[evesy]

I was seeing a girl from my uni last year for a while; well it was only about 3 weeks but anyway. She broke up with me saying that her dad told her English guys can't be trusted and that Leeds united football club is the scum of the earth and she isn't allowed to date a Leeds supporter. Okay so these reason she gave me are more than likely bullshit so I honestly don't know why she broke up with me. My best guess would be that she just reconsidered or figured out that she wasn't attracted to me (sucks to admit that)

The odd thing is I met her at our semi-formal dance, she was a friend of a friend and we were both shit faced drunk. I didn't see her again for a few days until her friends helped her search every floor of our uni’s residence until she found my dorm room on the 9th floor, her friends slipped a condom under the door and left us alone lol

Anyway it turns out she is living in residence again and I just saw her standing in line at the cafeteria, I tried to talk to her but she showed no interest and she was actually quite rude.

She's cute it a plain way, nice body and cute face but she isn't smoking hot or anything; I never got to fuck her last year and seeing her again reminded me how close to fucking her I got and now I want to take another shot at her.

This could be a problem; after we broke up last year I was only single again for about 6 hours until by complete chance I got with some other girl at a party. She defiantly knows I got with another girl within a short time of our break up but I don't think she knows it was the same day; unless anyone told, her she didn't see me with the other girl until about a week later. Could this be why she's pissy with me now?

I deleted her off face book after we broke up because I was kinda angry, a few weeks later I tried to add her back but she declined; however she is still on my msn, she never blocked me and although she never messages me, the one occasion during summer when I messaged her she did respond; mostly with one word answers but still that is better than been ignored right?

So yea another one of my complex fucked up situations, so does anyone have any advice or thoughts on this, I imagine most people are going to suggest move on forget her she’s history! Which is fair point but I’m not getting any ass anywhere else and this girl must have had some attraction to me at some point.

can it be done, and how?

thanks guys

[MHaes]

If you're asking for advice on a specific girl, its most likely too late to get her. You care too much by now so you're game will be ineffective.

[Roosh]

You made a lot of mistakes. If you break up with a girl first then it usually is easy to get back to her if she's still single. But if she broke up with you first, it's a done deal. Move on.

As a side note, the reason she gave for breaking up with you was pretty distasteful and reason enough never to talk to her again.

[mulhollanddriven]

The problem isn't that you "lost" this girl. The problem is that you aren't getting any anywhere else and that is making you desperate. Desperation is a stinky cologne.

You are going through a dry spell. What happens during a dry spell is that you start going through your mental rolodex and trying to reignite old fires. Sadly, I know from experience that this does not work. In fact, even if you managed to nail this girl you would feel stupid.

If only there was some website out there that could give you pointers on how to get with some new women, and open your options up, and put YOU in control of how much sex you get instead of begging for handouts from exes....man wouldn't that be something?

[thegmanifesto]

Yeah, I think the boys covered this one.

Well past the time to move on.

Next time get a bunch of girls numbers and work them all at once. You might even find the girl comes back to you.

Go to London and hit up a rave or something.

They still have those there right?

- MPM
The Guide to Getting More out of Life
http://www.thegmanifesto.com

[evesy]

Thanks for your take on this guys, I guess I already knew the answer here but it’s good to have reassurance from others.

(09-21-2009 08:21 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

As a side note, the reason she gave for breaking up with you was pretty distasteful and reason enough never to talk to her again.

agreed!

[charmer]

i wish i could see a single case of one-itis (a guy interested ina girl more than she is) with a positive outcome.

[robreke]

Keep bumping into this girl I used to date a few years ago. We only went on like 4 or so dates. I actually had her in my apartment on our last date. I think she expected me to try to fuck her or at least really make out...but I was such a sickening nice guy beta...I didn't go for the kill. After being there about 2 hours she left claiming she had work early.

Like I said I was a beta then and only "kissed her goodnight" at the end of our dates. Also...she was kind of cute...but not very attractive then. But since I used to see her she's lost weight and looks toned and pretty hot.

I facebook friended her a few weeks ago after I bumped into her at the grocery and she friended me back. Then, I sent her a message on facebook but she didn't respond. I could see on her FB page she has a boyfriend.

I run into her today at wholefoods lunch bar and she was with her guy. I ignored her at first...just getting my food. She kept facing me with her body language and got right across from me at the bar....so I said "hey Sarah" we chatted for a minute or so and she asked me where I was going to workout as I had workout clothes on.

Her boyfriend stood within earshot...his back turned to us. She was smiling and giving good eye contact in talking. Not to brag, but I'm quite a bit better looking than her boyfriend and the way he dresses...well....not so good. I'm sure he's running beta boyfriend game.

I think she still likes he from her demeanor and body language...but she won't return the Facebook messages I've sent. I was thinking of trying to go for the seduction bang. Maybe send one more facebook message. I think she's got a 'chink in her armor' in terms of still liking me and I want to exploit it. Anyone pulled anything like this before?

[AneroidOcean]

(08-24-2014 12:26 PM)robreke Wrote:  

I think she still likes he from her demeanor and body language...but she won't return the Facebook messages I've sent. I was thinking of trying to go for the seduction bang. Maybe send one more facebook message. I think she's got a 'chink in her armor' in terms of still liking me and I want to exploit it. Anyone pulled anything like this before?

You're FB messaging her why? I would get her number, whether it's in front of her bf or not (you can always do it as a ploy to "catch up."

Get her number.

Maybe she checks her FB from her boyfriend's computer that they share.

Maybe she just doesn't want the trail that she can't delete.

Quit with the FB messages, sounds needy.