[ZTheGreat]

Anyone else notice this? I can't believe how often lately I've overheard fat chicks say things like "He has to be at least 5'10" or "He's gotta be successful and highly-paid".

Did I wake up in an alternate universe?

[Kickb]

Lol yes! This fat girl my roommate was poking was talking to me about sex and I mentioned q fat guy and she says "Eww he's fat no way"

Smh!

[theIVth]

Some fat girls weren't always fat and still think they can expect to get the same quality of guy they were getting when they were fine back in high school or college or whenever. Their just in denial and being delusional.

Time and the everyday reality of being fat now will sober them up and humble them before long tho.

[Jack Frost]

I think a lot of times fat girls just say these things to fit in with other girls. Watch what happens when any dude actually gives them any attention those requirements go right out the window and they couldnt be happier.

[speakeasy]

Unfortunately, many dudes are still hitting on these fat girls. Do you ever see some nasty, fat slob of a woman pushing a stroller? All the time, right? Well some dude got an erection for her.

[Screwston]

This is another disgusting epidemic in America. I believe it can also come from some decent looking idiot putting their fat pussy on a pedestal and making them believe they can continue pulling guys out of their league.

[oldnemesis]

(03-16-2011 12:04 AM)ZTheGreat Wrote:  

Anyone else notice this? I can't believe how often lately I've overheard fat chicks say things like "He has to be at least 5'10" or "He's gotta be successful and highly-paid".

Did I wake up in an alternate universe?

Wishful thinking. It was always like that. Every girl I know dreamed about Prince Charming, which typically was tall, well-dressed, smart, rich, caring - you know, the type from chick flicks which doesn't really exist (and every closest match I've ever seen was gay). So if you ask her what she wants you'll get an insane bunch of requirements, which mean nothing. She'll settle for much less than that. A lot of them wanted to marry Clark Gable and ended up marrying drunk wife-beating rednecks.

It is the same with the guys - look around, and you'll see a lot of fat, bald guys in their forties dreaming about a hot slim 20yo wife who supposedly should fall in love with him, and not with his money. This is the same wishful thinking.

NB: everyone has standards, and it does not matter. The only thing which matters is whether they enforce it, or not.

[Dueyz]

This is what it's come to, guys. In some modern day cultures, it's getting worse. These fat women honestly believe that they're equally deserving of in shape people. The # 1 argument I hear from these hogs is that their personality is so much better than the in shape broads. They truly believe that women in good shape cannot posess the same good personality. They desperately look for something that makes their value equal, inspite of their weight problem. I've never met a fat woman who has a personality that is so exceptional that I can't find a woman with the same personality who isn't fat. NEVER.

[Gmac]

(03-16-2011 12:13 AM)theIVth Wrote:  

Some fat girls weren't always fat and still think they can expect to get the same quality of guy they were getting when they were fine back in high school or college or whenever. Their just in denial and being delusional.

Time and the everyday reality of being fat now will sober them up and humble them before long tho.

This is 100% true. I've gone on blind dates and dates with girls I met online who claim to be "athletic" or "fit" when in reality they're 30+ lbs overweight. They cling to the glory days like a washed up former high school quarterback, it's sad really. Best to put these in their place so they can move on.

This is a classic example of delusional women who's standards exceed their attractiveness. You can thank feminism and the "BBW" movement.

[hydrogonian]

You'd be surprised as to how many guys of normal weight have a fat girl fetish. And I mean fat.

I'd bet that you all have at least one friend with a secret stash of fat girl porn.

Also, the pedestalization of girls with 'fat asses' is a very fine line between worshiping a legitimate sexy bubble but and fat girl fetishizing. I think that the line gets crossed frequently, especially when guys train the brains to lust after abnormally chunky asses. After they allow themselves to go there, they will psycho-sexually respond to legitimate obesity much more readily.

I don't understand it, but to each his own.

But yeah, I can see how the fat girl delusional entitlement can be annoying. But then again, who gives a shit. By being a entitled snots, those fat girls are asking to be laughed at, ignored and marginalized more than they likely already are.

[ManAbout]

(03-16-2011 08:48 AM)hydrogonian Wrote:  

You'd be surprised as to how many guys of normal weight have a fat girl fetish. And I mean fat.

Yeah, a friend of a friend ended up marrying this fat girl who is a couple of years older than him. He is a good looking guy and could be getting hot 20 year olds, but no, this is what he wanted. He met her at a club, and he approached her. She is not even curvy. She is fat, with a big belly that sticks out and massive thighs. She has a pretty face. But, that's about it.

[Moma]

Since I moved to North America from Europe, I've found myself legitimizing a lot of fat women. Some of the encounters or even platonic friends I have discussed with my friends in Europe has them staggering in dismay and disbelief.

It's only here (in North America) that I've actually seen women with really nice faces with astonishingly overweight (obese bodies).

