[remy55]

Greetings all,

Okay, so my (very hot) wife left me last year and I have been sick of sulking and being lonely. I have never had a good game. I guess I was always lucky enough to get girls without trying too hard. The problem is that I usually pick the first woman who comes along because I guess I have been pretty lazy like that.

So I read Bang!, and got my feet wet by working my online game. I have done pretty well so far. I have gotten quite a few girl to give me their phone number and real into (email, FB profile, etc) and have even got some to text some nude/semi-nude pics.

I never knew how easy this could be. I have only met one in person so far (hey, it's only been a week) and she was a dud.

I thought I would pop my cherry on this forum (so to speak) with my semi-urgent problem. This one girl (6 or 7 milf) has been aggressively messaging me on match. She gave me her phone # and really wants to go out for drinks. I was on the fence and told her that I am frustrated with online dating and I think I need to take a break.

I told her "this is too much work with no reward. I really think that I just need to get laid. Maybe then I will have a fresh perspective and be ready to date some more"

At first, she said, "Let me know when you are ready to start dating again" An hour later, she expressed interest in hooking up for sex. So many girls delay meeting for a date for days or weeks, so I was quite surprised when she asked me if I could meet her tonight!

She has a son, so we can't meet at her place. There is no way I am taking her to my place. She wants to meet for drinks and then to... wherever. The problem is I don't want to check into a hotel with her standing there (she doesn't know my real name and hotels always ask for ID). I thought about getting a hotel ahead of time, but I'd rather not blow $85 bucks until I'm sure it's actually going to happen.

Any ideas guys?

[STriple-R]

Search function..

Seriously though, anywhere secluded will do. Otherwise, unless the son is really young he will be out of the house a lot..?

[remy55]

I tried the search function, but got nothing. I guess I couldn't figure out the best way to word my question.

Can you give examples of "anywhere secluded"?

The problem is that it is summer and she is a mid -level medical professional (not your average college slut). I don't think she wants guys like me coming and going with the risk of neighbors seeing and her kid coming home and walking in on us.

I'm in a similar boat.

[kaotic]

Just meet up for drinks, after all you don't REALLY know what she looks like, just pictures.

Just make the transition to sex easier.

Meet up at a bar at a hotel or right next to one.

See how you vibe, drop bait about fucking, if she's obviously DTF, don't waste time, leave her at the bar and check in by yourself, then grab her.

If she needs more comfort/warming up - maybe bounce to another nearby venue, and keep dropping bait, if she takes it, go ahead and book a hotel room.

Hell maybe even lie about about booking a hotel room, just to gauge her response and if she's interested.

If she's keen, leave her at the hotel bar, check in, and you're set.

[MrXY]

I've taken girls I've picked up in bars or met from online to hotels plenty of times. I use the hotels. com app on my phone but there are other booking sites -priceline, etc. Book the room when it's a sure thing-i.e. she agrees to go. Hotels.com does take 15-20 minutes to go through the system so keep that in mind. Sometimes I've just walked in without prebooking if the hotel parking lot doesn't have too many cars so I know a room is free.

Just have her wait in the car or the lobby area while you go to the front desk. They prefer to do this anyway to avoid embarrassment.

If she's a nurse or whatever I wouldn't be too paranoid about taking her to your place, though.

You should post basic questions like this in the Newbie Forum.

Edit: What Kaotic said about meeting close to a hotel or preferably several is key-you want to minimize that time between getting her in the mood to fuck and getting her into the room so that she doesn't cool off and change her mind

[remy55]

(07-29-2015 03:19 PM)MrXY Wrote:  

I've taken girls I've picked up in bars or met from online to hotels plenty of times. I use the hotels. com app on my phone but there are other booking sites -priceline, etc. Book the room when it's a sure thing-i.e. she agrees to go. Hotels.com does take 15-20 minutes to go through the system so keep that in mind. Sometimes I've just walked in without prebooking if the hotel parking lot doesn't have too many cars so I know a room is free.

Just have her wait in the car or the lobby area while you go to the front desk. They prefer to do this anyway to avoid embarrassment.

If she's a nurse or whatever I wouldn't be too paranoid about taking her to your place, though.

You should post basic questions like this in the Newbie Forum.

