A few months ago I met a party girl at a club who became a regular. A couple of weeks ago we went to visit a friend of hers who lives by the beach for the weekend.
We spent the whole day drinking at the beach. A friend of hers was also visiting there; she's single had been flirting with me during the day. She's also bi. They're very close friends, they've made out and threesome jokes were made. Atmosphere was sexually charged.
We drank into the evening and went out for dinner. When we're back at the house all three of us decide to head for the bedroom together. We're in there getting warmed up. I make out with both of them and they make out with each other. Vibe was good, though both sloppy and drunk. I'm grabbing on both of them and escalating. About 10 minutes in the girl I've been seeing said she doesn't want to go through with it and left.
Thinking she might be upset I said 'fine', followed her out and we hooked up in the living room. Her friend stayed in the bedroom. I later asked her why and she said it would be too weird with her good friend. I have no threesome experience. Since there's a high bar to practising 'threesome game' I'd appreciate your input.
Questions:
- Are there any unexpected / unintuitive things to keep in mind with threesomes?
- Could I have played it better or was this reaction inevitable but just delayed by horniness and booze?
- Did she get jealous? (we've been slipping into relationship mode a bit lately; they're about equally attractive)
- Was it more akin to LMR and could have been overcome?
We spent the whole day drinking at the beach. A friend of hers was also visiting there; she's single had been flirting with me during the day. She's also bi. They're very close friends, they've made out and threesome jokes were made. Atmosphere was sexually charged.
We drank into the evening and went out for dinner. When we're back at the house all three of us decide to head for the bedroom together. We're in there getting warmed up. I make out with both of them and they make out with each other. Vibe was good, though both sloppy and drunk. I'm grabbing on both of them and escalating. About 10 minutes in the girl I've been seeing said she doesn't want to go through with it and left.
Thinking she might be upset I said 'fine', followed her out and we hooked up in the living room. Her friend stayed in the bedroom. I later asked her why and she said it would be too weird with her good friend. I have no threesome experience. Since there's a high bar to practising 'threesome game' I'd appreciate your input.
Questions:
- Are there any unexpected / unintuitive things to keep in mind with threesomes?
- Could I have played it better or was this reaction inevitable but just delayed by horniness and booze?
- Did she get jealous? (we've been slipping into relationship mode a bit lately; they're about equally attractive)
- Was it more akin to LMR and could have been overcome?
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