a young virgin (preferably 18 or 19) that demands a ring on her finger before giving up the pussy.
Much harder to find these days, especially if you're in Australia.
Oh God I'm about to prove how beta i use to be
I dated a girl fresh out of High school, we NEVER HAD SEX and the relationship lasted about 6 months. A girl i met after her we had sex on the first night we met and we were together for 10 years and it was a great relationship, she just started putting on weight and it was hard going out with her and sneaking looks at every attractive woman we walked past,it eventually took a toll on my soul. Very good person though and we still talk to this day.
I dated a girl fresh out of High school, we NEVER HAD SEX and the relationship lasted about 6 months. A girl i met after her we had sex on the first night we met and we were together for 10 years and it was a great relationship, she just started putting on weight and it was hard going out with her and sneaking looks at every attractive woman we walked past,it eventually took a toll on my soul. Very good person though and we still talk to this day.
UnW you are not going to find the type of girl I mentioned in Australia, that is for sure. When its time to get married, I will move and settle down in a different country.
Quote: (07-11-2017 10:13 PM)Australia Sucks Wrote:
UnW you are not going to find the type of girl I mentioned in Australia, that is for sure. When its time to get married, I will move and settle down in a different country.
I can't blame you. I have been living abroad for a couple of years and when I come back to home to Australia I'm reminded of why I left.
Quote: (01-12-2016 09:32 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Agree or disagree?
WIA
I rarely had an LTR with girls who wanted it but waited until it was "respectable" to do it. When that happens to me, IF I bother to see her a second time in the first place, by the time I get the bang that is ALL I want and it is bye very soon afterwards. Hence, most of my LTRs were girls with whom there was instant attraction and no delay games. Almost needless to say, however, my LTRs represent a small fraction of my SNLs. Most of my SNLs would fall into the group of sluts who are not LTR candidates. But I know that before the bang and it is not BECAUSE of the bang that I don't see them again.
how about "is a girl that holds out LTR material?"
In my experience its no.
They are simply holding out because of personal social stigma and not because they value themselves.
In todays environment the time it takes to bang doesnt determine if a girl is LTR material (in my neck of the woods). The same girl that it takes me 3-5 dates to bang has just as little to offer to a relationship as the SNL. Only difference is she feels like "We earned each other" and I will respect her.
Thing is I don't think respect was ever apart of the equation. I knew she would fuck me, it was always just a matter of when.
In my experience its no.
They are simply holding out because of personal social stigma and not because they value themselves.
In todays environment the time it takes to bang doesnt determine if a girl is LTR material (in my neck of the woods). The same girl that it takes me 3-5 dates to bang has just as little to offer to a relationship as the SNL. Only difference is she feels like "We earned each other" and I will respect her.
Thing is I don't think respect was ever apart of the equation. I knew she would fuck me, it was always just a matter of when.
Attraction and passion are non-negotiable
In this day and age of pipe lining, many will have either made up their mind they are ready to bang and/or feel emotionally attached with comfort, repertoire, etc.
Quote: (01-12-2016 09:50 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:
Disagree.
To be LTR material, a girl needs to:
A) be of high quality (attractive, kind, caring, loyal, etc)
B) be capable of genuine attraction towards a good man (i.e. feel repulsed by bad boys)
How fast she sleeps with you doesn't have much bearing on those factors.
I don't any woman would ever feel repulsed by a bad boy. If she did, she's mentally deranged and not LTR material anyway.
Almost every case of a girl liking me as an LTR prospect has been preceded by them putting the brakes on the sex for at least a couple of dates.
So that's more the situation. You can bet if you have a same night lay you probably won't end up together for the long term.
So that's more the situation. You can bet if you have a same night lay you probably won't end up together for the long term.
Good luck finding a girl who passes the test these days. And I'm not only talking about club sluts, nice librarian type girls are up for it too.
Quote: (06-23-2018 04:40 PM)FullThrottleTX Wrote:
Almost every case of a girl liking me as an LTR prospect has been preceded by them putting the brakes on the sex for at least a couple of dates.
So that's more the situation. You can bet if you have a same night lay you probably won't end up together for the long term.
She's gaming you. Since she see's you as a potential boyfriend/provider/sucker she acts like a "good girl" with you and have you wait for sex, all while she's hooking up and fucking other guys on the first date on the side.
Quote: (06-24-2018 09:01 AM)JayGould Wrote:
Quote: (06-23-2018 04:40 PM)FullThrottleTX Wrote:
Almost every case of a girl liking me as an LTR prospect has been preceded by them putting the brakes on the sex for at least a couple of dates.
So that's more the situation. You can bet if you have a same night lay you probably won't end up together for the long term.
She's gaming you. Since she see's you as a potential boyfriend/provider/sucker she acts like a "good girl" with you and have you wait for sex, all while she's hooking up and fucking other guys on the first date on the side.
Aren't you the one who wants to get married in your 20s?
Quote: (06-24-2018 01:05 PM)FullThrottleTX Wrote:
Aren't you the one who wants to get married in your 20s?
Yes I am. Perhaps it was just the way I read this statement "Almost every case of a girl liking me as an LTR prospect". I think every girl should like you as an LTR prospect, whether you sleep with them on the first night or not. Until that point, you should improve your game.
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