[Rocha]

(12-22-2015 09:12 AM)heavy Wrote:  

Two hours...


It's your job to say 'let's go...nice meeting you' after a few minutes. It's your job to stand up for yourself and your (and her) time. She'd have followed. If for some reason she didn't follow, you leave. If she's pissed at you, it was your job to find out she didn't really have much interest in you.

It's your job to push the interaction to find out where on her gradient you stand. Honestly, two hours makes me cringe a bit given the situation you were in. Really anything...anything at all...would have been better than what you described.

Lesson learned.

(12-19-2015 05:36 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

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Yes, I agree here 100%. Is good to be a man and keep the frame even if it costs the bang because some woman need to be taught, but in some situations, and in this case with some older slut involved, a threesome was on the table. Always keep frame after the bang, be smooth before it. Here is the best advice:

You guys and the random threesome neighbor fantasies...

I chuckled at your comment but...

Chics deep down want guys who'll do whatever the fuck they want...he starts ramping up the sex talk Q and A, how to give good blow jobs, and next thing you know they're both spinning.

I've always wanted to be that guy from Linux's post.

Anything wrong in wanting a threesome instead of a seminar?
One is a divorced in her 30s and the other is a 40yo slut. They are both unchangeable and damaged goods, no point in standing with high moral grounds with her or with her friend. Accept defeat on the initial intents, get some liquor and try to bang them both. Sure life is not a porn flick, but if you do not try, no fantasies will come true ever.

[AneroidOcean]

(12-19-2015 02:02 PM)TheMaleBrain Wrote:  

Hi

Here is something that happened today with a new girl. Would love insights from the community.

Background
The girl is in her 30's, tall and good looking, divorced yet has that "good girl" character.
I'm 40+, good shape, very tall, also divorced.
We went out twice. Kiss close and mild makeout.

What in the fuck is a kiss close and a mild makeout? Is that right before she falls asleep lacking interest?

(12-19-2015 02:02 PM)TheMaleBrain Wrote:  

this was suppose to be our third date. Second date she came to a place near my house. Saw it as a sign she is into me (she lives 25 miles away).

Yes, she WAS into you but you didn't take her home when she made the move to come near your house.

(12-19-2015 02:02 PM)TheMaleBrain Wrote:  

I told her we will go to a lecture (she was intrigued) and then to my place to cook. My plan was to get her to bang in my place after ordering her around in the kitchen.
She wanted to come with her car, so to block it I said I would pick her up.

She was intrigued? Sounds more like she was bored. A lecture? Really? Come on guy, do you think there's any lecture in the history of the universe that gets a woman horny?

Ok so she wanted to come with her car. Perfect, you have her meet at your place so you can drive you both to the event. Huge mistake to go pick her up 25 miles away.

(12-19-2015 02:02 PM)TheMaleBrain Wrote:  

Near arrival she texted saying her neighbor came in and that I should come up.
Her neighbor is somehow connected to her social circle (they did not meet before) and is also a divorced women but older.
She (the neighbor) is that women who is "Making up for missing out"
She would not leave, and my date was way into her ramble.
Imagine 2 girls meeting and finding out that they have some people in common.

This is when you should've either interjected immediately to get to your event, or you should've just left. Seriously how fucking rude is she? You sat there and took it for 2 hours. That's CRAZY!

(12-19-2015 02:02 PM)TheMaleBrain Wrote:  

Damn that neighbor is a slut, followed a lot of the signs (tattoos from the last years, brought pot from her house, talked a lot about sex and so).

I sometimes participated in the conversation but the neighbor is an attention whore and my date was "fascinated".I figured I show some interest, and listened on the girls talk. After 2 hours went online and started trying to make other plans.
After a few hours our time was up, and I went home.

Your date was fascinated by a washed up 40 year old whore? You need to work on yourself man, that's sad.

(12-19-2015 02:02 PM)TheMaleBrain Wrote:  

My thoughts were:
1. Leaving in the middle will not get me further. Case of irremovable cockblock.

Yes, it will! You're already cockblocked, might as well show her you're not putting up for that shit AND go home to have a chance to do anything but waste your time further.

(12-19-2015 02:02 PM)TheMaleBrain Wrote:  

2. Tried gaming a little to keep my value. Went so-so.

No, it did not go so-so. It went HORRIBLE.

(12-19-2015 02:02 PM)TheMaleBrain Wrote:  

3. If the slut could influence my date to be less prude, I might be able to bang on a followup date.

Run male hamster, run.

(12-19-2015 02:02 PM)TheMaleBrain Wrote:  

4. Told the slut that we should double (she is seeing someone).

Yeah, because there's tons of guys that have women throwing themselves at them that think "oh yeah I should totally double-date with this girl and her slutty old neighbor"

(12-19-2015 02:02 PM)TheMaleBrain Wrote:  

Not sure apart from the alternative of leaving the location that I could have done something better.

Need your feedback, thanks.

See the beginning of my feedback (and plenty of others feedback). You need to value your time more and consider her less. That's what women want, after all.