[vinman]

(07-09-2015 11:18 PM)djk100 Wrote:  

It depends on the skills of the blowjob. If a chick can give a nice blowjob like Heather Brooke, then its ok despite not being a 10.

Wow. That name is a blast from the past.

[Fortis]

^ Many great memories there.

[Pride male]

Heartiste had a post explaining that game can only do so much. It can get you a girl 2 points above you. So if you are a male 3 your chances of banging an 8 are next to none. Sometimes you have to be honest with yourself and understand your limits. So if a 5 is the best you can get, bang one.

[The_e_man]

As others have said, it's good to bang 5's to keep your wheels lubricated during a dry-spell.

Also, I think if you are too caught up about banging a 5 then you are simply too worried about what other people think of you and thus you feel bad.
In reality, your dick is perfectly happy taking down a 5, provided no better option is immediately available.

Would I prefer to take down a 9? Hell yeah.
If I see a mixed group a there is an 8.5 and a 5.5 in the set who would I approach and run game on? The 8.5
If I have nothing else going on and there's a 5 that wants to pounce on my dick with no effort on my part? I let her consider it her lucky day and have at her.

Banging 5's should only be an issue if all you can bang is 5's or you don't feel you "deserve" a 9.
Other than that, we are men and it is in our primal desire to fuck things with two legs and a pulse.

Keep on trucking brothers!

[Yatagan]

A willing girl, a bed, and a hard cock are the only reasons I need to bang a 5.

[OregonToSoCal]

I met up with a girl last night who had contacted me from Instagram liking my photos. She looked to be around a 6 and grew up in Portugal but now lived in SoCal. We texted off and on for about a week until our schedules lined up. She lives a little over an hour from me but I was visiting family yesterday and it was somewhat on the way to go see her.

In person she was maybe a 5 being generous, her body was slightly SIFish but her personality seemed cool. We hit up a speakeasy style whiskey bar and she was pretty open about how sexual she is but then shared some experiences of being pumped and dumped and how "that will never happen again." After our drinks I suggested we go watch the sun set from her upstairs patio and she reluctantly agreed. Once inside we began making out and the ASD came on like an iron curtain. I tried to overcome it three times and threw in the towel and drove home.

Long story short, I concur with a lot of the posts on this thread. Sure, I would have banged her but dealing with all of her issues and coming up short for a 5 was a horrific waste of time.

Once again, it proves my point that I don't want to meet women from online anymore. I want to see the goods before I approach and invest a minute of my time in someone.

[MrXY]

I have no problem banging average girls, I am a horny fuck and crave sexual variety and experiences. Plus, some of the best sex I've ever had has been with average girls.

But I agree that that amount of work and time I'm willing to put in on a bang is inversely proportional to her looks. Average women better not give me too much trouble or I will bail out without a second thought.

[OregonToSoCal]

(07-14-2015 02:30 PM)MrXY Wrote:  

I have no problem banging average girls, I am a horny fuck and crave sexual variety and experiences. Plus, some of the best sex I've ever had has been with average girls.

But I agree that that amount of work and time I'm willing to put in on a bang is inversely proportional to her looks. Average women better not give me too much trouble or I will bail out without a second thought.

I completely agree. If a 5 is willing to make it easy on me I'll bang her every single time. In the case of what happened last night it was a pretty hollow feeling going to the time and trouble of driving down to her neighborhood, setting the date and logistics up knowing I could get her back to her place (which I did) and then having her sit back on her couch, cross her arms and say "we're not doing any of that tonight" makes me feel pretty empty. Eh...I've had much better than her, countless times and with much less effort. It makes me feel like I sold out and devalued myself. Never again...

[Pride male]

Half a loaf is better than nothing.

[The_e_man]

(07-14-2015 03:03 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

(07-14-2015 02:30 PM)MrXY Wrote:  

I have no problem banging average girls, I am a horny fuck and crave sexual variety and experiences. Plus, some of the best sex I've ever had has been with average girls.

But I agree that that amount of work and time I'm willing to put in on a bang is inversely proportional to her looks. Average women better not give me too much trouble or I will bail out without a second thought.

I completely agree. If a 5 is willing to make it easy on me I'll bang her every single time. In the case of what happened last night it was a pretty hollow feeling going to the time and trouble of driving down to her neighborhood, setting the date and logistics up knowing I could get her back to her place (which I did) and then having her sit back on her couch, cross her arms and say "we're not doing any of that tonight" makes me feel pretty empty. Eh...I've had much better than her, countless times and with much less effort. It makes me feel like I sold out and devalued myself. Never again...

I've been there before. A really shitty feeling for sure.

[Mr Finish]

if I held out exclusively for dimes I'd only get laid once or twice a year. I'm fine with a 7 or 8, maybe a six if I'm trashed, but I'm from a small town and it's easy to run into people you know here.

[XPQ21]

(07-07-2015 04:14 PM)bradz Wrote:  

It's all relative. Do you know how many girls I didn't fuck when I was younger because of some dumb reason - a mole, crooked tooth, big nose. WTF?? What was I thinking?? Now that I'm 40+ if they are younger and are not fat - I'm game. No problem at all with not so great face but good body.

I'm in my mid 30s and am a bit the opposite - I'm a sucker for a cute face and just not being disgustingly overweight; like the size 10-16 range depending on height. If she has a cute face but is somewhat chubby, I don't care a bit. If she wears glasses, even better. I like big tits, nice legs, and big asses.

I would bang the shit out of every one of these "plus sized" hotties: http://www.buzzfeed.com/jessicamisener/t...wnW8wd4Ewr

[Pride male]

10 5s or 1 10?

[Nascimento]

Still not sure where I stand on this.

One thing is for sure, for lack of a better measure to refer to, in my opinion no man on this RVF board should be banging anything below a 5. Ever.

A 5 is a low-quality chick to some, average to others, and decent at best to beginners.

I don't see any benefit in banging a 4. Jerking off would be better. I don't care about being lubricated game-wise or ending a dry spell. I've waited out for something better before and it's been worth it.

Though I do have to say the sweet spot for me sex-wise has been with 7's. The 8's I've been with despite having the better figures have not pleased me as much, so far. I've also been with a couple 6's that were great in bed but because their looks weren't impressive I felt there was a ceiling for how much satisfaction they could give me.

That's why I'll never complain about or understand it when some guys berate 7's.

So essentially, I believe there are ifs and buts on both the quality and quantity side of things.

[el mechanico]

Yeah but those are all your personal ratings the guys here might rate as 4-5

[Nascimento]

I mentioned I don't really like the number scale. Using it was to illustrate a point, take what I meant objectively, for slightly better or worse to some.

[el mechanico]

(07-15-2015 05:45 PM)Nascimento Wrote:  

I mentioned I don't really like the number scale. Using it was to illustrate a point, take what I meant objectively, for slightly better or worse to some.

So none of this on this thread makes any sense. Which I believe.

Questions should be: How long can you hold a dryspell or how often do you need strange. Let's be realistic here.