[Brian]

(04-12-2011 08:41 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

I have approached hundreds of college girls in the last few years.

Here is what I think about the whole age thing.

If you are 25 or younger. Its a non issue.

If you are 25-30, You still have a chance with about 50-60% of them. Alot of them will just think you are too old but...

AT LEAST HALF, IF NOT A LITTLE MORE, ARE VERY OPEN TO DATING A "SLIGHTLY" OLDER GUY. It all depends how smooth you play it.

If you are 30-35, around half are gonna think you are just a little too old for them. But that still leaves the other half that are open to dating the right "older" guy. You gotta be that smooth, sharp, confident older dude. And/Or find some type of connection with her that you can "exploit".

I have lied, I have told the truth, I have avoided the ?..

Lying is easy enough but the only thing that is weird is you always have to hide everything that has your birth date on it.

Telling the truth is always cool but its dangerous, once you tell her your age she will see you as that age and she might dismiss you before you have even had a chance to Game her.

Sometimes its best to avoid the ? and keep trying to build comfort and attraction.

Usually, I like to avoid the question as long as possible. I never bring it up. I try to build as much of a connection as possible before it ever comes up. Like I said, if you tell her to early, she might let that "number" get in the way of things. When she asks, I usually just tell the truth. Hopefully, I have built enough attraction that the "number" doesn't even matter to her.

I have developed a little routine where I tell the her...

"Don't you know? All undergrad girls need one older guy to kick it with. Sometimes its nice to just chill and not get all crazy and stupid like the 19yo idiots out here. I'm know you get sick of these young boys throwing up all over the place and acting like fools. I can't believe the older girls in school haven't told you this?! I thought everybody knew that! I normally don't talk to girls your age, but I guess I could make an exception"

Something like that.

Obviously, looks matter alot. If you are fat and balding and look 47, its gonna be tough to pull a co-ed. (but it happens)

Sometimes you can buy yourself some time by saying things like...

"I'm the perfect age to kick it with you"
"I bet i'm like 4 or 5 years older then you"
"I'm in my mid 20's" (if you are 24-29)
"Im 29ish" (30-36)
"I'm 30" (30-40)

This is spot on. I'm early 30's but dont look it. But I remember when I was a youngster in my early 20's we had a buddy who was like 28 and we used to call him Grandpa. When you are 22 30 is fucking ancient. When you're 33 if you look young and act according you're still pretty young. there is some truth behind that 40 is the new 30 phrase.

[Olympus Squared]

This is interesting since I'm starting grad school in August (after 3 years in joblandia) and turning 26 in October.

I've read that men hit there physical / attractiveness prime around 32... in terms of muscle mass and bone structure in the face... I remember even in highschool, alot of the guys the girls fantasized about were grown men, mid 20's to early 30's...

The biggest problem I have is with younger girls maturity. It's hard for me to be attracted to 19 year old brats who have never had a job or accomplished anything of substance in their lives beyond partying on their daddy's credit card.

My logic is go for girls in the 22-27 range. This is a great age range to go after (physically) and should be accesible to guys 35 and younger...

[Screwston]

If I'm 23 and look 18, I'm hoping I'll look like I'm 25 when I'm in my mid 30's. I definetly plan on lying about my age as I get older. I doubt they'll believe me if I told the truth anyways

[Mrs. Chocolate]

Some people think that I'm 18.

[cibo]

I just say im 25. No one doubts me since i look and act it. In fact, have to keep reminding my friends im 28 because no one believes it. One of the benefits of being Asian.

The best was when this girl asked when my birthday was and i said '86. After a bit, we had a good time. I then told her, "You know, im actually 28". She's like "no way, you said you were born in 86!" "Yeah, i know, im not 25". "You're not 25? You aren't under 21 are you?"

I'm still f'ing her, and i bet she's still wrong about my age.

[CJ]

Pretty good advice from Easy E/Roissy and Houston.

Really depends on if you can pass for younger or not. I could probably pass for 16 if I shaved... not that I've going to be going after girls that young, ever.

If you can pass for younger, Cupcake, ride that wave until you just don't care what they think about your age. Roosh has a number of lines on this too, but don't make the mistake of using them before you've built some level of interest.

[mammal]

Lots of good advice. I would only add that if you interact with a lot ofgirls, if your age is a red flag for some, it won't matter since you can focus on the one who are cool with your age. It's only in a one-itis situation where your age matters.

[MrMagoo]

When age comes up, I just ask her to guess. Whatever she says, I say "Wow, you nailed it!". If she's into you, she will almost never guess you "too old". So if her "Too old" is 28 and she's into you, she'll say "26", etc.

She's either going to guess what you really look like to her(if that's in her accepted range), or what she's hoping you are.

I even had one girl guess me over by almost seven years... she likes much, much older men. So to one girl I'm 24 and to the other I'm 35... whatever.

I originally learned to do this back when I was 15. A lot of girls thought I was older because I'm somewhat tall. If I'd tell them I was 15, instant attraction death. But when I'd say "Guess", they would almost always guess me at exactly 1-2 years older than them, regardless of their age(as in a 14 year old would guess me at 15-16, and a19year old would guess me at 20-21... crazy).

I do this with older women as well, but with a small difference. If she's hovering around 30 in appearance, she may guess you younger than you are(which is usually bad unless you're much older than her). Pay attention to her tonality. If it sounds slightly condescending, she's probably guessing you at an age younger than she is. Correct her up by about 5 years.

[elRey]

(04-11-2011 05:13 PM)Brian Wrote:  

at 27 you dont have an age problem. you are entering the sweet spot where you can bang anything w/in a 20 year range

20 year range?