Quote: (04-06-2015 01:56 AM)Alfa Wrote:
I often wonder if introversion is simply an excuse for people too lazy to put in the work. Kind of how people who are overweight will often say "Oh I have a slow metabolism," when in reality only 200 calories/day separate the best from the worst.
Some of the guys here are confusing shyness (fear based) or social awkwardness (misunderstanding of cues) with introversion. Introverts simply draw energy from inward sources, whilst extroverts draw energy from others.
From Wikipedia:
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Extraversion tends to be manifested in outgoing, talkative, energetic behavior, whereas introversion is manifested in more reserved and solitary behavior.
As to the suggestion it's not real:
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Virtually all comprehensive models of personality include these concepts in various forms. Examples include the Big Five model, Jung's analytical psychology, Hans Eysenck's three-factor model, Raymond Cattell's 16 personality factors, the Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory, and the Myers–Briggs Type Indicator.
So, dammit, here's some Introvert Pride.
I'm introverted. I'm perfectly socially-functional, game girls and can dominate the conversation in a group,
should I chose to do so. This is not social awkwardness: I've acted on the stage, have a movie - finally - coming out later this year and front a band. (I'm not big baller trolling, but to clarify what Introverts can do when focused. Hell, Introverts aren't as socially-approval driven as extroverts, so I'm indifferent as to whether you believe me or not).
The difference is, I process experience differently to extroverts: every so often I need quiet downtime and solitude - this usually involves getting out in nature - to recharge and quietly consider the experiences and thoughts in my head. Since extroverted people are looking to take energy from me, sometimes I simply don't feel like giving it to them, and withdraw.
I don't crave or need social contact, because I enjoy my own company, and most extroverts can only offer me a superficial level of social stimulation, as I crave to think deeply about topics, carefully-analyse what I observe and plan strategies for success. Most often, extroverts are just pests - interrupting more interesting trains of thought.
I'm a classic Myers-Briggs INTJ. You'd be wise to understand us, because whilst you're underestimating us, we've carefully-laid out plans for stealing your girl and crushing your dreams, and you won't see it coming because we've had time to consider every outcome and having to slow down to
attempt to explain the absolutely fucking obvious is painful. Meanwhile, you were talking about the weather and movies.
You haven't seen Game until you've seen two INTJ's working as a team. We're only (EDIT: checked newer estimates) 0.8% of the population, so when we find each other, it's intense.
Fellow INTJ's might enjoy this article:
INTJ - The Character Most Writers Get Wrong
Another breakdown
INTJ Personality