Edit: What Kaotic said about meeting close to a hotel or preferably several is key-you want to minimize that time between getting her in the mood to fuck and getting her into the room so that she doesn't cool off and change her mind

Thanks a lot. I actually meant to post this in the Newbie forum. Sorry, my bad.

[remy55]

Well, I just got back from my "date", so I thought I would report back and give an update.

We texted back and forth for awhile. I kept putting the solution on her shoulders since she was acting like she wanted it more than me. Finally, she suggested that I pick her up at her house and we go "park" somewhere like teenagers. I said I wouldn't mind, but I was planning on driving my motorcycle (my other ride is a minivan with a huge dent on the back door - not a good chick magnet). She said, "Just get over here quickly and we'll just figure it out."

It was a 45 minute ride, but I had to stop for gas. I texted her suggesting that she tell her kid (14 year old son lives in the basement with a separate entrance) that is was a private yoga client of hers (she is a yoga instructor on the side)... or something like that. I stopped again to buy condoms just before I got to her house and read her text that "It's all taken care of"

I showed up at her house and knocked on the door. I was completely blown away by the petite bombshell that answered the door. She wasn't a 6 or 7 like her pictures. She was more like an 8 or a 9. She smiled, made a gleeful giggle, then reached out and grabbed my hand and took me upstairs to her room. After we entered her room, she closed the door, put her arms around me and started kissing me. Less than 15 minutes after I entered the house, we were in her bed having sex.

She probably had the best body of any woman I have slept with in my life. She had a boob job, but not overdone... and her skin was soft and smooth from head to toe (completely shaved). I guess she looked like what you would expect a yoga instructor to look like. After sex, she wanted to go for a ride, so we hopped on my bike and drove around on some curvy back roads. We went back to her house, she gave be a beer we and snuggled on the couch and talked. I was impressed how intelligent she was (it came up that she has a 135 IQ). She is a respectable professional who just happens to get horny like me and doesn't really have the opportunity to meet people.

I was expecting this to be a quick in-and-out thing, but I found myself really enjoying talking to her. Maybe she read the female, PUA manual, because she started fixing my hair... then she straddled me on the couch and started kissing me. we went back upstairs and had sex again. After sex, she kept caressing my body and talking. She said I should go soon because she has to get up early for work tomorrow, but she had her legs wrapped around mine, so I couldn't leave. Then she would ask general questions about my parents and my childhood. Right when I was about to leave, she straddled me again and started rubbing her body against mine until I was hard again. I tried to reach for a condom on the night stand, but couldn't reach because she had me pinned down.

I told her that we don't need to go again if she doesn't want to. I wasn't sure if I could cum again that soon anyway. I guess she took that as a challenge because she then proceeded to give me one of the best blow jobs ever until I came in her mouth. I said, "Thanks!", put on my clothes and she walked me to the door. When I got home I saw she left me a text saying, "that was awesome"

I checked my email when I got home. I received a bunch of naked pics. Not from her, but from the girl who was my backup date for tonight. I think she wants to get together tomorrow.

Damn this game is fun, but I'm not sure how long I can keep this up (I'm 40).

[GlobalMan]

(07-30-2015 02:55 AM)remy55 Wrote:  

Damn this game is fun, but I'm not sure how long I can keep this up (I'm 40).

You recently had a revelation about life and women, and just had a great bang with the best piece of ass you've had in your life, and that is your mindset? Come on man, get your confidence right, realize what you've learned, and believe in yourself and the power a mature masculine man can have.

If you're talking from a physical point of view, start taking testosterone, work out, take Cialis if need be.. you can keep this up for at least another decade. Hell, we just had a 24 y/o chic make a jilted lover thread here last night complaining about a former member here...who is 50.

The only limits are those you impose on yourself. Keep going. You only get to do this once.

Create your own meaning to life.

[remy55]

(07-30-2015 03:10 AM)GlobalMan Wrote:  

(07-30-2015 02:55 AM)remy55 Wrote:  

Damn this game is fun, but I'm not sure how long I can keep this up (I'm 40).

You recently had a revelation about life and women, and just had a great bang with the best piece of ass you've had in your life, and that is your mindset? Come on man, get your confidence right, realize what you've learned, and believe in yourself and the power a mature masculine man can have.

