[Kickb]

I think i may have just put up the worst display of game since i have started doing this ish. All because i was caught off guard.

After getting out of class i was walking to my car. i was thinking about stuff that i needed to get done today when this girl who's number i had just gotten the day before comes driving by. the following interaction went something like this

"Hey chad! whats up! i didnt know you had classes tuesdays and thursdays"

"Yeah i have class everyday. What are you up to"

"well im about to go home. What about you?"

"ahh well im just chilling"

"Oh are you just going to be chillin at your place"

"uhh probably not. . might grab some lunch" (thoughts of telling her to come with me went through my mind)

then she said Oh and started laughing. I just kind of stared at her and nodded. and whle still laughing said "haha hooo k see you later!"

I cant tell if i bombed big time or not. I feel like i did. but then again she was laughing. But then again there was really nothing funny said. Is this just a lack of expiriance problem? Can you guys just flip the switch when an attractive girl shows up?


I still have not called or texted her yet. I was thinking about calling her and seeing if she wanted to smoke some AK-47. Good idea?

[flashbang]

(03-31-2011 12:48 PM)kickboxer Wrote:  

I think i may have just put up the worst display of game since i have started doing this ish. All because i was caught off guard.

After getting out of class i was walking to my car. i was thinking about stuff that i needed to get done today when this girl who's number i had just gotten the day before comes driving by. the following interaction went something like this

"Hey chad! whats up! i didnt know you had classes tuesdays and thursdays"

"Yeah i have class everyday. What are you up to"

"well im about to go home. What about you?"

"ahh well im just chilling"

"Oh are you just going to be chillin at your place"

"uhh probably not. . might grab some lunch" (thoughts of telling her to come with me went through my mind)

then she said Oh and started laughing. I just kind of stared at her and nodded. and whle still laughing said "haha hooo k see you later!"

I cant tell if i bombed big time or not. I feel like i did. but then again she was laughing. But then again there was really nothing funny said. Is this just a lack of expiriance problem? Can you guys just flip the switch when an attractive girl shows up?


I still have not called or texted her yet. I was thinking about calling her and seeing if she wanted to smoke some AK-47. Good idea?

It's normal that sometimes the game switch is off and you're taken by surprise when you unexpectedly encounter an attractive chick. Sure maybe you could have invited her over but on the other hand, you kept your cool and did not look needy. None of us have 100% game active 100% of the time. I'll take what she told you as an IOI, as chicks will very rarely be direct in their approach because of social stigma(the whole slut bullshit). What you could do is let a day or 2 pass and give her a call saying you're gonna chill some place after class and if she's up for joining. She seems to be into you so there's every chance that she'll accept and then you'll be ready, in a venue and time of your choice, with your A-game this time to seal the deal.

[Giovonny]

(03-31-2011 12:48 PM)kickboxer Wrote:  

Is this just a lack of expiriance problem? Can you guys just flip the switch when an attractive girl shows up?

First of all, you should never get caught off guard at school! This is your primary hunting ground and everytime you leave your house to go to school you should be ready to talk to cuties. As your walking or driving to campus you should already be preparing yourself mentally.

You should have asked her to come and smoke with you!

It can be tough to "flip the switch" if you are not in a talkative mood.

Here are some things that I do when I'm not feeling very social, to get myself in the right state of mind:

-Just start talking to everyone around you. (men and woman of all ages)

-Make conversation with the first few girls that you see. Ask them the time, directions, how their day is going, anything. Just get your conversation skills warmed-up and ready.

-Listen to music that gets you fired up.

-Have a drink or 2.

Get yourself into a talkative, social, mindset so you are ready for action.

(03-31-2011 12:48 PM)kickboxer Wrote:  

I still have not called or texted her yet. I was thinking about calling her and seeing if she wanted to smoke some AK-47. Good idea?

Why not? What have you got to lose?

Be sure to call and not text.

Or, wait til you see her next time and try to build a little attraction and connection and just ask her then.

[thegmanifesto]

The main point is:

If you stay ready, you don't have to get ready.

And like Giovanny said, you should be on point at school.

What else are you going to do there but swoop girls?

[Duke Castile]

"Hey chad! whats up! i didnt know you had classes tuesdays and thursdays"

"Yeah i have class everyday. What are you up to"

"well im about to go home. What about you?"

"What are you doing at home?

"I don't know, nothing".

"Hmm well, I'm about to do nothing to so we may as well do nothing together"

"Ok, what did you have in mind"?


I would try and send her a message about how you had a "friend" you had to look after otherwise you would have invited her to "tag" along. Then I'd say something like, "Let's catch up this weekend"

[Kickb]

I just invited her to a party. That worked out well haha