I mentioned this somewhere in one of the threads that recently my girlfriend broke up with me approx 1 month ago. We'd been dating for like a year and seven months and I had planned to marry this chick as soon as I could get enough money to leave this place and get a bigger place. She used to pressure me on this marriage thing alot and asked me for a ring. She moved into my apartment around December 09'. She looked after me really well and pampered me as if I was a king, so I really loved her. She always had a meal ready before I got home from work, Always had my bath water ready, always cleaned my room, ironed my clothes, provided the sex whenever I needed it etc etc . Basically looking after the place but was a live in girlfriend. She had no job at the time so I was paying for most things she needed.
Anyway a friend of hers moved into my neighborhood and basically my girlfriend and her friend used to just hang out alot at her apartment instead of at my place. I was cool with that because I felt that her friendship with my girlfriend was benign, and her friend always made out to me that she was always on my side in arguments. So I felt as though her friend was more my friend then hers, even though she knew my girlfriend longer. So basically her friend moves in and meet these well off guys that are older and have alot of money. These men are buying my girlfriends friend things like blackberries, jewelry, money etc etc. I must admit at one point I got alittle insecure when her friend and my girl used to hand out with these moneyed guys. I used to get even more worried when her friend asked me if she could take my girlfriend to one of their parties. I flat out declined and told my girlfriend not to go.
So one day I go out to get something from the store. I come back and my girlfriend has packed all her stuff. I mean she has packed all her stuff from her T-shirts, jeans, all the jewelry I bought for her, etc etc
NOTE: For those of you thinking maybe we had an argument the answer is NO. If you think in any way I abused her the answer is NO. I have never in my life time raised my hand at a woman before. The story gets better though.
So I ask her why is she packing
She says she is taking her stuff to her friends place (only 15 mins walk from my place).
I ask why and she says she is leaving me.
So I take a deep breath and ask what I did could have possibly done wrong to cause her to want to leave my apartment. She tells me I did nothing wrong. (I'll bet at this point your as puzzled as I was...But wait it gets better)
She basically tells me she wants a real man that has a bigger car and a big house. (Yes you are reading this right, and no I am not bullshitting).
So I ask her what about all the money I spent on her. She never worked whilst she was with me and I took care of everything for her whenever she needed it. She said it wasn't enough.
At this point I became really worried and couldn't understand why this was happening. So I begged her to stay and I told her that I would fix it. She was having non of it.
She left me and started partying like mad with her friend. I was told by another guy that she is f**king this older, richer guy that lives like 30 mins away. What kills me is that she moved on SO FAST. She left me and 2 weeks later she is fucking someone else. So she is in between the sheets with this other guy whilst I'm here with my heart torn out of my chest. I can't eat, I can't sleep, I can't concentrate. I am a wreak right now.
That is why I hang out on forums like Roosh and others just to keep myself doing something to try and forget.
I need help because its really painful. So much so that I nearly cried. (No bullshit)
What can I do to get over this?
Will I ever meet someone better than her?
Anyway a friend of hers moved into my neighborhood and basically my girlfriend and her friend used to just hang out alot at her apartment instead of at my place. I was cool with that because I felt that her friendship with my girlfriend was benign, and her friend always made out to me that she was always on my side in arguments. So I felt as though her friend was more my friend then hers, even though she knew my girlfriend longer. So basically her friend moves in and meet these well off guys that are older and have alot of money. These men are buying my girlfriends friend things like blackberries, jewelry, money etc etc. I must admit at one point I got alittle insecure when her friend and my girl used to hand out with these moneyed guys. I used to get even more worried when her friend asked me if she could take my girlfriend to one of their parties. I flat out declined and told my girlfriend not to go.
So one day I go out to get something from the store. I come back and my girlfriend has packed all her stuff. I mean she has packed all her stuff from her T-shirts, jeans, all the jewelry I bought for her, etc etc
NOTE: For those of you thinking maybe we had an argument the answer is NO. If you think in any way I abused her the answer is NO. I have never in my life time raised my hand at a woman before. The story gets better though.
So I ask her why is she packing
She says she is taking her stuff to her friends place (only 15 mins walk from my place).
I ask why and she says she is leaving me.
So I take a deep breath and ask what I did could have possibly done wrong to cause her to want to leave my apartment. She tells me I did nothing wrong. (I'll bet at this point your as puzzled as I was...But wait it gets better)
She basically tells me she wants a real man that has a bigger car and a big house. (Yes you are reading this right, and no I am not bullshitting).
So I ask her what about all the money I spent on her. She never worked whilst she was with me and I took care of everything for her whenever she needed it. She said it wasn't enough.
At this point I became really worried and couldn't understand why this was happening. So I begged her to stay and I told her that I would fix it. She was having non of it.
She left me and started partying like mad with her friend. I was told by another guy that she is f**king this older, richer guy that lives like 30 mins away. What kills me is that she moved on SO FAST. She left me and 2 weeks later she is fucking someone else. So she is in between the sheets with this other guy whilst I'm here with my heart torn out of my chest. I can't eat, I can't sleep, I can't concentrate. I am a wreak right now.
That is why I hang out on forums like Roosh and others just to keep myself doing something to try and forget.
I need help because its really painful. So much so that I nearly cried. (No bullshit)
What can I do to get over this?
Will I ever meet someone better than her?
"The biggest mistake I ever made was being fearful of losing someone. One should never be afraid of losing a girl" El Diablo