I am pretty sure I am overanalyzing every interaction I have on my approaches and I may be shooting myself in the foot.
For example...I just approached a girl sitting in a coffeeshop playing on her laptop...she was smiling and talking with some eye contact. She even asked where I was from after we talked about where she was from. But, when I dropped bait about my work...she said nothing. I also noticed her scratching her nose and stuff. When I asked her name and then I said "nice to meet you Molly" ....she didn't ask my name. So, I thanked her for the advice and left.
Did the same thing yesterday with another girl...who seemed "semi friendly" but at the end starts looking back to her laptop and does not ask my name when I ask hers. My thinking in these cases is why put yourself through a "no" and the "walk of shame" if you think, based on the signals during the interaction she's going to say no anyway.
What's the minimum "investment" you guys look for in order to ask a girl for her number? Smile and eye contact during conversation enough? I certainly know when I WON'T ask for a number....like eye contact avoidance and short answers.
I have been using the "name test" lately....and therefore not asking for numbers. That is, when I ask their name.....if they don't ask mine.....I just bail without going for the number. I got that tip from Corey Wayne of you tube fame.
For example...I just approached a girl sitting in a coffeeshop playing on her laptop...she was smiling and talking with some eye contact. She even asked where I was from after we talked about where she was from. But, when I dropped bait about my work...she said nothing. I also noticed her scratching her nose and stuff. When I asked her name and then I said "nice to meet you Molly" ....she didn't ask my name. So, I thanked her for the advice and left.
Did the same thing yesterday with another girl...who seemed "semi friendly" but at the end starts looking back to her laptop and does not ask my name when I ask hers. My thinking in these cases is why put yourself through a "no" and the "walk of shame" if you think, based on the signals during the interaction she's going to say no anyway.
What's the minimum "investment" you guys look for in order to ask a girl for her number? Smile and eye contact during conversation enough? I certainly know when I WON'T ask for a number....like eye contact avoidance and short answers.
I have been using the "name test" lately....and therefore not asking for numbers. That is, when I ask their name.....if they don't ask mine.....I just bail without going for the number. I got that tip from Corey Wayne of you tube fame.
- One planet orbiting a star. Billions of stars in the galaxy. Billions of galaxies in the universe. Approach.
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