so almost all of my hook ups came from mutual friends or being introduced by family. i go out only once a week on a friday or saturday, but i've only taken one girl home. i've gotten numbers but all they lead to were flakes.
How to increase your chances of SNL, or ONS?
Three major problems I see here:
1. You're not going out enough
- SNLs are all about being in the right place at the right time, and then capitalizing on opportunities. If you're not going out enough you greatly reduce your chances of coming across a girl where a SNL is possible. If you're not a fan of the bar, try day game, although my success rate with SNLs from day game has been MUCH smaller, so far...
2. You're going out only on Fridays and Saturdays
- Those are actually harder nights to get a SNL; her guard is up, her friends are around, and there's probably too many dudes out, making things that much more difficult. Try going out sometime between Mon-Thurs and see what happens. I'm not writing off weekends entirely, as you can definitely make something happen, but you need to broaden your horizons.
3. You're settling for numbers
- You gotta push for that continued interaction on the first meeting. Get the mindset that every girl you meet, you're never going to see again, and push things as far as they can go. Try to venue change, and definitely try to get her back to your place, or go back to her's.
1. You're not going out enough
- SNLs are all about being in the right place at the right time, and then capitalizing on opportunities. If you're not going out enough you greatly reduce your chances of coming across a girl where a SNL is possible. If you're not a fan of the bar, try day game, although my success rate with SNLs from day game has been MUCH smaller, so far...
2. You're going out only on Fridays and Saturdays
- Those are actually harder nights to get a SNL; her guard is up, her friends are around, and there's probably too many dudes out, making things that much more difficult. Try going out sometime between Mon-Thurs and see what happens. I'm not writing off weekends entirely, as you can definitely make something happen, but you need to broaden your horizons.
3. You're settling for numbers
- You gotta push for that continued interaction on the first meeting. Get the mindset that every girl you meet, you're never going to see again, and push things as far as they can go. Try to venue change, and definitely try to get her back to your place, or go back to her's.
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