I remember one lizard I hit once, I was looking at her naked, and she said guess how much I weigh..I said oh..about 210..she laughed and said..last time I checked it was 260. I was ashamed because I swore never to hit anything that was within 20 pounds of my actual weight. *She was about 5'9 though..which is tall for a woman <<<<see my psycho rationalisms, lol

I've really been clamping down on this since my trip last year and I haven't really chased any fat chicks seriously. In fact in my mind, I don't care how nice she is, she is robbing the man by expecting him to be aroused to her gloops and goopy fat. Most men recognise (whether consciously or subconsciously) being overweight as a sickness. I am prone to thick women or bubble pot and quite averse to sticks but some women are taking this thick tag and running waaaay overboard with it.

How are you going to carry the same weight as a professional male NBA power forward and you call yourself fluffy/thick?

Also, I think most woman with a weight issue carries some secret psychological issues along with it. Hate of women who are in shape, dislike in men who prefer women who are in shape, despise for those who try to get in shape are some of the few.

And to rub salt in the wound, they snarl and criticize men who are not of classic aesthetic quality.

[Bad Hussar]

HaHa. All kinds of women have standards. Unfortunately a lot of fat chicks still get attention from bored, desperate or just plain horny guys. It really doesn't do them any good since it just fools them into thinking being fat is not a big deal.

With the exception of the tiny (sorry Hydro. Don't buy your theory) number of men with a bona-fide fat fetish it is a HUGE deal. A fat woman would be better off if she got no attention at all and this spured her on to lose weight. I can't think of any other equivalent straightforward and simple action any human, male or female, can take that would so dramatically increase their sexual market value as an overweight woman losing weight.

There's no need to be upset about it. I think a lot of guys feel that it's "unfair" that a fat chick gets attention, and can get laid, while a man of an equivalent sexual market value would be celibate or in P4Pland. But a woman is not a man, so you can't look at the situation like that. It's never acurate to judge a woman on the best man she can fuck. You always have to look at the best man who would marry her. An unmarried women who judges herself based on the occasional cool guy who deigns to sleep with her, but will not marry her, is deeply delusional. She really needs to be married to accurately see her own value in her partner, like a mirror. Unfortunately at that point the game is then all but up for her. Or at least a time-out has been called.

So... No need to feel bitter about fat chicks getting some. Sex and romance is the one human activity where noone really cheats the system. We all get the best we are capable of at a particular point in time.

[Kish]

Gross. Thank bad ratios and chubby chasers for this. Also read Roosh's "The future of Game" http://www.rooshv.com/the-future-of-game

It's only gonna get worse.

[hydrogonian]

(03-16-2011 12:31 PM)Bad Hussar Wrote:  

sorry Hydro. Don't buy your theory

What theory? That a lot of guys have a fat girl fetish? That was more like an observation. I was just extrapolating what I have observed to be true, over and over again, to any given sample of guys. Then again, just by chance, there would be guys who have both a below and guys who have an above average number of fatty chasers in their network.

And a lot of guys who like "that ass" frequently drool over fat girls. That's hard to dispute. See the thread "What do you guys consider a 10" for ample evidence of this.

[mikeymike]

Delusion is rampant...

fat girls no longer think they're fat cause there's always someone fatter down the line. It's always I could stand to lose a little but there's really fat out there so they begin to think they're average. Add in a pretty face and they start thinking they're above average, add a degree, decent job or something which most guys could give 2 shits about and they start thinking their prizes. Thus this I'm not just gonna be happy with any guy that comes along, you gotta let these girls know they're insane but as long as some loser beta is giving them the time of day and treatin em like their princesses they no longer think they're the slump busters they really are.

[gringoed]

I wish I could tolerate fat girls, I'd probably get laid in the US a heck of a lot more. Two of the girls I'm dating now are both under 100, and I've never dated a girl over 130 or so. Maybe forcing myself to watch fat porn would at least increase my tolerance threshold?

[Gmac]

(03-16-2011 02:15 PM)hydrogonian Wrote:  

(03-16-2011 12:31 PM)Bad Hussar Wrote:  

sorry Hydro. Don't buy your theory

What theory? That a lot of guys have a fat girl fetish? That was more like an observation. I was just extrapolating what I have observed to be true, over and over again, to any given sample of guys. Then again, just by chance, there would be guys who have both a below and guys who have an above average number of fatty chasers in their network.

And a lot of guys who like "that ass" frequently drool over fat girls. That's hard to dispute. See the thread "What do you guys consider a 10" for ample evidence of this.

Oh it gets worse. There are betas out there fulfilling feminist dominance dreams with their crazy fetishes:

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/fea...221766.ece

"ANITA JONES crushes men for cash. The 18 stone, 52DD divorcee from Devon earns a fortune simply sitting on men - there’s no sex involved. Here, the voluptuous mum-of-one tells her story to Pick Me Up magazine."