If you're talking from a physical point of view, start taking testosterone, work out, take Cialis if need be.. you can keep this up for at least another decade. Hell, we just had a 24 y/o chic make a jilted lover thread here last night complaining about a former member here...who is 50.

The only limits are those you impose on yourself. Keep going. You only get to do this once.

Create your own meaning to life.

thanks for the boost man

I actually work out a lot, have a great body, and apparently I have a decent online and offline game when i put a little effort into it. I actually have low T and have been prescribed injections. I ran out and am waiting for my next dose in the mail. The problem is that when you quit cold turkey like that, your estrogen gets completely out of whack and you start acting like a wimp and whining like a bitch. I guess this is why I'm proud I'm doing pretty well for my first week in the game.

Just wait until I'm back on the big T...

[GlobalMan]

(07-30-2015 03:19 AM)remy55 Wrote:  

The problem is that when you quit cold turkey like that, your estrogen gets completely out of whack and you start acting like a wimp and whining like a bitch. I guess this is why I'm proud I'm doing pretty well for my first week in the game.

Just wait until I'm back on the big T...

I hear that man, not a great feeling after coming off T, takes a while to get back to normalized levels. Its like a wave trailing the Test and when you stop taking it that wave hits you.

Sounds like you have your shit sorted out, you're miles ahead of most guys and I have no doubt you'll continue having great experiences like you have been, you're off to a great start

[elcidcampeador]

(07-30-2015 02:55 AM)remy55 Wrote:  

I checked my email when I got home. I received a bunch of naked pics. Not from her, but from the girl who was my backup date for tonight. I think she wants to get together tomorrow.

Damn this game is fun, but I'm not sure how long I can keep this up (I'm 40).

I wouldn't give any girl an email of mine that I actually use, even an actual girlfriend or wife.

Otherwise, seems like a successful night

[Wahawahwah]

Aight good job. Just one piece of advice -- Chicks HATE making decisions about where to go what to eat etc. Taking the lead and just deciding works out better than waiting for her to decide the best spot or going back and forth on it. If she really has a problem with your recommendation, she'll voice it out.

[remy55]

(07-31-2015 09:36 PM)elcidcampeador Wrote:  

(07-30-2015 02:55 AM)remy55 Wrote:  

I checked my email when I got home. I received a bunch of naked pics. Not from her, but from the girl who was my backup date for tonight. I think she wants to get together tomorrow.

Damn this game is fun, but I'm not sure how long I can keep this up (I'm 40).

I wouldn't give any girl an email of mine that I actually use, even an actual girlfriend or wife.

Otherwise, seems like a successful night

I use a burner email and phone number. Hell, I don't even use my real name most of the time.

(07-31-2015 10:06 PM)Sharkie Wrote:  

Aight good job. Just one piece of advice -- Chicks HATE making decisions about where to go what to eat etc. Taking the lead and just deciding works out better than waiting for her to decide the best spot or going back and forth on it. If she really has a problem with your recommendation, she'll voice it out.

Very true. I think the biggest reason I put it back on her was to see how motivated she was. Also, I really wanted to just do it at her house. I helped her come to the conclusion on her own that the only reasonable place to go was her house, so she gave in without me needing to pressure her (directly) about it.

[GlobalMan]

(08-01-2015 12:27 AM)remy55 Wrote:  

Hell, I don't even use my real name most of the time.

This is a wise thing to do, and not just for meeting women. Most guys don't think about this. To me its just second nature now, my real name only goes on legal documents.

I think I'll make a thread about it

[remy55]

(08-01-2015 02:42 AM)GlobalMan Wrote:  

(08-01-2015 12:27 AM)remy55 Wrote:  

Hell, I don't even use my real name most of the time.

This is a wise thing to do, and not just for meeting women. Most guys don't think about this. To me its just second nature now, my real name only goes on legal documents.

I think I'll make a thread about it

I'll keep an eye out for that thread and may be able to contribute. I was burned bad in the past, but no more. I have so many aliases, email addresses and phone numbers it's crazy. I go by nicknames in person. I'm pretty sure the only person who knows my real legal name is my STBX wife. I'm pretty sure my first wife doesn't even know my name.

The girl in this thread called me out because she thought Remy was a fake name and wanted to know my real name. I admitted it was fake and told her three other aliases alond with a really boring story about my names (e.g. I wrote a book under a pen name, etc) She got so bored with the story, she quit asking.