[El Padrone]

(05-09-2019 04:44 AM)subterfuge Wrote:  

(05-08-2019 10:59 AM)El Padrone Wrote:  

Game with a capital G, removes the dictatorial power of choice froma chick and gives it to the man . Assuming you have your basics tight, how do you use game? Think of a woman as a bulb, hit the right emotional switch(her feelings) at the right time in the right way, she goes lights on and follows you to the condo.

I always wanted to believe this, but in truth, I feel like you need to meet her physical requirements for your 'game' to do a damn thing, tbh. (ps - Please don't confuse me with some incel 'you need to be a male model to get laid!!' dude lol. That's not me)
I just think You can try to spike her emotions and make her laugh, challenge her etc etc, but without that initial physical attraction, I find it's not gonna go anywhere sexual.

I get what you're saying but come up and lets see the forest for the trees. You think every female "10" has only ever slept with male "10"s?? No.
How about a male 9, 8, 7, 6 when she is herself a 10? No.
What are her "requirements"? Usually it is
1. Tall
2. Dark/Fair
3. Handsome
4. Rich
5. Ripped
6. Caring and romantic
7. Knows what I need bla bla bla

But everyone who has banged her out, did the meet those requirements? Definitely no.
If no, we need to ask what made her do it? If you didn't win in the looks lottery, are you fucked for life, condemned to spending your days "looksmaxing" and banging low grade bitches?

Putting a number on female attractiveness automatically puts you at a disadvantage because chances are that you won't rate yourself as an equal. The power and appeal of a man in seducing a woman, is not is his physical appearance(provided you have your basics like hygiene, socialization down pat which most of us already do).

If you can make her "feel" with you, the way she "thinks" she would "feel" with a male 10, then that's all that's needed.

Your goal should not be to make her laugh or challenge her.

Your goal is to get *into* her mind, explore what she feels about whatever talking about in the back and forth between you, then lead the conversation in the direction you please(sex, baking a cake, mysteries of the universe etc) If you do this competently enough, you become the guy painting the numbers and picking the numbers in the scratchoffs.

[BalanceLife]

(05-09-2019 04:05 AM)Heightcel Wrote:  

I wouldn't recommend daygame to anyone who is average or under average looking, unless you want to grind 100s of sets for a single bang
I'm easily above average looking and daygame is still a grind, probably takes me 100 approaches to get laid with a girl 0.5-1 point under my looks. Initial reactions are good but getting them out after is not so easy, my game is low intermediate though.

I've seen avg / under avg people approach and the reactions they get are absolutely abhorrent, you can see the disgust appear on their faces after 0.1 second, a direct response from the limbic system.

Also JFL if u believe guys get approached. I've probably done around 1000 sets and have been approached maybe 5 times, for directions

Yes daygame cold approach is probably the hardest.

If you are talking about 1/50 or 1/100 cold approach for a lay then that’s one lay every month, it is not bad at all. The question is - do you dare / have time / in the frame / etc to approach five each day.

Day game for me (and most) have always been one hell of a challenge, I don’t really count anymore, and still get stuffed with AA occasionally, but I have also landed some of my best girls via daygame. My best memory was a fine 9 Brazilian girl. Yes, I many more countless failures and “fuck off” stares too.

One tip I learn is to have the ability to broad scan (don’t stare like a creep) sometimes girls do give a 0.5 seconds stare at you, though you will mostly need to just open, open and open. And like what the master have said, until you have opened 200 you have little right to say whether if daygame is effective.

[Sgt Donger]

(05-09-2019 08:42 PM)El Padrone Wrote:  

What are her "requirements"? Usually it is
1. Tall
2. Dark/Fair
3. Handsome
4. Rich
5. Ripped
6. Caring and romantic
7. Knows what I need bla bla bla

And good hair...you need good hair for day game.

[Arkania]

(05-09-2019 09:17 PM)BalanceLife Wrote:  

Yes daygame cold approach is probably the hardest.

If you are talking about 1/50 or 1/100 cold approach for a lay then that’s one lay every month, it is not bad at all. The question is - do you dare / have time / in the frame / etc to approach five each day.

Day game for me (and most) have always been one hell of a challenge, I don’t really count anymore, and still get stuffed with AA occasionally, but I have also landed some of my best girls via daygame. My best memory was a fine 9 Brazilian girl. Yes, I many more countless failures and “fuck off” stares too.

Is that your ratio, 1/100? If it's on the street, 10 approaches per day is completely feasible.
Could you share the method you use and how handsome you are?

[Anchor Man]

Arkania,
Let me share something with you . Do you get IOI in cafes and the streets ?

I do cold approach but at the same time I make myself available for girls to give me IOIS so I can increase my percentage

[Arkania]

(05-10-2019 09:33 AM)Anchor Man Wrote:  

Arkania,
Let me share something with you . Do you get IOI in cafes and the streets ?

I do cold approach but at the same time I make myself available for girls to give me IOIS so I can increase my percentage

I never get IOIs from cute girls and I'm on the field a lot. In case you wonder, I've easily done more than 1000 approaches.

[Checkmat]

When I was a skinny 19 year old and before I knew any game, I had my own move that I would do when picking up girls at the mall.

When I saw a cute girl sitting on a bench or something, I would walk near/across her to the soda machine, trash or whatever and get her to notice me. I wouldn’t fish for eye contact or let her know that I had noticed her already. I just wanted her to have a chance to evaluate me for a second without any conversation pressure.

Even with bad game and zero muscle, this technique worked for me back in the day and I got numbers, dates and bangs from doing this before every mall approach.

I think it warms them up a little and makes them more receptive when you talk to them. Because they already know, “oh its that guy” instead of some random person they have never seen before.

Gonna blow the dust off it and try it on my next mall approaches.

[Feldeinsamkeit]

(05-10-2019 01:09 PM)Checkmat Wrote:  

When I was a skinny 19 year old and before I knew any game, I had my own move that I would do when picking up girls at the mall.

When I saw a cute girl sitting on a bench or something, I would walk near/across her to the soda machine, trash or whatever and get her to notice me. I wouldn’t fish for eye contact or let her know that I had noticed her already. I just wanted her to have a chance to evaluate me for a second without any conversation pressure.

Even with bad game and zero muscle, this technique worked for me back in the day and I got numbers, dates and bangs from doing this before every mall approach.

I think it warms them up a little and makes them more receptive when you talk to them. Because they already know, “oh its that guy” instead of some random person they have never seen before.

Gonna blow the dust off it and try it on my next mall approaches.

This seems to be true, since I unwittingly used this technique last Sunday in a store and had the two women I used it on both respond positively (one I number closed with and with whom I'm still in contact and the other had a BF but was very flattered and said she would have met up with me had she not been in a relationship). I'm definitely going to use this technique again, but consciously next time.