[ThePianoMan]

I was just talking to a hot girl on my team (I'm her boss) yesterday. I know, I know, don't shit where you eat, but this chick is an 8 and I have extra game just because of authority in this situation. I noticed something changed in her talking with me yesterday...all of a sudden something seemed flirty in her eyes and I couldn't figure it out. I check on facebook to see that the relationship she had with some dope didn't exist on there anymore. Seems like she's on the rebound.

What's your particular game with a girl fresh out of a relationship? Any strategies?

[TheMaleBrain]

Dude

Whatever you do - DO NOT HIT ON HER!
This is sexual harassment in the making.

As per advice on

Quote:

a girl fresh out of a relationship

, here are my tips:

1. Let her vent - she will want to talk about it. Give her a little room, but stop her after a short while.
2. Optimism - Be optimistic about it. "So it did not work for you at this round. The next one will be better".
Optimism is contagious...
3. Tell her she should have fun (with you) - take her to fun places. Tell her that when you broke up with "this girl" you did "that thing". Take her to do stuff she will enjoy.
4. Be semi-overt - meaning that you have interest in her and you show her. Do not back down even if she says that she is not looking for something right now.
Worst case scenario - you will be out.

But, please for your own sake:
DO NOT HIT ON HER!

[Phoenix]

Avatar flag is 'US'. Sorry dude, you're tickling the dragon if you pursue this.

[ThePianoMan]

To expand a little bit - she's quitting at the end of the month and she's only 6 years younger than me. Not a huge deal in my books if I work it up slowly over the month.

[WestIndianArchie]

I say try and bang her at work.
Call her into your office and just pull it out!

100% solid gold game

WIA

[ksbms]

(08-02-2015 11:52 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

100% solid gold game

WIA

Spraying 24 carat gold flakes on your Johnson?

[PapayaTapper]

This sounds like the ideal case study for INUMRBIJGFF game.

What's INUMRBIJGFF game?. Glad you asked. It's: "I need to update my resume because I just got fucking fired" game

[OregonToSoCal]

If she's quitting at the end of the month just meet her for drinks right after work on her last day to 'celebrate' and game as usual. Years ago I worked for a temp agency and seriously wanted to bang the admin girls who handled all of our time sheets. Knowing this could be bad I waited until I quit and immediately asked her out. She was going through a divorce and I banged her on the second date.

[amusedmastery]

Eject until you no longer are her supervisor in any capacity. Does not matter that she has "only" a month left. Take the advice here and ask her out after her last day. You are playing with fire otherwise. Seen this movie too many times.

[Noir]

Honeypot.

You sound old enough to know better.

/thread

[PapayaTapper]

(08-02-2015 10:35 AM)ThePianoMan Wrote:  

To expand a little bit - she's quitting at the end of the month and she's only 6 years younger than me. Not a huge deal in my books if I work it up slowly over the month.

Seriously I'd just play it cool until she's 100% out of your work place.... Then you can game on.

It'd be just like a chick to "decide" to stay if she was into a guy at work then blow his life up later if it didn't work out