[Fortis]

Hey dudes,

I was out with a chick tonight and she had to bail midway through because her "friend" got stranded at the train station some 30 minutes away. I was a bit pissed, but I wasn't really sure how to react to this. I didn't show my annoyance, however. I've had another girl pull something similar on me about an hour into a date and I wasn't sure what to do.

The girl from tonight hit me up via text with "Sorry!!!!" but I obviously cannot tell if she is sincerely or not.

I just sent back. "I appreciate the apology. no big deal."

What do you guys normally do when women pull weird shit like this?

Thanks,

Fortis

[HawkWrites]

If you're the kind of guy who will give more than one chance to someone, then you could always go with "Don't do it again" instead of "I appreciate the apology, no big deal." You don't want to say what you did since it shows that your time is worthless and it's a major DLV.

She abandoned you, plain and simple. It almost sounds like they're ejecting early deliberately; maybe you fucked-up with your game during the date?

[Fortis]

Good point. I'll remember that if this situation occurs again.

I'm leaning towards what you just said Hawk. I am not quite sure what to do on a date, so there is that.

[HawkWrites]

(09-17-2014 09:59 PM)Fortis Wrote:  

Good point. I'll remember that if this situation occurs again.

I'm leaning towards what you just said Hawk. I am not quite sure what to do on a date, so there is that.

If they're ejecting early because they aren't interested you really can't salvage it so you might as well keep your dignity intact.

A bemused smile with something like "Later." is all the response you need to give. She clearly isn't worth your time or investment any longer.

[GoodTimer]

A simple "sorry" is bullshit. If she was interested she would come forward with a detailed explanation and offer to meet up again.

[Dalaran1991]

(09-17-2014 11:31 PM)GoodTimer Wrote:  

A simple "sorry" is bullshit. If she was interested she would come forward with a detailed explanation and offer to meet up again.

You expect dignity and honor from US women? Frankly even some betas I know do lame shit like this.

People today are so lacking in manners and dignity, they would rather not show up to the date without any explanation at all, rather than comes up with an apology and risk being chastised.

[LemonDrink]

(09-17-2014 09:31 PM)Fortis Wrote:  

I just sent back. "I appreciate the apology. no big deal."

Bit of a lame reply. At least ask 'how do you intend to make up for it'.

[Fortis]

^ damn. That would have been perfect too. Ah well. I'm not worried about it. On the the next.

Thanks for the responses,

Fortis