[jackkincaid]

When I quit my job, I met a girl at a happy hour in my honor who had just joined the company.

We'd talked only briefly before but she gave a lot of IOIs starting with the line "I kept looking around for you after we met but never saw you so I thought I'd come out to this." Anyway I did OK, escalated to touching her hair and face, got her number, hugged her, then left.

I had to fly off for a business trip the next week so it was 6-7 days before I texted her. She took a long time to respond and gave very lukewarm responses (using possible snow in the forecast as a reason to delay the date), so I just stopped texting her and wrote it off.

Later I find her randomly on OKC and skim her profile, she's uber religious (though never goes to church, dislikes "organized" religion lol). Good for laffs. Then randomly I bump into her coming out of the metro and she is definitely a solid 8, as I had never seen her wearing summer clothes before. We talk briefly but again I don't really care to game her.

Now, I see she has joined the same Meetup I joined and will be at a happy hour tomorrow. All happenstance apparently. Any ideas on whether I should take a shot at this chick tomorrow? Or just say hi to her and go for the other chicks?

[JayNull]

There is no harm in trying. Either way you'll be around other girls so approach when you see her and if the conversation starts to go sour you can just move on and game others. Who knows, I say its worth trying regardless.

[kaotic]

(07-10-2014 02:33 PM)jackkincaid Wrote:  

Now, I see she has joined the same Meetup I joined and will be at a happy hour tomorrow. All happenstance apparently. Any ideas on whether I should take a shot at this chick tomorrow? Or just say hi to her and go for the other chicks?

"Ways to change a girl's mind?" - is a very misleading title.

Why WOULDN'T you take a shot at her ? You've got nothing to lose.

Why WOULDN'T you game other girls there ? You've got nothing to lose.

Sure game the girl you're focused on, but it shouldn't derail you from number closing other girls and banging them.

Just play it cool and see how reacts to you. If this girl isn't showing anymore IOI's then move onto the other girls. DO NOT mention anything you saw on her POF profile also.

[jackkincaid]

(07-10-2014 02:43 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(07-10-2014 02:33 PM)jackkincaid Wrote:  

Now, I see she has joined the same Meetup I joined and will be at a happy hour tomorrow. All happenstance apparently. Any ideas on whether I should take a shot at this chick tomorrow? Or just say hi to her and go for the other chicks?

"Ways to change a girl's mind?" - is a very misleading title.

Well, I guess I meant to say that I would LIKE to score with her, and wondered if there's anything game-specific for more conservative chicks. Pretty sure she flaked off because I came on with too much game.

[Saweeep]

Too much game?

You need to analyse and see where you went wrong…cause I promise you, you did somewhere.

No game worth playing is easy

[samsamsam]

Ways to change a girl's mind?

Just wait a few minutes, it will change.

[Dalaran1991]

You dont. You make her change her minds for you. Easiest way is to flirt and fuck other girls in front of her, starting with your meetup group. Then she will want to bang you. Win Win