[RIslander]

Craning - The act of a woman taking your hand, lifting it off her pussy/ass/tits and returning it to your body in a fashion similar to how a construction crane moves.

How do you guys respond to getting craned? My standard response is to pop her bra off in one fluid movement, laugh and continue operations.

[Phoenix]

Go back down one intimacy notch, try again later.

[Yeti]

Escalate and assume eventual penetration, regardless of her actions.

Generally if it has gotten to this stage, she has made up her mind (whether her forebrain/hindbrain (forget which) knows it yet), of whether to have sex with you.

So, if she has decided not to, nothing you can do really matters anyway, you're getting blue balls. More likely is she has decided to have sex with you and you can do pretty much anything via a caveman approach, it's almost impossible to fuck it up.

My two cents.

[Ensam]

Usually means you were escalating too quickly. In the moment back off and work on turning her on in less obvious ways. Long term focus on learning how to read women better. Their bodies will tell you when it's ok to proceed.

[Basil Ransom]

Take the crane and put it on your steel beam. Resume pre-craning activity.

"Usually means you were escalating too quickly. In the moment back off and work on turning her on in less obvious ways. Long term focus on learning how to read women better. Their bodies will tell you when it's ok to proceed."

That's rookie logic. Some girls feel like they need to put in their nos and not yets. Let her back off a little. Do the one step back, one step forward. If she keeps hesitating, you may have to wait for a future date.

[Sourcecode]

For some reason I thought this was gonna be about girls that arch their body in pictures like this

[Biologist]

You escalated too rapidly. Take it down a notch and proceed as per normal, making sure that you escalate more gradually from now on.

[Atlantic]

Its too big a move to go straight for the goods.

Let say you want to feel her tit...

Start with kissing her neck, then biting her ear, then kissing her shoulder blade/neckline while grabbing her hair lightly, then down to kissing the top of her tit, then popping one out but keeping her tshirt and bra on, then bra off, then top off.

There is no specific point where you went for her tits, its a fluid motion and she will be wanting more than you are providing as you progress. That way she won't try and stop you.

If you go straight in then its too big a jump and she won't enjoy the progress.


Unless you are already at a solid comfort level. I like motorboating girls the second they open the door 'hello babies' if I am in the mood.

[LeBeau]

It's better for your mentality if you don't try to add to the bloated and unnecessary dictionary of PUA speak with words like craning.

If this is coming up often enough for you to have a word ready for it, you should probably modify your standard response.

[Rawmeo]

It makes things a bit ankward and probably means she is just not ready. She is not in the mood for that, but if you know her weak point, attack it now. For most girls it's kissing in the neck, I had one girl whose weak point was when I eat the bottom part of her ears. Attack the weak point and focus on that for at least 1 minute, then go again for the approach.
If that still doesn't work, no need to waste more time.

[Sturmgeist]

Had this happen to me last week with a girl from the gym I've been working on. I backed off and did my own thing with free weights. Came back escalated again.

Waiting to hear from the more experienced guys on this.

[eradicator]

I would probably say something along the lines of "you can't possibly be upset with me for wanting you" but I am assuming I had them at least either on my couch or on my bed if I am trying this. Why would anyone grab the tits/pussy/ass of someone at their gym while working out? That sort of escalation out of no where is really odd..

[Sturmgeist]

(10-12-2014 03:06 PM)eradicator Wrote:  

I would probably say something along the lines of "you can't possibly be upset with me for wanting you" but I am assuming I had them at least either on my couch or on my bed if I am trying this. Why would anyone grab the tits/pussy/ass of someone at their gym while working out? That sort of escalation out of no where is really odd..

Got her number last week. We work together at the same time. Do it when isolated in smaller rooms (we both hit the gym 11pm-1am) when the gym is empty. Not doing it while actually working out though.

[RIslander]

For me, craning usually occurs during the make-out phase. After 10-15min I'll attempt some boob action. If I get craned there, I go for the neck as an earlier poster mentioned and try again later. After boob contact, I slowly make my way south of the border. If I get craned there, I reach my other hand behind her back and pop the bra off (I usually leave it on while getting the before-mentioned boob action). This usually results in laughter and her trying to put it back on, where I then hold her hands and continue the make-out. Its a solid way to deflect her denial and show that I'm calling the shots. Its generated pretty solid results.

[kaotic]

Ignore it, keep going for it, 2 steps forward, 1 step back.