Quote: (11-20-2014 01:22 AM)Travesty444 Wrote:
This man has conviction!
If he was a troll he'd be winning against of us like Little Dark vs. The 30 White Knights...
Well, the fact that OP has NOT yet been banned may cause some RVF'ers to believe that OP is legit, and with some kind of legit scenario that he is describing.
So, yep, OP is surely beating our asses with what seems to be a stupid-ass scenario that makes little to no sense in the real world regarding what guys should be striving to pursue in long term relationships.
Short term relations may be another story, but even then, I would find it somewhat troubling to be involved in relations that are inviting other guys.. and allowing my participation to be minimized and seemingly marginalized... Call it insecurity or whatever, but I like to participate and direct significant and material aspects of my relationships with women, and when they seem to be calling a large majority of the shots, I lose my sense of manliness... and even sense that the girl loses her respect and/or deference towards me and my preferences when she is given too much latitude and control in our relationship.
In other words, I likely would NOT agree, and I likely would put my foot down, unless there were to be some way to frame the situation in such a way in which the girl is fulfilling various needs and desires that I truly want fulfilled.
I believe TravelerKai made several good points well
in his above post.