[charmer]

i dont know how seduction chemistry works ..infact i never understand that how a guy can seduce a girl without actually indulding HIMSELF in the seduction...

to me...i always get seducted as well as the girl is...as soon as i start seduction..the chemistry begins..either i quit seducing..or i get seduced while seducing her as well.

[hydrogonian]

Its about keeping your head straight despite her seductive charms. Realize that her charms aren't a unique commodity, aren't forever, and are specifically designed to create certain emotions in you that may lead you down a road that is not usually in your best interest. Enjoy the ride but don't buy the amusement park.

That being said, it usually takes being seduced, and experiencing the results of that seduction, a few times to get what I mean.

[oss_117]

Grammar nazi attack: The past participle is 'seduced'

[charmer]

(03-22-2011 01:29 PM)oss_117 Wrote:  

Grammar nazi attack: The past participle is 'seduced'

(yeah..that was intentionally to do so....to hold the attraction ...

[CJ]

This is happening because you still care. When you shut off the part of your brain that gives a damn about the girl's feelings, you'll overcome this issue.

[charmer]

(03-22-2011 11:41 PM)CJ Wrote:  

This is happening because you still care. When you shut off the part of your brain that gives a damn about the girl's feelings, you'll overcome this issue.

i liked your reply...thats was very true. !

[charmer]

but what my point is.....every girl i seduced..i got seduced myself ...and when i tried to seduce girl and not getting involved ..the girl's instinct knows it and she quit..or she feels lack of trust upon me...like ''he is just trying to have sex'' ...OR.. ''he is not sincere''.

and when i got seduced....i got the seduction...get laid !....

[CJ]

Think about the first time you saw an R rated film, or any film with blood and guts everywhere. If you were like me, you were a little kid, and you probably thought it was cool. Maybe later when you understood things better, you were a little mortified by a movie like Saw or that freaky flick with Dee Snyder putting pins in girls. However, as time goes by and you see more stuff like that, you gradually become numb to it. Now movies like Pumpkinhead and Killer Clowns from Outer Space crack me up.

Girls are the same way, the more you seduce, bang, etc, the more numb the part of you that actually has feelings for them becomes. I warn you, it's a pretty dark path though, and I'm not sure there's a way back...

[solo]

"Girls are the same way, the more you seduce, bang, etc, the more numb the part of you that actually has feelings for them becomes. I warn you, it's a pretty dark path though, and I'm not sure there's a way back..."

What's the alternative though? Loneliness? Heartbrokenness? Being manipulated, used and dependent on every girl you date? Watching on as other guys get all the girls? A lifetime of sexual frustration, lack of love and full of fear? Haha sorry got carried away.

[charmer]

(03-27-2011 11:23 AM)solo Wrote:  

What's the alternative though? Loneliness? Heartbrokenness? Being manipulated, used and dependent on every girl you date? Watching on as other guys get all the girls? A lifetime of sexual frustration, lack of love and full of fear? Haha sorry got carried away.

true dat.

but sorry...i dont get girls if i manage myself as cold as ice for the effection side....i just cant dramatize....cant fake myself...

to me...winning a girl means putting all the cards on the table and then play the game...in the end..i loose or win..it depends how good i played with the mixture of my fortune.

watever girl i choose...i just cant choose to be feelingless....to inject her with attraction towards me...i first have to inject myself.