[Smooth Operator]

- Being more assertive
- Frame of the prize: instead of thinking "hot girl" -> "I want to fuck her", you think "she looks good" -> "she has a chance with me, let's evaluate her behaviour"
- Balancing escalation with non-neediness: by evaluating her (non-verbal) feedback

In general I would say: drop all micro PUA tactics like negs, DHV, (consciously doing) push-pull,…and focus on the macro scheme: being masculine.

[sandman972]

My mindset.

As early as a year ago, I remember I would walk into the bar and approach a girl. Going through my mind would be " I hope she likes what Im selling, I hope this works out", in essence qualifying myself.

Fast foreword to today, my mind set has totally been flipped. As a result of simply more game experience, more rejections, more notches, achieving more successes in life,getting my heart ripped out, I have am stronger than ever.

When those doors open to the bar, I walk in there like I am fucking celebrity. My mindset now is " Ok girl I'm approaching you, and I'm giving you a chance to either make it or break it with me. I am so above you in every way, so you better not fuck this up". I know I can get good looking women, I know women think I'm attractive, and I know my game is good enough, its just a matter if shes actually down or not.

Ever since this switch in mindset/ realization in value, my grasp of abundance mentality has been solidified, and when things don't work out with a girl, I truly don't give a fuck. I'v had many women tell me upfront that I make them nervous in a good way because of how confident I come off.

However, I only achieved this through actual events in my life that built me into the person I am today. You get a point where the thought of ever trying to qualify yourself to a girl is a joke in its self.