The game is only played by those who can actually play. That is to say, there are men out here who can get women, and there are women out here who men want to get. Those people are playing the game. Everybody else is at worst an interference, like a streaker who decides to run onto the field at halftime, and at best a spectator, watching you and hating from the sidelines, hoping that you lose so they can feel better about themselves.
Amongst the segment of women who men actually want to get, a sorority of women has quietly formed called "The Confidence Killers".
Confidence killers are fairly attractive women who are typically aged between 30-40. They have ridden the cock carousel in a variety of ways, mostly due to the fact that they have character flaws, so men will fuck them, and leave them where they found them. Their inability to belong to something while successfully sucking the other party into their world of misery, fuels their despise towards men, mostly high-quality men because those are the ones they truly desire, but know that they can't keep them around.
They're just not good enough.
So what happens when you, Mr. High-Quality Man, encounter a confidence killer?
First, she will put on a full-court press assault to win you. You are the man of her dreams. She will fall in love quickly. Then after some short period of time, she'll remind herself that there's no way she can continue on this path, and the best thing for her to do will be to hurt you so she can protect herself.
This moment typically occurs right after the first time you are intimate with her.
What will you do?
You will think that the relationship has more to it than it really does, and you will point to the level of chemistry that has been demonstrated thus far, and you will rationalize trying to figure the situation out. She will say things like, "I'm scared", "I've been hurt before", and you will try to assuage her concerns.
She really does like you, after all, you are the man of her dreams. So chances are she will keep moving forward, but two things will happen.
1. She will continue to remind you how wonderful you are, but she'll never be as open with you about her feelings as she was at the beginning.
2. She will start negging you.
The negging will throw you off because up until it starts, all you've heard is shit that sounds like you're the best thing since the invention of the wheel.
Why is she negging you?
The negging is her way to keep herself from falling too hard for you. It's the reasons she gives herself for not really wanting you and why it will never work.
Now, let's go back to the beginning, because you really have to understand what's going on here.
The confidence killer knows exactly who you are; she knows exactly what you're about. She knows that you don't really want her, you may want her in your life in some capacity, but you're just extracting what you want from her, without there really being what she wants in it for her. She knows that's as good as it's going to get, and she hates you for it.
So the confidence killer is the confidence killer because she has you playing a twisted game, in which she's the one being used for whatever it is you're using her for, mostly sex, while she's the one who develops the feelings for someone she can never have, so she's actively tries to re-engineer the situation into one in which you become the person who gets rejected, with the idea that you, the better person, will find yourself below her, the undesired.
Younger men who deal with older women will encounter the most vicious confidence killers. A guy who's in his late 20s, and has some shit going for himself couldn't possibly want some bitch in her late 30s who has three kids from two different guys and is recently divorced. But that won't stop him from wanting to tear it up from the back. Shit, she wants you to tear it up from the back, but she also wants to find herself back in an institution in which she belongs to something and that something has to deal with the misery that she has allowed to permeate her existence, and you're just not having it.
She will point to you being younger than her, less mature, and not being ready for the responsibility of all the baggage she's prepared to hoist upon your shoulders, but she knows the truth; she's just not good enough.
Think about the resentment she must feel; your dreams are going to come true, and someone else who isn't her is going to have an opportunity to be a part of them, meanwhile, while her dream is dead. It's really a reminder of how delusional she is about her own reality.
When a woman is getting pumped and dumped, it's the final word on where her value to a man lies. A high-quality woman is valuable land where a man wants to hoist his flag. A low-quality woman is worthless land where there is a "for sale" sign firmly entrenched, and there are no interested parties.
Beware, the confidence killer will try to make you believe, that you couldn't afford her anyway, and she rather have someone else possess something that you didn't want to begin with.
Amongst the segment of women who men actually want to get, a sorority of women has quietly formed called "The Confidence Killers".
Confidence killers are fairly attractive women who are typically aged between 30-40. They have ridden the cock carousel in a variety of ways, mostly due to the fact that they have character flaws, so men will fuck them, and leave them where they found them. Their inability to belong to something while successfully sucking the other party into their world of misery, fuels their despise towards men, mostly high-quality men because those are the ones they truly desire, but know that they can't keep them around.
They're just not good enough.
So what happens when you, Mr. High-Quality Man, encounter a confidence killer?
First, she will put on a full-court press assault to win you. You are the man of her dreams. She will fall in love quickly. Then after some short period of time, she'll remind herself that there's no way she can continue on this path, and the best thing for her to do will be to hurt you so she can protect herself.
This moment typically occurs right after the first time you are intimate with her.
What will you do?
You will think that the relationship has more to it than it really does, and you will point to the level of chemistry that has been demonstrated thus far, and you will rationalize trying to figure the situation out. She will say things like, "I'm scared", "I've been hurt before", and you will try to assuage her concerns.
She really does like you, after all, you are the man of her dreams. So chances are she will keep moving forward, but two things will happen.
1. She will continue to remind you how wonderful you are, but she'll never be as open with you about her feelings as she was at the beginning.
2. She will start negging you.
The negging will throw you off because up until it starts, all you've heard is shit that sounds like you're the best thing since the invention of the wheel.
Why is she negging you?
The negging is her way to keep herself from falling too hard for you. It's the reasons she gives herself for not really wanting you and why it will never work.
Now, let's go back to the beginning, because you really have to understand what's going on here.
The confidence killer knows exactly who you are; she knows exactly what you're about. She knows that you don't really want her, you may want her in your life in some capacity, but you're just extracting what you want from her, without there really being what she wants in it for her. She knows that's as good as it's going to get, and she hates you for it.
So the confidence killer is the confidence killer because she has you playing a twisted game, in which she's the one being used for whatever it is you're using her for, mostly sex, while she's the one who develops the feelings for someone she can never have, so she's actively tries to re-engineer the situation into one in which you become the person who gets rejected, with the idea that you, the better person, will find yourself below her, the undesired.
Younger men who deal with older women will encounter the most vicious confidence killers. A guy who's in his late 20s, and has some shit going for himself couldn't possibly want some bitch in her late 30s who has three kids from two different guys and is recently divorced. But that won't stop him from wanting to tear it up from the back. Shit, she wants you to tear it up from the back, but she also wants to find herself back in an institution in which she belongs to something and that something has to deal with the misery that she has allowed to permeate her existence, and you're just not having it.
She will point to you being younger than her, less mature, and not being ready for the responsibility of all the baggage she's prepared to hoist upon your shoulders, but she knows the truth; she's just not good enough.
Think about the resentment she must feel; your dreams are going to come true, and someone else who isn't her is going to have an opportunity to be a part of them, meanwhile, while her dream is dead. It's really a reminder of how delusional she is about her own reality.
When a woman is getting pumped and dumped, it's the final word on where her value to a man lies. A high-quality woman is valuable land where a man wants to hoist his flag. A low-quality woman is worthless land where there is a "for sale" sign firmly entrenched, and there are no interested parties.
Beware, the confidence killer will try to make you believe, that you couldn't afford her anyway, and she rather have someone else possess something that you didn't want to begin with.