Quote: (07-21-2015 12:04 AM)Druber Wrote:
Birthdaycat; do you date 'fresh off the boat' girls, or those who have spent a few years integrated (and most likely brainwashed) into western life? Pro and cons for both? Thanks.
I’m going to answer this in terms of my experiences in the US but I think it is probably similar in the UK.
I've dated a variety both in terms of Asian, Latin, and a few Europeans as well as everything from FOB (fresh off the boat) to girls with Americanized parents who were born in the US. I've dated feminine American black girls who had a preference for white guys - they aren't foreign but they're rare. It's hard to categorize them. It's really a mixed bag because they come from so many different cultures and have so many different experiences once they get to the US. One girl might be surrounded by western women while another girl might be surrounded by a community of people from her home country.
I see a lot of guys online talking about "Asian girls are like this or like that" and I rarely agree with their generalized statements because Asia is huge and very diverse. A Korean girl from Seoul and a Vietnamese girl from a village town can be even more different than a hot stripper in LA and a fat SJW in Washington DC. There is more consistency across the Lain cultures.
FOBs are probably the best if a guy wants to avoid the American attitude but there will be complications with cultural differences and communication since English won't be the first language. Girls who have been in the US for a while or were born in the US to immigrant parents will vary. It mostly depends on if the girl has a diverse group of friends or not. A girl whose family has been in the US for a couple generations can be a lot like dating an American girl. They might have bad attitudes but they might be easy to get into bed. Like Roosh says, there is no shortcut. If you aren't working hard to find the better American girls then you’ll be working hard to understand the nuances with foreign girls.
Here are some very random data points that I thought of.
-Day game at the farmer’s market.
-The girls that haven’t been Americanized yet will be easier to get with in urban areas. The more they get into the suburbs the harder it will be to get them out of their social circles.
- There are some Americanized Asian girls that are completely obsessed with status much more so than white girls. One Korean I dated was like that but another one I "dated" wasn’t like that at all and by "dated" I mean I used to call that girl to confirm her boyfriend wasn't at her place and tell her I was coming over in an hour.
-Most black women in the US will treat a white man much better if they know he has dated black girls. This helped me out a lot with coworkers in a couple of jobs.
-Don’t fuck with southeast Asian gangster dudes. They may not look intimidating but they travel in packs and are ruthless.
-Some traditional southeast Asian girls refer to their boyfriend as their brother or cousin. This is so random. I don’t know why they do it but that is her boyfriend not her brother and she isn’t going to cheat on him.
-If a girl went to Catholic school it doesn’t matter what her race is or what country the school was in. She is probably crazy but she loves the D. I’ve confirmed this several times.