Quote:

The man handed over £100 and sprawled on the bed, face up.
"Ready," he grinned.
Gingerly, I climbed on the bed beside him. Then I lifted myself up and began lowering my size 26 bulk down onto his chest.
I’m going to break his ribs, I thought, holding back.
I’d end up in court on a charge of GBH by crushing!
Don’t worry about hurting me,’ he said, suddenly. Use your whole weight. I’ll let you know if it hurts.’

Gross.

[Screwston]

The thing I don't get is why fat girls like skinny dudes. I'm 5'8, thin and fat girls always stare at me uhhh. Fat girls do give some good ass head though lol

[Dueyz]

[/quote]It's never acurate to judge a woman on the best man she can fuck. You always have to look at the best man who would marry her. An unmarried women who judges herself based on the occasional cool guy who deigns to sleep with her, but will not marry her, is deeply delusional.

Quote:

I think these deeply delusional heifers are a growing population.

[Samseau]

I once tried to bang a fat chick and I couldn't get it up for her. She broke down in tears. I vowed never to disobey the boner test again

[oldnemesis]

(03-16-2011 09:14 AM)ManAbout Wrote:  

Yeah, a friend of a friend ended up marrying this fat girl who is a couple of years older than him. He is a good looking guy and could be getting hot 20 year olds, but no, this is what he wanted.

This makes sense to me. I can fuck a 20 year old, although it is a lower value for me - but there is no way I would ever marry one. So what he did is pretty logical. Those who marry people because of their looks typically divorce in the first two years.

[Excelsior]

You guys wanna see a solid critique of fat-girl fetishists, check these vids out. The dude is a black-american traveler who frequently goes to Latin America and advises other men to do the same. I think I saw the link to his vids on this forum before, but they fit this discussion well. He talks about a particular overweight model who for some reason gets A LOT of attention from men:

As for me personally, I really and truly can't deal with fat girls and I will not hook up with them. A couple of extra pounds won't kill things. A 20 year old girl who stands 5'5 and weighs 145-150 is close to the 60th percentile in weight for women and so is slightly thicker than average, but I can tolerate that body type.

Add 15+lbs to that measure and I will have issues.

I also find that(and forgive me for getting into socio-racial commentary), in spite of my being black and living in the US, I don't have a big fetish for "that ass". It doesn't always turn me off and some "big-booty" models still attract me, but I seem to be drawn more towards smaller women than a lot of other black dudes. As long as a girl is thin and in shape with a nice face, a lack of boobs and ass won't bother me in the slightest. I actually prefer smaller girls.

I notice this difference when I hang out with some of my black american peers on campus. A girl can get on the radar with them JUST by having a big butt. She won't lose many points for being overweight or having a mediocre face so long as the booty is noticeably large. A girl loses A LOT of points with them if she isn't thick, and they can't understand my attraction to Asian and Eastern European women(neither of which are known for booty). From what I've seen in my peer group, a thin Ukrainian girl with a pretty face but no behind wouldn't excite them that much. Same with your average Japanese chick.

Less competition for me, I guess.

[Moma]

(03-17-2011 08:14 AM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:  

You guys wanna see a solid critique of fat-girl fetishists, check these vids out. The dude is a black-american traveler who frequently goes to Latin America and advises other men to do the same. I think I saw the link to his vids on this forum before, but they fit this discussion well. He talks about a particular overweight model who for some reason gets A LOT of attention from men:

As for me personally, I really and truly can't deal with fat girls and I will not hook up with them. A couple of extra pounds won't kill things. A 20 year old girl who stands 5'5 and weighs 145-150 is close to the 60th percentile in weight for women and so is slightly thicker than average, but I can tolerate that body type.

Add 15+lbs to that measure and I will have issues.

I also find that(and forgive me for getting into socio-racial commentary), in spite of my being black and living in the US, I don't have a big fetish for "that ass". It doesn't always turn me off and some "big-booty" models still attract me, but I seem to be drawn more towards smaller women than a lot of other black dudes. As long as a girl is thin and in shape with a nice face, a lack of boobs and ass won't bother me in the slightest. I actually prefer smaller girls.

I notice this difference when I hang out with some of my black american peers on campus. A girl can get on the radar with them JUST by having a big butt. She won't lose many points for being overweight or having a mediocre face so long as the booty is noticeably large. A girl loses A LOT of points with them if she isn't thick, and they can't understand my attraction to Asian and Eastern European women(neither of which are known for booty). From what I've seen in my peer group, a thin Ukrainian girl with a pretty face but no behind wouldn't excite them that much. Same with your average Japanese chick.

Less competition for me, I guess.

This has already been disected in an earlier post, brah.

[Excelsior]

(03-17-2011 08:45 AM)Moma Wrote:  

This has already been disected in an earlier post, brah.

I know.

(03-17-2011 08:14 AM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:  

I think I saw the link to his vids on this forum before, but they fit this discussion well.