[Griprip08]

Hey guys,

First off, apologies if there is a certain thread already setup for specific situations, and if there is, feel free to direct me there.

Lately, I have been noticing an increase in attention from girls on average. Instead of just giving me looks, chitchat then flake when we shcdule, these girls are starting to come onto me strong (It's like I discovered some secret society and am learning from them Wink ). Any way, here is the situation.

About a year ago I was housed up in a hotel for about a month. Met a really cute chick at the front desk with a great bod (to the point where it's a bit weird because it's so tiny). Me being 6'6", I love these kind of bodies. She was friendly and at the time I wasn't aware of this place or what game actually way. Lucky for me I just happen to run some decent game naturally (used to not happen so often). It got to the point where I established some rapport, and played it cool throughout the whole month. I got her number the last day I was there, and we texted for about two weeks before I simply stopped because she kept dodging meeting up. Coincidentally, I got a new phone at the same time, and didn't bother telling her/adding it to my contacts.

This was a year ago. I just got a FB request from said chick. I actually now live in the same area, and even drive by the same hotel when I got to the gym. I creeped the basics on her FB profile, and turns out she's legit married, and has what looks like a kid with the same guy (details arn't confirmed, but it's a bit obvious). She's gained some weight, but being so tiny, she now just has a normal sizes ass and still a petite frame. I'm actually considering this an up-side.

My theory is this:
Either 1.) Her Marriage is going to shit, and she want' an "out".
or 2.) Her man is shit, and she just wants some dick on the side.

Either way, I feel like I should tread lightly here for two major reasons:
1.) If that kid is hers, I don't see her giving it up any time soon (women...sigh..I know I'm a prick).
2.) If she searched me out, a year later, and still remembers me (she also opened with "hey! how've you been? not sure if you remember me...") I'm thinking she might be desperate for one, or both, of the above.

What do you guys think?

She's not responding too quickly (nor am I, don't worry I know all about text/typing game), but here is the convo so far....what do you guys think?


Her: Hey! How've you been? Not sure if you remember me..
Me: your name ring's a bell for sure. hotel in xxxxx?
Her: Haha yes.. How are you?
Me: can't complain, you?
Me: that's funny I actually drive past that hotel like every other day

The last line I delivered right after the initial one, I figured it's better than waiting for her to reply, not seeing anything then trying to re-initiate conversation like a beta bitch. Nothing yet, and the "seen" message hasn't been displayed yet, I'm guessing Mr. Beta came home so she logged off or whatever (although I feel like she was using her phone).


If she replies, and obviously it depends on what she says next as it's technically her turn to deliver what she wants/why she reached out, how would you guys judge this?

[Sharkey]

If she responds, you luck out because her interest is there. I personally think you fucked it up with your last line.

You should try and sound more fun/busy when asked how you've been. He'll just saying "super busy" is better than "can't complain". Then you offered a weird peice of information that could possibly come off as creepy, by saying "it's funny, I actually drive by there every other day" how about "I sometimes pass by the hotel on my way to the gym, we should grab coffee/drinks/ice cream(depending on how old she is/time of day)".

Aside from that, judge it based on the conversation builds. Create value by making your self sound like you do fun shit. Get logistics, see what's up in her life anddig for info on why she hit you up(especially since she's married w/ kid) once you get that, proceed accordingly.

[Griprip08]

(09-17-2014 08:07 PM)Sharkey Wrote:  

If she responds, you luck out because her interest is there. I personally think you fucked it up with your last line.

You should try and sound more fun/busy when asked how you've been. He'll just saying "super busy" is better than "can't complain". Then you offered a weird peice of information that could possibly come off as creepy, by saying "it's funny, I actually drive by there every other day" how about "I sometimes pass by the hotel on my way to the gym, we should grab coffee/drinks/ice cream(depending on how old she is/time of day)".

Aside from that, judge it based on the conversation builds. Create value by making your self sound like you do fun shit. Get logistics, see what's up in her life anddig for info on why she hit you up(especially since she's married w/ kid) once you get that, proceed accordingly.

I like it. To my defense about the last line, she was aware that I was there for work, and that I would be moving to that exact area, so the idea that I would still be around the area even after a year was definitely still in her mind. I can see how that would be a bit creepy though. Next time I won't go with such an impulsive statement.

Did some digging and turns out the kid is 7, she's around my age, like 24ish, so probably a wedlock situation, still trying to figure out if it's good or bad.

One last question, I don't want to keep logging in and out of FB talking to this chick (she is too). You think it'd be a good move to just throw my number as a reply? She's been responding with shit like "working a lot etc. did you end up moving to area? do you like it?". Might be good to give her a *new* number so she realizes I never even told her I got a new one back then?

[Griprip08]

Just a quick update:

She ended up responding, I took it a little more laid back, enabled the chit-chat, then cut it to a close by moving her off FB and onto texting.

One thing I think paid off here is giving her a snippit of "how it's been so far" (thanks sharkey).

The rest of the convo is below, if anyone see's anything that could potentially be a no-no/hazard in the future, please don't hesitate to point it out.

continued...
Her: Same working a lot..
Her: Did you ever move to xxx?
Me: nah ended up getting a pad right outside xxxx (which is literally the next town over)
Her: Very cool. You like it?
Me: Yah its been quite the blast so far, being closer to the city is bomb
Her: Haha I've only been out in the city once!
Me: really? figured you were the city/outgoing type
Her: Really?! Did I come across that way
Me: ha yah, but I'm wrong every now and then
Her: Haha I guess I'm a little city little country
Me: well next time you get a little city let me know
Her: (some weird blushing smiley) that could be fun..
Me: yah it rarely isn't
Me: I got a new number xxx-xxx-xxxx
Her: I believe I have the same number xxx-xxx-xxxx

I'm wondering why she would give me her number, after I already gave her the nudge to text me. Is this ok to do or does the guy always entice the girl to give him her number? I didn't respond but made it clear that I saw the message, I'm trying to convey to her "you text me", but I'm also thinking the whole "girls like to be led/gamed etc." Should I text her? I don't really feel like texting her again and again, and I've already attracted her when we first met (and obviously now).

Any ideas?

Will keep this updated once I get the logistics and the bang etc.

[Lizard King]

I think you have oneitis and actual scarcity. Sorry to be blunt.

I think you need to generate other prospects as well.

[Griprip08]

Definitely don't have oneitis, and that's not the purpose of this thread. I do have other prospects (currently spinning 3 other plates) but wanted input on this specific one as its unique, but thanks for the input...