Quote: (06-15-2015 07:29 AM)Nascimento Wrote:
I learned in an evolutionary sexuality course that women don't necessarily have a sexual orientation. I forget the details, but this plasticity has been adaptive.
I's a complicated mechanism, and although 95% of women would identify themselves as straight, many of them will attempt or consider something with their own sex at some point.
Not surprising news for most of us. I've seen plenty of chicks makeout with each other and of course there are threesomes happening every so often.
I think you can often tell that a man has not a lot of experience with women if he reacts with shock and surprise that a particular girl has had sex with girls, sees girls kissing, etc. Men who have dated a lot of women know how much secretive sex goes on between them.
Just from my own recent experience:
The hot girl I banged two nights ago for the second time told me that she has hooked up with girls many times and is currently "dating" a girl she sees fairly often.
One of my current harem members has had sex with women on occasion and kissed them much more often and says she "loves kissing girls."
Another harem member told me that when she watches porn, it's almost always lesbian porn.
A former harem member who I am still friends with actually had a live in lesbian lover after her divorce whom she met at work. Said she never would again though because women are too crazy.
A married fuck buddy told me she's never done it with a girl but fantasizes about it sometimes and would like to try it.
A girl I dated for several months a couple of years ago had a toy chest which included strap ons she used on girls.
Another girl I dated around the same time was a cute little blonde. One day she wanted to show me a pic on her phone and I noticed a she scrolled through the gallery that she had a bunch of lesbian porns in there.
I could go on with this but you get the point-it's extremely common to the point I consider it to be really just normal female sexuality. All the women I mentioned are middle class professional types, not any sort of freaky alternative or damaged girls.
I think the average beta guy really has no idea about this because he never gets intimate with enough women to have them admit this. Also, almost all these women identify as straight; a girl who calls herself bi is really just doing it for the attention. I've found that women will readily discuss this with you if present yourself as a cool, sexual man who is nonjudgemental. They don't feel guilty about having had sex women at all, but they don't want to have a man shame them about it or spread gossip.
I agree with the evolutionary theory; I think it has to do with reinforcing female bonds within small social groups. The offspring of a woman who has several close female friends/lovers is much more likely to survive due to the mutual assistance they provide each other than the offspring of a woman who is not popular and has not cultivated those emotional bonds.