Welcome to Japan!
Quote: (02-11-2017 06:26 PM)Joeno Wrote:
How is the intensity / effort level required? I'm pretty lazy when it comes to gaming while on holidays and would rather relax and focus on one girl for a few hours than jump between rejections and taking it in the nutsack.
If being an Australian in Japan doesn't motivate you to approach and persist then I wonder what would?
During a fly-over tour of a country that features one of the highest living standards in the world, it is perhaps unrealistic for the average* guy -- without Japanese skills -- to expect
decent chicks to be DTF just because he showed up and hung out for 2 hours.
Just remember, low effort = low rewards.
*I mention "average" because there is no context to work with here...
Quote: (02-13-2017 03:24 AM)Joeno Wrote:
First day in Japan. Had 2 meetups (cs). 2.5 hours spent with each. Striked out 2x. Both had to leave for work (i believe it), 2nd held her hand but as i brought her to my hotel she gave a hard no. Think i should escalate more? Or just be more straightforward.
Likewise, I think it's a bit unrealistic to expect the readership to provide you with a useful answer to a complex question based on a 2-line report summary.
There is almost zero data to consider here. So there are dozens of questions that you would need to answer before anyone can provide you with a tailored answer. For instance, what did you text each other before the meeting, where did you go on the meet, how did they invest in you, how is your Japanese language skill, how is your appearance, how many girls - including Japanese - have you banged through cold-approaching, online game or otherwise, etc etc.
Have a look at the level of detail Mr. Destiny (or JWLZG) puts into his stories. While I've noted some suggestions for adjusting his writing style, I emphasized his richly-detailed, honest, open journaling.
If you put more effort into your postings here, including report writing, you will be more likely to get some quality, meaningful feedback.
Further reading:
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Tuthmosis - RE: Low post and zero rep newbies: Read this (general forum advice)
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Destiny's travel journal (writing tips)
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JWLZG - RE: Player's Log / Lounge (example report)
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Roosh - RE: Do Guys Not Want to Game Anymore? (the change in mens' motivation to learn pickup)