First time user here with new account, just as well haven't lurked on the forum much previously so apologies if I make any mistakes. Please let me know lightly if I do.
Was reading several of the articles on Roosh's main page and in one of the comments section, a user responded with something to the effect to say that, in all of a guy's previous scores, there will be the occasional "gem", but unfortunately "game" teaches you to simply dump all chicks regardless and to move on and forget. But what about that great gem that you sooner or later realize was a true and great person, and not just a one-night slut? Great point.
I'm probably a bit older than the average user here (early 40s but still look fine, slender, all my hair etc). Several years ago I had a pickup, lay, and slept overnight with a girl. The relationship turned long-distance, but over the phone things got kinda lame and just a bit weird as girls often do, so I / we (I guess it was me) called it off. There was some real disappointment in her voice at the end -- big regret now on my part, but at the time I just thought she was another weird / needy young chick, or, "something like that", and just chalked it up to another score, and assumed it got messed up with the long-distance thing. Several years later (a few weeks ago) and I remembered that chick once again. The memories that best come back to mind is that she was "real, genuine, authentic" and wouldn't be a scheming bitch even if she knew how. Of the several chicks I'd been in bed with, she was the only one who really just gave of herself, eventually her body, and didn't even understand head games. It's worth adding that at the time, she told me (have no choice but to believe her) that I took her virginity.
In my storage boxes, I came across a single old hand-written letter she sent me, and it reflects a lot of the way I described her.
Anyhow the only reason I wanted to look her up is because of her otherwise "realness," something I value more than I did before. So many people in one way or another tend to prove a bit flaky in the end. Not this chick.
Not having even a clue as to what she's up to these days, I looked her up, because inside I knew I would always some day come across her again and say something to the effect of what a dick I acted like, and be happy enough to leave it at that, and maybe restart a friendship.
Few weeks ago, I looked her up on google and hoped to just get an email address (which I did) and just say a quick sorry for the way it ended and hoped she would understand. Loh and behold, I find out that the cute little innocent tshirt wearing gullible and nice young needy girl I snuggled around with grew up to be a successful PhD in astrophysics and now works as a directing scientist at well, basically the best company you could work for in science (I don't want to give too many specifics and end up disclosing identity). She's still early / mid 30s and is slender and looks fine. Talk about a gem (the person inside and her accomplishments out). I'm wondering how can a guy re-establish communications with a previous lay of which he broke off and show himself to still be the valuable guy he was who attracted her in the first place...
Was reading several of the articles on Roosh's main page and in one of the comments section, a user responded with something to the effect to say that, in all of a guy's previous scores, there will be the occasional "gem", but unfortunately "game" teaches you to simply dump all chicks regardless and to move on and forget. But what about that great gem that you sooner or later realize was a true and great person, and not just a one-night slut? Great point.
I'm probably a bit older than the average user here (early 40s but still look fine, slender, all my hair etc). Several years ago I had a pickup, lay, and slept overnight with a girl. The relationship turned long-distance, but over the phone things got kinda lame and just a bit weird as girls often do, so I / we (I guess it was me) called it off. There was some real disappointment in her voice at the end -- big regret now on my part, but at the time I just thought she was another weird / needy young chick, or, "something like that", and just chalked it up to another score, and assumed it got messed up with the long-distance thing. Several years later (a few weeks ago) and I remembered that chick once again. The memories that best come back to mind is that she was "real, genuine, authentic" and wouldn't be a scheming bitch even if she knew how. Of the several chicks I'd been in bed with, she was the only one who really just gave of herself, eventually her body, and didn't even understand head games. It's worth adding that at the time, she told me (have no choice but to believe her) that I took her virginity.
In my storage boxes, I came across a single old hand-written letter she sent me, and it reflects a lot of the way I described her.
Anyhow the only reason I wanted to look her up is because of her otherwise "realness," something I value more than I did before. So many people in one way or another tend to prove a bit flaky in the end. Not this chick.
Not having even a clue as to what she's up to these days, I looked her up, because inside I knew I would always some day come across her again and say something to the effect of what a dick I acted like, and be happy enough to leave it at that, and maybe restart a friendship.
Few weeks ago, I looked her up on google and hoped to just get an email address (which I did) and just say a quick sorry for the way it ended and hoped she would understand. Loh and behold, I find out that the cute little innocent tshirt wearing gullible and nice young needy girl I snuggled around with grew up to be a successful PhD in astrophysics and now works as a directing scientist at well, basically the best company you could work for in science (I don't want to give too many specifics and end up disclosing identity). She's still early / mid 30s and is slender and looks fine. Talk about a gem (the person inside and her accomplishments out). I'm wondering how can a guy re-establish communications with a previous lay of which he broke off and show himself to still be the valuable guy he was who attracted her in the first place...